Insight-Cancer woman dating Aries man

I know I should post this on the Aries board too, but would prefer other cancer women's opinions. How long have you been together? What are your common misunderstandings? What are your fights about? Have you caught your Aries in lies? Cheating? Just curious...

I must be about to meet an Aries because I am full of Ram thoughts today.

My relationships with Aries men have been brief, but the most enjoyable of them all.

An Aries guy helped me with editing several film projects in college. He was so patient, sweet and loving.
I had a horrible breakup with a Leo when we met and my father passed away at the same time. I was under a great deal of emotional stress and couldn't fully explore that relationship. He came to the funeral. He sat behind me and was strong and supportive.

He left for a warmer state, met a girl and started dating her. He was still contacting me telling me he missed me.
Several years later he came back to town for his film opening, I got him an interview on a popular radio show. It was fun because my radio host friend wanted to interview me too. 😄 The next day we both marched through China town; because Aries doesn't walk, they march; when he told me I was the prototype. I liked him but saw him more as a friend at this point. He went back to the other girl and married her. She is beautiful and of the same culture as he is. When my sister-in law died, guess who went to the funeral because I couldn't make it to town. Yep he went and met up with my family.

In high school, my cousin was dating this guy who brought his cousin along one day and he was gorgeous and kind. Kept staring at me. Turns out he was an Aries on the cusp of Taurus. I didn't give him the time of day nor attention because I was seeing this Water-unBearable. Then I found out the Aqua was cheating. I broke up with him and started seeing the Ram. It was the most easy, uncomplicated, loving, sensual relationship. I took him to meet my father, well my father (also an Aries) took him to the back room and had a long talk with him. The next day my Ram boyfriend is distant and telling me he was leaving for another state. 😢

I have another Aries male friend I've known for many years, of course we dated way back when we were in our early 20's. My father met him once and wanted to invite him to church. I blew up and said I may no longer be interested by the time we reach Sunday. It was Tuesday. 😛 We are just friends, no matter how long we are out of touch, when we meet it's like we never were apart. Let me poke him on Facebook right now!

lunarmaiden: i'm sure that was very informative for the OP.

Thank you Rig 🙂

Thank you for your thorough insight! 🙂

Hmmm...I sense sarcasm, however I could be wrong...who knows...😛

You are not wrong. 🙂

Oh I didn't realize you were being sarcastic...oh well. I guess not many cancer women date aries men. They seem to be the only sign that truly spark an interest with me, besides the occasional aqua who never lasts long. Must be my aqua moon, and gem mercury...was just curious if other cancers find them irresistible 🙂

Not sarcasm on my part. 😄

I seem to be attracted to air and fire as well.
Do you have a lot of fire and air in your chart?
Even if you don't have a lot of fire and air in your chart it could be opposites attract.
How do you feel in their presence?

Majority of my chart is fire and air! That does make sense...
I feel like we are so alike but complete opposites. It's challenging at times because of our possessive controlling and independent ways. But that just keeps things interesting. 🙂

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Posted by LunarMaiden

He left for a warmer state, met a girl and started dating her. He was still contacting me telling me he missed me.
Several years later he came back to town for his film opening, I got him an interview on a popular radio show. It was fun because my radio host friend wanted to interview me too. The next day we both marched through China town; because Aries doesn't walk, they march; when he told me I was the prototype. I liked him but saw him more as a friend at this point.

Outstanding LM.. I second the motion with R1gs.

Do you regret not allowing the potential opportunity for more feelings to develop?

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A part of me does, in fact when we have contact I think of what if.

Oh, lunarmaiden.
Run away.

I was married to an Aries for 20 years. Not bad in bed, at least when we were still in love. But once we had kids, that went all to hell. Miserable. Cheated, divorced me, turned the kids against me. Mean, spiteful, manipulative, all while doing his best to look golden.

Oh my God, girl, run.

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Oh, lunarmaiden.
Run away.

I was married to an Aries for 20 years. Not bad in bed, at least when we were still in love. But once we had kids, that went all to hell. Miserable. Cheated, divorced me, turned the kids against me. Mean, spiteful, manipulative, all while doing his best to look golden.

Oh my God, girl, run.

Even thought the Aries and I had a connection I never really had much passion for him.

WOW 20 years. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. My dad was an Aries. Nothing further to say.