LittlePisces
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Is he a committed cancer?
No one can answer that.
One thing that did catch my attention about Cancer/Pisces relationships is Neptune. For some reason, a lot of us cancers if not all of us have Neptune in Sag, which is a particular issue when dealing with Pisces in relationships,cause Neptune squares pisces sun.
"Neptune in synastry has often been associated with one person trying to deceive another person, but in reality, this happens much less frequently than the following, more probable scenario: the Neptune person tends to "play along" with the personal planet person's image, and the intention is not to hurt that person. What can happen is that the Neptune person ends up promising more than he or she can give. If the Neptune person eventually backs out, or slips away slowly, the Sun person can feel saddened and even slighted, feeling that Neptune was misleading.
Misunderstandings can be the result, and every attempt should be made to keep the dreams and visions of the relationship not only realistic, but also clear and defined. In most cases, Neptune does not want to hurt Sun, and this may be the motivating factor behind Neptune's tendency to avoid bursting Sun's bubble. The Sun person should attempt to avoid putting the Neptune person on a pedestal as well. Both of you should consciously try to avoid offering each other unrealistic hopes. They will come back to haunt you! (In the sense that they will undermine your relationship, and possibly to the point of little chance of recovery).
The important thing to remember, with the square and opposition, is that although the Sun person seems to want to see the best in a Neptune person, people are not able to completely snow themselves. The Sun person will eventually feel a certain level of mistrust, and might even swing from seeing the Neptune person as completely wonderful to seeing that person as someone who is completely evil. The ups and downs can be taxing. The Sun person should remember that if he or she has to make excuses for the Neptune person (whether those excuses are made to others or to oneself), then they are not seeing the Neptune person clearly. They are truly not accepting that person, warts and all. "
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_neptune_aspects.html<BR>
One thing that did catch my attention about Cancer/Pisces relationships is Neptune. For some reason, a lot of us cancers if not all of us have Neptune in Sag, which is a particular issue when dealing with Pisces in relationships,cause Neptune squares pisces sun.
"Neptune in synastry has often been associated with one person trying to deceive another person, but in reality, this happens much less frequently than the following, more probable scenario: the Neptune person tends to "play along" with the personal planet person's image, and the intention is not to hurt that person. What can happen is that the Neptune person ends up promising more than he or she can give. If the Neptune person eventually backs out, or slips away slowly, the Sun person can feel saddened and even slighted, feeling that Neptune was misleading.
Misunderstandings can be the result, and every attempt should be made to keep the dreams and visions of the relationship not only realistic, but also clear and defined. In most cases, Neptune does not want to hurt Sun, and this may be the motivating factor behind Neptune's tendency to avoid bursting Sun's bubble. The Sun person should attempt to avoid putting the Neptune person on a pedestal as well. Both of you should consciously try to avoid offering each other unrealistic hopes. They will come back to haunt you! (In the sense that they will undermine your relationship, and possibly to the point of little chance of recovery).
The important thing to remember, with the square and opposition, is that although the Sun person seems to want to see the best in a Neptune person, people are not able to completely snow themselves. The Sun person will eventually feel a certain level of mistrust, and might even swing from seeing the Neptune person as completely wonderful to seeing that person as someone who is completely evil. The ups and downs can be taxing. The Sun person should remember that if he or she has to make excuses for the Neptune person (whether those excuses are made to others or to oneself), then they are not seeing the Neptune person clearly. They are truly not accepting that person, warts and all. "
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_neptune_aspects.html<BR>
flirty is fine....
but is he a one-woman flirt? :p
but is he a one-woman flirt? :p
Ascendant Scorpio 3.38
Moon Libra 7.03
Mercury Aquarius 16.18
Venus Aquarius 0.32
Mars Scorpio 18.10
Jupiter Capricorn 6.07
Saturn Scorpio 16.22
Uranus Sagittarius 13.14
Neptune Capricorn 0.56
Pluto Scorpio 2.04 R
Lilith Pisces 7.47
Asc node Gemini 12.35
I initially thought water signs go well together..
oops....
what didn't work out for you, Craabmoon?
Moon Libra 7.03
Mercury Aquarius 16.18
Venus Aquarius 0.32
Mars Scorpio 18.10
Jupiter Capricorn 6.07
Saturn Scorpio 16.22
Uranus Sagittarius 13.14
Neptune Capricorn 0.56
Pluto Scorpio 2.04 R
Lilith Pisces 7.47
Asc node Gemini 12.35
I initially thought water signs go well together..
oops....
what didn't work out for you, Craabmoon?
Gemini Venus ... It is not bad people, we're not cheaters ugh.
Flirt? It depends of your definition of flirt Socializing it is not flirt, by the way, every crab needs some space.
exactly...i have venus in gemini and a mentally stimulating conversationalist can only stay in my mind..others are a bore!
you need to undress me mentally before seeing me in the sheets! :p
Flirt? It depends of your definition of flirt Socializing it is not flirt, by the way, every crab needs some space.
exactly...i have venus in gemini and a mentally stimulating conversationalist can only stay in my mind..others are a bore!
you need to undress me mentally before seeing me in the sheets! :p
conversation.....
that doesn't sound too bad.
does it mean he's all talk and no action?
that will create a lot of disappointment in the end...
that doesn't sound too bad.
does it mean he's all talk and no action?
that will create a lot of disappointment in the end...
@little pisces
yeah you have to take some initiative to get physical...or start dating him. i m cancer sun and scorp moon and i am a bit rejection fearing! so better if some positive signs come from the girl then we are all theirs! but you need to get things started if they are not rolling. and by conversation i dont mean dull day to day talk...u better digga art and culture...atleast be able to talk about various aspects of life and stuff...something new everyday. not some damn tv show you watch everyday....like say books...or movies or gadgets...fashion wateva. we like a well groomed girl who is overall social and witty..knows all aspects of life and is mature! thats very important too.
yeah you have to take some initiative to get physical...or start dating him. i m cancer sun and scorp moon and i am a bit rejection fearing! so better if some positive signs come from the girl then we are all theirs! but you need to get things started if they are not rolling. and by conversation i dont mean dull day to day talk...u better digga art and culture...atleast be able to talk about various aspects of life and stuff...something new everyday. not some damn tv show you watch everyday....like say books...or movies or gadgets...fashion wateva. we like a well groomed girl who is overall social and witty..knows all aspects of life and is mature! thats very important too.
Posted by LittlePisces
conversation.....
that doesn't sound too bad.
does it mean he's all talk and no action?
that will create a lot of disappointment in the end...
Not at all. I personally back up all my talk with actions and I can't stand folks who are the opposite.
I am a flirt, I'll just admit it without any spin. I love to conversate about anything, but please have some knowledge and depth, because I can't do stupid.
btw...I'm Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon and Venus Gemini.
He is a bit older than you, isn't he?
Posted by Craabmoon
@ Pisces
Can you?
Keep him busy?
He's demanding. 😉
omg..
is he?
(blush)
in what way.....
Posted by incandescentcancer
He is a bit older than you, isn't he?
he is a bit older.
4 years older.
perfect age for me actually.
he seem to be an all-or-nothing guy.
He wanted to know now and wouldn't take his time with me.
I'm reserved and wasn't ready to jump in anything with him.
He ignored my messages earlier.
when I approached him again after a long while, he replied again.
saying hey...surprised to hear from you.
lol
is that going to be a problem?
I share almost everything.....
Maybe I should start being secretive too~~ just for the sake of it :p
is that going to be a problem?
I share almost everything.....
Maybe I should start being secretive too~~ just for the sake of it :p
Craabmoon...
you're a female version of this guy in question.
what's going on.. ...
so
1) you started flirting
2) i reciprocated but moved very slowly
3) you flicked me off because I don't want to jump into it
4) i started talking to you after a while
5) you responded but stopped
6) i just messaged you
7) you went.. hey pretty lady, surprise to hear from you. i'm doing great. i'm currently out of town now and having a blast!
should i just forget it already, Craabmoon?
you're a female version of this guy in question.
what's going on.. ...
so
1) you started flirting
2) i reciprocated but moved very slowly
3) you flicked me off because I don't want to jump into it
4) i started talking to you after a while
5) you responded but stopped
6) i just messaged you
7) you went.. hey pretty lady, surprise to hear from you. i'm doing great. i'm currently out of town now and having a blast!
should i just forget it already, Craabmoon?
Posted by LittlePisces
Craabmoon...
you're a female version of this guy in question.
what's going on.. ...
so
1) you started flirting
2) i reciprocated but moved very slowly
3) you flicked me off because I don't want to jump into it
4) i started talking to you after a while
5) you responded but stopped
6) i just messaged you
7) you went.. hey pretty lady, surprise to hear from you. i'm doing great. i'm currently out of town now and having a blast!
should i just forget it already, Craabmoon?
Yes, he wanted sex you backed off and he ran away. If you're looking for sex pursue him and if you want a relationship walk away.
that's disappointing.....
i want a relationship >
i want a relationship >
Posted by LittlePisces
that's disappointing.....
i want a relationship >
Yes, if you want to waste time and get hurt. come on little fish you can do better.
I shall keep looking then...
That was me. (shamed)
It's kinda stupid of me to want to jump into another relationship so soon, huh?
I want to find out more before I do anything.
Crabby and I lost touch a while back when I told him I only wanted to be friends.
Then Sag and I began seeing each other.
Crabby works abroad, he's out of town for a long period of time. Since he had no plans of coming back home, I explicitly told him that long-distance wouldn't work with me.
He reluctantly accepted it and we kept it light as friends.
There was no effort from either of us and slowly we lost touch. I initiated a few times to talk again but I rarely get responses. I figured, he probably hates me? That makes sense.
Now that I'm free and I want to move on.
I wanna see if it would have worked out, even with the long distance.
If the crab is compatible, I want to see how things can go with the Crabby, if it's not too late. I don't want to jump in with two feet again. Instead, I want to get to know him more and pick up where we left off. It's tough with this Crabby. I can't even get close to get to know him.
He wanted me in with open arms or get out, right?
Nahhhh what if he's not what he seems...
I hope the astrology analysis can help me a bit
It's kinda stupid of me to want to jump into another relationship so soon, huh?
I want to find out more before I do anything.
Crabby and I lost touch a while back when I told him I only wanted to be friends.
Then Sag and I began seeing each other.
Crabby works abroad, he's out of town for a long period of time. Since he had no plans of coming back home, I explicitly told him that long-distance wouldn't work with me.
He reluctantly accepted it and we kept it light as friends.
There was no effort from either of us and slowly we lost touch. I initiated a few times to talk again but I rarely get responses. I figured, he probably hates me? That makes sense.
Now that I'm free and I want to move on.
I wanna see if it would have worked out, even with the long distance.
If the crab is compatible, I want to see how things can go with the Crabby, if it's not too late. I don't want to jump in with two feet again. Instead, I want to get to know him more and pick up where we left off. It's tough with this Crabby. I can't even get close to get to know him.
He wanted me in with open arms or get out, right?
Nahhhh what if he's not what he seems...
I hope the astrology analysis can help me a bit
LittlePisces is just being a Pisces
Thinking about lost loves and dreaming about their *potential*. What could of been... not necessarily what *is* or *was*
If you were seeing this Sagg without really having much contact with him... I'd say that you have a habit of having relationships in your head and not so much in reality.
I think you should stop trying to be in a relationship until you figure out... clearly... what a relationship looks like to you.
Thinking about lost loves and dreaming about their *potential*. What could of been... not necessarily what *is* or *was*
If you were seeing this Sagg without really having much contact with him... I'd say that you have a habit of having relationships in your head and not so much in reality.
I think you should stop trying to be in a relationship until you figure out... clearly... what a relationship looks like to you.
Posted by JynjaPosted by LittlePisces
Ascendant Scorpio 3.38
Moon Libra 7.03
Mercury Aquarius 16.18
Venus Aquarius 0.32
Mars Scorpio 18.10
Jupiter Capricorn 6.07
Saturn Scorpio 16.22
Uranus Sagittarius 13.14
Neptune Capricorn 0.56
Pluto Scorpio 2.04 R
Lilith Pisces 7.47
Asc node Gemini 12.35
I initially thought water signs go well together..
oops....
what didn't work out for you, Craabmoon?
Is this your chart, LittlePisces?
If so, why did you delete your sun sign and the degrees?click to expand
Oops...
I did not notice I deleted it.
My bad..
Let me find it again.
Okie found it
Sun Pisces 0.10
Sorry~ I'm a clumsy fish
Thank you so much!
Posted by shellshocker
LittlePisces is just being a Pisces
Thinking about lost loves and dreaming about their *potential*. What could of been... not necessarily what *is* or *was*
If you were seeing this Sagg without really having much contact with him... I'd say that you have a habit of having relationships in your head and not so much in reality.
I think you should stop trying to be in a relationship until you figure out... clearly... what a relationship looks like to you.
(shamed)
yes.
I do have a habit of dreaming about the relationship than living in reality.
I can easily be.. in love when there's no love at all in reality.
Boooooo..... When I wake up from this beautiful dream, oh the heartache.
This Cancerian brings me back to the ground a bit...
is it a fatal match?
I don't want to rush into a relationship right now but I wanna read him up first....
okie I'll be careful not to be in a relationship in my head before actually being in a relationship.
Noted.
^^^ I don't think it's a bad thing... you just have to be honest about it.
Cancers can live very much in their heads as well, it is so very nice in there. *la sigh*
I am a big fan of this paring but you do have to communicate and be vulnerable... but not in the way most people would think
Cancers can live very much in their heads as well, it is so very nice in there. *la sigh*
I am a big fan of this paring but you do have to communicate and be vulnerable... but not in the way most people would think
Posted by shellshocker
^^^ I don't think it's a bad thing... you just have to be honest about it.
Cancers can live very much in their heads as well, it is so very nice in there. *la sigh*
I am a big fan of this paring but you do have to communicate and be vulnerable... but not in the way most people would think
Two dreamers 🙂
That's romantic.
I think it's beneficial to have that in us when in a long distance relationship.
He doesn't seem to have a lot of patience...
does he?
But we could both be dreaming about different things.
Thanks for your advice!
Honesty is the key.
Posted by Jynja
Well, you know, your sun to his moon is actually square. And Bommy gave you a head start it seems - you have Neptune opposite his sun - which is not really an easy position for a relationship.
However, this is such a sketchy chart without the houses so we don't know where what is placed and how you'll be able to relate to each other or how you can try to beat your challenges.
If I had to feel out this chart though, I'd say he has a secret desire to settle down and is likely hoping to meet the person who will understand him well and make the sacrifice to go be with him.
Your mars is conjunct his moon though, so you likely have an obsessive need to possess him. Like Shell said though, it's all in your head right now. If he comes back where you are, though, I imagine it will be a different matter.
I just remembered something Cancerian told me earlier.
He thought I was too caged in my parent's world. I really need to get out there and start something of my own.
When you said he probably want me to make sacrifice to go be with him, it makes sense.
I do feel like he wants to settle down with the right person but his job doesn't allow him to do that unless the right lady is willing to make sacrifice for him.
Wow that would be very new hehee..but it's possible that this fish meets a crab and wants him all to herself.
I don't like to be tied down and so far I've been diplomatic.
Crabby might bring out the possessiveness in me :p uh oh.
Would it be better if he's back in town?
....probably wait till then...
Posted by LittlePisces
I just remembered something Cancerian told me earlier.
He thought I was too caged in my parent's world. I really need to get out there and start something of my own.
When you said he probably want me to make sacrifice to go be with him, it makes sense.
I do feel like he wants to settle down with the right person but his job doesn't allow him to do that unless the right lady is willing to make sacrifice for him.
Wow that would be very new hehee..but it's possible that this fish meets a crab and wants him all to herself.
I don't like to be tied down and so far I've been diplomatic.
Crabby might bring out the possessiveness in me :p uh oh.
Would it be better if he's back in town?
....probably wait till then...
What you really need to do is to take a cold shower and calm down 🙂. If you lose your balance early in the relationship and give in to him, you will never be able to regain the balance. He will use you and chase someone else. Don't let it happen. From my personal experience with pisces women you have very high risk of falling into the other woman position. Be smart like I said earlier.
Posted by PoissonPosted by LittlePisces
Two dreamers 🙂
That's romantic.
I literally just envisioned your pupils dilate and your heart and mind fly over the clouds when I read that. Come back down to earth, babydoll. LOL
Looks good on paper, but you have to look at this pragmatically also 🙂click to expand
LOL yesss....
I did that.
he is coming back!
but maybe for a couple of days or something.
i won't chase.
not this one.
not this time...
but maybe for a couple of days or something.
i won't chase.
not this one.
not this time...
Little Pisces, I am not sure how old you are. But you sound young. Why dont you just relax and see him if he asks? Enjoy life and have fun! You are both romantics so it should be roses and wine.lol. If it doesnt work out, thats ok too. We cant go through life waiting for everything to be just so. It doesnt work that way.
I'm just tempted to put my focus else where...
it's not a good idea...
talking about it helps.
it's not a good idea...
talking about it helps.
You can't tell from sign placements. It has more to do with prior relationships and family dynamics. Btw, I have venus in gemini and I'm no flirt and no cheater either. I keep my thing buttoned down like it's the freaking CIA. All I'm saying is some interpretations of signs & aspects don't compute. My ex was a gemini. They're *supposed* to be natural cheaters and he wasn't. You judge a man by his actions. Not his words or sign placements. Good luck!
🙂
That's true.
It does have a lot to do with family dynamic and a person's history and background.
He is more than just a chart of astrology stats.
I should get to know him for who he is instead of reading too much into his chart.
I was being too narrow minded and read way too much into charts for so long with limited knowledge in it to begin with.
I looked at my own chart and thought wow, I can relate to everything.
Unfortunately,I completely neglected the fact that I am just one in many who could relate to birth chart. I asked my friends if their chart applied to them and they didn't think it was 100% accurate. There were some relavencies in it but merely a mold of their life. I, on the other hand, has taken it like it's a mold of my life. I should take it with a grain of salt.
That's true.
It does have a lot to do with family dynamic and a person's history and background.
He is more than just a chart of astrology stats.
I should get to know him for who he is instead of reading too much into his chart.
I was being too narrow minded and read way too much into charts for so long with limited knowledge in it to begin with.
I looked at my own chart and thought wow, I can relate to everything.
Unfortunately,I completely neglected the fact that I am just one in many who could relate to birth chart. I asked my friends if their chart applied to them and they didn't think it was 100% accurate. There were some relavencies in it but merely a mold of their life. I, on the other hand, has taken it like it's a mold of my life. I should take it with a grain of salt.
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