LibraFemale w/ CancerMale

I am a libra female, with a cancer male and I know our differences, but I don't think he does. I always try to fix the problems. He's abit difficult to be with, espcially with all the wrong assumtions. How do I deal with a cancer male ? :/

You have to be a bit extreme sometimes... just so they tune in and take a look, then you can have a nice conversation with them 🙂 Seriously, I have yet to hear of something else that works, so if there is, crabbies out there, please tell me lol

I forgot to mention Patience...

Ah yes, crabbies...well depending on your crabby, you could try talking, we're generally good listners and like to empathize with others, (throw in a nice sad story or something with emotional content and you'll get him hooked).

Talk about family etc - they're so sentimental...silly crabs..

I guess we also like food? (I know I do)....Us crabbies swing moods (for me its sometimes uncontrollable!) so you basically gotta figure out what's his mood. Generally it is'nt too tough - when we're happy, we'll have a smile ear to ear, when we're upset the frown comes up quick, and when we're seething with anger - we're gonna give the silent treatment....

sometimes you gotta give 'em the babying treatement, they also like to treat others well (when theyre in the mood).

the mind of a cancer is sometimes in turmoil, split between the past and present, hesitant to step into the future. Coax your crabby and he'll eventually give in. Dont be surpised at violent emotional abuse, we tend to lash out :/....

But if your crabby is worth it, bear with him.

That question will always arise, there's always some attraction between those two. We're not mature and serious enough, and you're too cold and detached, that's just how it is. Focus on what works and accept the differences, please.