Is it safe to open

up to a cancer man about my feelings for him... we have been on and off since 2006... and the last two break ups were never really break ups we just parted ways without saying anything .. and now we are at a point were we are communicating again, but I haven't been involved, interested or dated anyone since he and I were last together.. and I have never really told him how I honestly feel about him and to make matters worse when I try to I get choked up and either talk about something irrelevant or focus on him...

I am afraid of my telling him I how I really about him and then he just does what he does best disappear into that shell of his or worse tell me he's not feeling me and does not want to work it out...

I keep hearing how emotional Cancers are but I am afraid to show him mine... and to be honest I am a big girl I've been hurt before so I guess I could get over it and deal with him not wanting to be with me... I don't know I need your opinion...

When we were good we were GREAT... I LOVED LOVING him in EVERY sense...

Help do I open up and tell him how I feel or do I keep pretending that it doesn't matter either way....

He has mentioned that we should put our past behind us... but I am still nervous...

Hellpppppp!!!

just open up. u can do it.

Thank you for your reply ninjamu... I am going to try this... he has been following a routine calling before he goes to bed and when he wakes up so if he calls tonight I am going to TRY and hopefully I wont chicken out....

after 3 years... I don't think you should be holding back on anything.