Sagaussi
@Sagaussi
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Is my cancer man emotionally abusive, or just being Cancer?
I've read just some sentences and: It's abuse. There's no excuses for abuse; no sign is an abuser, ppl are.
Also, a chart can show potential abuse done/received; but is just a possibility, everyone can choose.
You are a complete human being, your independence is yours, your life is yours.
You don't owe him nothing, his happiness is his task. You have your own path, try to be conscious and not hurt others nor you.
Also, a chart can show potential abuse done/received; but is just a possibility, everyone can choose.
You are a complete human being, your independence is yours, your life is yours.
You don't owe him nothing, his happiness is his task. You have your own path, try to be conscious and not hurt others nor you.
The folks here on dxp are funny...Lol
Posted by SagaussiYep, you will be threatened and blamed with this over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over until you realize you're stupid for expecting anything different from such an immature manbaby, and leave him instead.
But when he kept getting uncontrollably angry on our calls, would threaten me that he'd leave forever and block me and I'd never hear from him again, would insult me many times and call me names, and would BLAME me for his behaviour.....
cease all contact and never look back
He's a toxic ahole nothing to do with zodiac.
There is no reason to write an essay. You already know you're with a toxic abuser. Listen to your gut and drop him. Ain't nobody got time to play mommy to someone's rotten spawn.
Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to an Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by SeraphlightWho me?
You can't resist us 😛
Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by aquarius09Would you like a test drive for 5 minutes?Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Run before we eat your soul.
Posted by SecretWell, since Aquarians are experimental, let's do it.Posted by aquarius09Would you like a test drive for 5 minutes?Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by SagaussiSounds like this relationship is already over. I wish you luck on your next.
Hi,I've been looking at this forum now for weeks and finally posting hoping for some solid advice. I'm a Sagittarian girl and met a Cancer guy while travelling mid last year.
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I'm so confused and feel miserable and sad and sick constantly and nervous to talk to him... which is not how a sag should normally feel. I want to be my positive happy optimistic self again. The worst part is that i am here in his city for 9 days then i leave to go on a holiday and he has a flight booked to meet me there after one week and stay 3.5 weeks with me. If we break up now i don't knew what he'll do. I don't want him to waste his money and i don't want him to go there being sad and miserable. I just want him to be happy.but i don't believe i can ever make him happy. We are just too different.
Posted by aquarius09Ok. Meet me here tomorrow at 4pm ET. Come alone and bring 3 yellow umbrellas.Posted by SecretWell, since Aquarians are experimental, let's do it.Posted by aquarius09Would you like a test drive for 5 minutes?Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by SecretNoted. See you tomorrowPosted by aquarius09Ok. Meet me here tomorrow at 4pm ET. Come alone and bring 3 yellow umbrellas.Posted by SecretWell, since Aquarians are experimental, let's do it.Posted by aquarius09Would you like a test drive for 5 minutes?Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Paragraph breaks are your friend!
"Hi,I've been looking at this forum now for weeks and finally posting hoping for some solid advice. I'm a Sagittarian girl and met a Cancer guy while travelling mid last year. We exchanged contact details and texted for about two months before I thought I'd try going back to his city and seeing if anything comes of it (up to that point nothing other than friendship had happened between us but I was very attracted to him and figured since he wrote to me almost every day he might be feeling the same way). I had 5 weeks with him before I had to leave to go back to my country. We got together on the third day and had the most beautiful weeks together and I was full of hope for the future. I had to leave for two months to visit home but I booked flights to come right back to him. Our problems began only two days after I left. I was searching to understand him and us better and knew he was a cancer so I looked up his star sign and then ended up checking our compatibility.
All I saw was disaster and warning bells. I ignored it though as I believe with enough work and understanding everything is possible. But the more time passed the more we followed nearly textbook cancer/sag combo. Everything I saw written about this combination was happening. I tried so hard to resist and NOT to behave like a Sag but it was so hard because he never saw any of the efforts I made and constantly accused me of being cold and heartless, of putting him last, of not caring about him. I kept thinking it was just the distance making it worse and if I could hold on until I saw him again it would all be fine. But we kept fighting and finally one day after I'd stupidly let loose another of my sag arrows he decided we would take a break for however long it would take until I realise that I needed him by my side. The thing is, I'm a Sag! I don't need anyone, I resent that kind of thinking, I know whatever happens that I'll be OK and can make it on my own, there's always a rainbow somewhere. ... well I at least had the sense not to say that but the break turned into weeks during which time he became increasingly nasty.
At first I kept trying to understand his thinking and excused his behaviour by thinking he is just acting as a typical hurt crab,hiding in his shell and snapping at me. But when he kept getting uncontrollably angry on our calls, would threaten me that he'd leave forever and block me and I'd never hear from him again, would insult me many times and call me names, and would BLAME me for his behaviour even when he deliberately tried to hurt me by saying he had a new gf and after then saying no that wasn't true he by his own admission told me he'd said that in order to "f#** with you"...then when I told him the beautiful gentleman I'd fallen in love with when i met him would never have been so cruel, he told me "you pushed me,you made me like this", blaming me entirely for his behaviour."
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Fuck it. I tried. I got lost in that mess of a wall of text. I am getting a headache.
"Hi,I've been looking at this forum now for weeks and finally posting hoping for some solid advice. I'm a Sagittarian girl and met a Cancer guy while travelling mid last year. We exchanged contact details and texted for about two months before I thought I'd try going back to his city and seeing if anything comes of it (up to that point nothing other than friendship had happened between us but I was very attracted to him and figured since he wrote to me almost every day he might be feeling the same way). I had 5 weeks with him before I had to leave to go back to my country. We got together on the third day and had the most beautiful weeks together and I was full of hope for the future. I had to leave for two months to visit home but I booked flights to come right back to him. Our problems began only two days after I left. I was searching to understand him and us better and knew he was a cancer so I looked up his star sign and then ended up checking our compatibility.
All I saw was disaster and warning bells. I ignored it though as I believe with enough work and understanding everything is possible. But the more time passed the more we followed nearly textbook cancer/sag combo. Everything I saw written about this combination was happening. I tried so hard to resist and NOT to behave like a Sag but it was so hard because he never saw any of the efforts I made and constantly accused me of being cold and heartless, of putting him last, of not caring about him. I kept thinking it was just the distance making it worse and if I could hold on until I saw him again it would all be fine. But we kept fighting and finally one day after I'd stupidly let loose another of my sag arrows he decided we would take a break for however long it would take until I realise that I needed him by my side. The thing is, I'm a Sag! I don't need anyone, I resent that kind of thinking, I know whatever happens that I'll be OK and can make it on my own, there's always a rainbow somewhere. ... well I at least had the sense not to say that but the break turned into weeks during which time he became increasingly nasty.
At first I kept trying to understand his thinking and excused his behaviour by thinking he is just acting as a typical hurt crab,hiding in his shell and snapping at me. But when he kept getting uncontrollably angry on our calls, would threaten me that he'd leave forever and block me and I'd never hear from him again, would insult me many times and call me names, and would BLAME me for his behaviour even when he deliberately tried to hurt me by saying he had a new gf and after then saying no that wasn't true he by his own admission told me he'd said that in order to "f#** with you"...then when I told him the beautiful gentleman I'd fallen in love with when i met him would never have been so cruel, he told me "you pushed me,you made me like this", blaming me entirely for his behaviour."
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Fuck it. I tried. I got lost in that mess of a wall of text. I am getting a headache.
Posted by aquarius09See you tomorrow. Hide these posts now because i don't want Seraphlight to see them. She has been stalking me.Posted by SecretNoted. See you tomorrowPosted by aquarius09Ok. Meet me here tomorrow at 4pm ET. Come alone and bring 3 yellow umbrellas.Posted by SecretWell, since Aquarians are experimental, let's do it.Posted by aquarius09Would you like a test drive for 5 minutes?Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Posted by SecretLOL. Another cancer. ?Posted by aquarius09See you tomorrow. Hide these posts now because i don't want Seraphlight to see them. She has been stalking me.Posted by SecretNoted. See you tomorrowPosted by aquarius09Ok. Meet me here tomorrow at 4pm ET. Come alone and bring 3 yellow umbrellas.Posted by SecretWell, since Aquarians are experimental, let's do it.Posted by aquarius09Would you like a test drive for 5 minutes?Posted by SecretGood thing I've never loved a Cancer before. Sometimes I wonder what it's like for a man to fly of their handle. I don't recall ever witnessing it. My cancer friends just cry but that's as far as they go.Posted by aquarius09Oh and one more thing... If you ever fall in love with a Cancer, be careful, it's a trap...Posted by SecretThat's right! Intricate with capital I for sure ?Posted by aquarius09I would never date a Cancer... This is a warning to everybody too. People should never date Cancers. You are signing a contract to a Intricate expedition.Posted by SecretDo you pull nonsense like this too seeing as you're Cancer and all? ??Posted by aquarius09It's too long. I can't deal with cancer problems, too complex...
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Thanks all for your responses. Yes I know my post was long, I guess it was a kind of therapy- I needed to write it all out and get things straight in my head. Also apologies to any cancerians who took offense to what I wrote as the subject line. My reason for that subject really was just searching for answers, I want to understand him, I feel like he is being emotionally abusive however a lot of things may be simply attributed to his cancerian qualities of being very possessive and needy and just mix so badly with my sag need for freedom and trust.
This has nothing to do with being a Cancer. He's a dick.
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