Is She Into You?

been at the restaurant for five minutes and you are discussing some random topic, now look her directly in the eye and note her reaction. Does she look right back or you, or does she divert her eyes elsewhere?

EYE CONTACT is one of the major body signs that show a person is interested in you. If they like you and have an interest in what you are saying, their eyes will be focused on yours. Eye contact should be the first thing you notice whenever you meet anyone. It could be a dead giveaway that the girl at Starbucks really does like you.

Second note WHERE HER HANDS ARE. When people are sexually attracted to another person they will subconsciously touch their own body parts that they think are sexually attractive, to bring attention to them. She may be biting her lip or leaning forward to enhance her cleavage. It could be something very subtle like scratching her arm and inadvertently rubbing her breasts. If you have been dating for a while, she may be bolder and find ways to touch you during the conversation. She could brush against your hand or put her hand on your knee while you talk, all of which mean that she is into you.

So when she asks herself, "What kind of a man am I looking for?", she naturally wants one who is safe -- like a friend -- but still sexually attractive to her -- like a stranger. Thus she says, "Friendship first."

She doesn't want friendship, she wants to feel _safe_, yet _excited_. The problem is, most men who are good at making women feel safe do it by going the "friends" route, and end up never getting sex, just hearing about her sex with other men when she comes to him to cry about how bad some other guy is treating her.

The trick is to be willing to go slowly -- like a "friend" -- while at the same time making your romantic interest known right away, doing the flirting moves, conducting romantic conversations, and doing everything we talk about in the tape series.

You may even tell a woman you want to go slowly, too, if this is true for you -- most of the best seducers know that being willing to go slowly, while still being romantic, is a great way to get women in bed.

The world of casual sex is much more dangerous for women than it is for men. She wants safety, and asks for friendship. If you can go slow and still be romantic, she will feel safe with you _and_ excited by you, and you'll be off to the races!

Personal note: This is true 😉