Poppyseeds
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Is he a real gentleman? or wolf in sheep skin?
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Posted by thinktoomuchwhat else would you like me to mention? haha
So weird how you mention how long your dates are on the hour....
Wolfsheep
Posted by thinktoomuchI feel unusually comfortable, never had so much similarity with someone, and he even seems to be on the same page as physical stuff and didn't push for anything.. which is why I was confused.. like this is too good to be true?Posted by PoppyseedsHow you really feel about it. There is a reason you keep coming here and making topics about him, so make up your mind. Nobody here can tell you anything either way, because having a 6 hour date does´t really tell anything...Posted by thinktoomuchwhat else would you like me to mention? haha
So weird how you mention how long your dates are on the hour....click to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchgoing celibate could be the best option..
How should a bunch of strangers from across the world with different cultural settings on dating and love be able to tell you? Based on that you have gone on 5 dates that all lasted 6 hours. Regardless, if you can´t trust yourself in a dating sitation it´s only ever gonna end badly.
Posted by thinktoomuchI reckon you're thinking too much
How should a bunch of strangers from across the world with different cultural settings on dating and love be able to tell you? Based on that you have gone on 5 dates that all lasted 6 hours. Regardless, if you can´t trust yourself in a dating sitation it´s only ever gonna end badly.
Posted by AriesLoveNo, but the first man who is emotionally available (seems to be)
I feel sick to my stomach reading some of these threads.
How can people fawn all over others like this?!?
Just live DAM! Give your crazed mind a break sometime. I mean is this the first man you ever dated?!?
Posted by thinktoomuchYou are most welcomePosted by LibWmanOkay. Thanks for sharing.Posted by thinktoomuchI reckon you're thinking too much
How should a bunch of strangers from across the world with different cultural settings on dating and love be able to tell you? Based on that you have gone on 5 dates that all lasted 6 hours. Regardless, if you can´t trust yourself in a dating sitation it´s only ever gonna end badly.click to expand
Posted by AriesLoveHe is aware of my value, will go slow.. Been 6 weeks since we met... definitely taking it slow and will continue to do so.Posted by PoppyseedsYou don't know this. Men will do and say anything to get what they want. Women too. A women could be a lazy, dirty, yuck mouth. But will pretend she is Gods gift to a man she really wants. Later on it all comes out.Posted by AriesLoveNo, but the first man who is emotionally available (seems to be)
I feel sick to my stomach reading some of these threads.
How can people fawn all over others like this?!?
Just live DAM! Give your crazed mind a break sometime. I mean is this the first man you ever dated?!?
What is your goal with this relationship? Ask yourself that first. What are you ready for?
Just take it slow and don't read into 6 hrs this, 5 dates that. Just be yourself and have limitations so you can keep your emotional composure.click to expand
Dude wants to spend 6 hours on a date with no intimacy and you think he's a wolf? He's a freaking Saint and you should be having his babies
Posted by PoppyseedsWelp 5 more seconds and y'all could have been married.
Last date he slide his hand into my back pocket for about 10 secs.
Posted by AriesLoveRight. People are too into instant gratification instead of building a great partnership.Posted by thinktoomuchWhat culture is that? I live in the dirty south.
See that´s ^^ what I mean. In my culture that sounds totally preposterous! A year of dating and no sex? Why? Why not find out wether or not you are sexually compatible? And then for the poster up there it makes perfect sense. Make your own decision.
It's not about sexual compatibility first of all. Sex can be good with anyone it's up to the 2 people involved. I'd rather have a relationship built on trust, friendship, communication, loyalty than sex...that's the easiest part of a relationship.
I doubt it would even make it a year. That's why I gave the 2 scenarios.
But still to screw everyone you date?!! Cmon now that's whorish culture.click to expand
He seems alright, like thinktoomuch said there's not enough info and like arieslove said, there's some gut-instinct you have to rely on. What culture are you in OP?
I'm European, gut instinct tells me I can trust him.. it's something I'm haven't felt before..
Posted by AriesLoveWe've all given the OP this same advice on the multitude of threads she's posted deconstructing every moment, every word, every gesture between them. Like chill shorty!
I feel sick to my stomach reading some of these threads.
How can people fawn all over others like this?!?
Just live DAM! Give your crazed mind a break sometime. I mean is this the first man you ever dated?!?
But she'd rather psycho analyze than enjoy the ride.
Posted by LadyNeptuneTis the Virgo way!Posted by AriesLoveWe've all given the OP this same advice on the multitude of threads she's posted deconstructing every moment, every word, every gesture between them. Like chill shorty!
I feel sick to my stomach reading some of these threads.
How can people fawn all over others like this?!?
Just live DAM! Give your crazed mind a break sometime. I mean is this the first man you ever dated?!?
But she'd rather psycho analyze than enjoy the ride.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneMay be you should tell everyone this, and people will stop posting questins on the site.Posted by AriesLoveWe've all given the OP this same advice on the multitude of threads she's posted deconstructing every moment, every word, every gesture between them. Like chill shorty!
I feel sick to my stomach reading some of these threads.
How can people fawn all over others like this?!?
Just live DAM! Give your crazed mind a break sometime. I mean is this the first man you ever dated?!?
But she'd rather psycho analyze than enjoy the ride.click to expand
Being celibate is a good idea never know what's out there ..actually make sure they get tested before sex.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I always tell my exs to get tested before sex.
Being celibate is a good idea never know what's out there ..actually make sure they get tested before sex.
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