memory: acts of kindness

A lot topics are about negative things , so maybe it's a good idea to talk more about the other side. "The theory of astrology" talks about cancer's memory and its tendency to never forget slights, insults and so on.

But what about the remembering of acts of kindness/ other nice actions done to us. Do we also remember them for ages ?

I will start with an funny example. I still remember a remark of a girl to me when we where ice skating on a canal (when we were around 9 years old). She said:

"don't mind it that others are laughing about your ice skating skills".
Although I had not noticed that others where making fun of me, I know that I really appreciated tthe gesture and still remember it.

Do other cancers also have that kind of memories ?

i think the world revolves around negativity. what is the first thing that comes to peoples minds when they think about themselves or others? most of the time it is something negative. don't get me wrong since i am only generalizing but we do tend to keep negative thoughts in our minds and the key is to learn how to think positive, be grateful, and hold on to those cherished happy memories we tend to keep way back in our minds.
it boils down to the old saying "no one remembers when i do good but no one forgets when i do bad"..

But do you think that cancers have such a "selective memory" that they tend to remember much more the bad things done to them than the good things ?

I remember one time in highschool when I was gettin picked on in class. It was mostly name calling but the dude wouldnt shutup about it. I used to be really quiet and shy so I was just trying to ignore him and not let him know he was getting under my skin. Anyway the girl sitting next to him told him to stop which I thought was really nice. She was really hot as well