Honeybees
@Honeybees
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Posted by Honeybees
3 days ago i texted him that "(x) this distance of yours is only making me upset more and more.. and if u keep this up.. i might start talking other people with in some months, including my ex. as you are giving me allot mixed signals"
you tried to threaten him... in order for him to get closer to you.
epic fail. Yes, you did do the right thing by telling him how you feel. Now he is free to f*** with your head...
have fun with that
Posted by shellshockerPosted by Honeybees
3 days ago i texted him that "(x) this distance of yours is only making me upset more and more.. and if u keep this up.. i might start talking other people with in some months, including my ex. as you are giving me allot mixed signals"
you tried to threaten him... in order for him to get closer to you.
epic fail. Yes, you did do the right thing by telling him how you feel. Now he is free to f*** with your head...
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hmmm i know girl/boy... well the latest update is that he is bit normal but still angry.. he likes me but is hurt deeply.. i know i did stupid thing by saying him that.. 😢 i told him that i love him..
now thing is ... that i told him i will win him back..
and for that i want to send choclote cake to him home... writen sorry...
i know he wont agree stilll
then i will send him sweets.... i know still he wont agree
then hand made braclets...
still he won't agree
then il send him the locket in the movie *the ilusionist* ( he loves that movie)
i feel he might start feelnig... and if still not then il kiss him lol ... 🙂 i love him alot.
Posted by HoneybeesPosted by shellshockerPosted by Honeybees
3 days ago i texted him that "(x) this distance of yours is only making me upset more and more.. and if u keep this up.. i might start talking other people with in some months, including my ex. as you are giving me allot mixed signals"
you tried to threaten him... in order for him to get closer to you.
epic fail. Yes, you did do the right thing by telling him how you feel. Now he is free to f*** with your head...
have fun with that
hmmm i know girl/boy... well the latest update is that he is bit normal but still angry.. he likes me but is hurt deeply.. i know i did stupid thing by saying him that.. 😢 i told him that i love him..
now thing is ... that i told him i will win him back..
and for that i want to send choclote cake to him home... writen sorry...
i know he wont agree stilll
then i will send him sweets.... i know still he wont agree
then hand made braclets...
still he won't agree
then il send him the locket in the movie *the ilusionist* ( he loves that movie)
i feel he might start feelnig... and if still not then il kiss him lol ... 🙂 i love him alot.click to expand
Shellshocker was right; the threat was the worst move you could have made. It's disrespectful, cruel, and immature. That being said, I'm glad you can admit you were wrong, and I hope you told him that as well.
Something I'm confused about: have you sent all these things already(cake, sweets, bracelets, locket)? Or is this you plan and you're expecting to have to drop each gift in that order to get the desired affect?
If this is just a plan, I think you need to stop thinking. You can't know how he will react to these gifts, so don't become set in your path as you will almost certainly be derailed. Take things slowly, if you want to send gifts then great (I'm sure he'll love them, even if only begrudgingly), and try try TRY to understand that he's still processing his own emotions and can't just decide to love you because you want him to. It's up to him now, and you don't have any control over his decision.
P.S. saying "love" might be a bit much... you aren't even dating yet, you almost certainly aren't in true, unadulterated, unconditiona
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unconditional love with this Cancer. Go slower; tell him you like him a lot, and want to give being together a shot. He's likely afraid to get in a relationship with you for fear of hurting you when he realizes he isn't in love.
unconditional love with this Cancer. Go slower; tell him you like him a lot, and want to give being together a shot. He's likely afraid to get in a relationship with you for fear of hurting you when he realizes he isn't in love.
guys i know i did wrong.. yes i want to send the gifts.. and some how i felt that i am right as he started to use words like * sweety* * sweetheart* i mean i felt them as signs.. but then again he gets distant by saying * you can't loose me as you lost me already..*.. i just don't know what to do... 😢 i am aqwuarius .. so u all know this is hard for me because i don't like getting insulted 😢
hey sweetypie.. you are absolutely right. he called me last night and told me that he is changing his number.. i was shocked.. and upset. he asked me to contact him on Facebook.. if i have any trouble.. i said i won't because he is leaving me and changing his number because of me. in sometime i started crying.. but very softly, not letting him hear that i am crying.. but he heard me.. he even said that whats the point of crying when he is ending it on good terms. and i replied nothing.. he told me that he know since 1st day that i love him and he alwayz said that sometimes its gud to feel things rather then saying them.. he even insulted that when i was so gud at observing why i never saw that he know i like him ( i think he changed that line, he meant that he likes me). i said i was confused,we were arguing and i was talking softly but when i couldn't take it anymore i sobbed, and placed hand on my mouth not leting him hear more.. that had it.. he grew so soft in his behavior as if he was whispering in my ear.. hmm my eyes were closed.. he asked me what i want.. i said nothing.. again.. he asked to tell him.. i sobbed again (closing my eyes tightly.. again said nothing.. lol
he asked me to take his other number.. i said no because he want me away.. and i don't want to bother him..(don't know if i was faking it or my heart knew that he would agree now)
the end was that he agreed and asked me to get slim else he won't make me his gf lol... that made me burst out laughing.. he have this thing for curvly body xD . i asked him why he changed his decission, he saud he is like that. i said don't lie you changed it because u heard me cry.. he signed and said he was not talking me on phone past three dayz because he know i would cry and things will get out of hand.. but today he couldn't hear me cry.... (was he faking it all or is he really that emotional?
he is making me madly in love with him..
he asked me to take his other number.. i said no because he want me away.. and i don't want to bother him..(don't know if i was faking it or my heart knew that he would agree now)
the end was that he agreed and asked me to get slim else he won't make me his gf lol... that made me burst out laughing.. he have this thing for curvly body xD . i asked him why he changed his decission, he saud he is like that. i said don't lie you changed it because u heard me cry.. he signed and said he was not talking me on phone past three dayz because he know i would cry and things will get out of hand.. but today he couldn't hear me cry.... (was he faking it all or is he really that emotional?
he is making me madly in love with him..
Posted by Honeybees
told me that he is changing his number..
he even said that whats the point of crying when he is ending it on good terms. and i replied nothing..
. i asked him why he changed his decission, he saud he is like that. i said don't lie you changed it because u heard me cry.. he signed and said he was not talking me on phone past three dayz because he know i would cry and things will get out of hand..
He is being very straight with you.. whether you choose to LISTEN or you choose to try and delude the situation to hide from the truth... is up to you
Cancers are suckers for other people's pain. He won't be strong if you continue to cry and use your emotions to manipulate the situation... in return he will probably string you along (giving you his new number because he feels sorry for yu.. but ignoring you and being cruel) until you get the picture. You'll get even more hurt in the process.
Have some dignity and let it go...
Posted by shellshockerPosted by Honeybees
told me that he is changing his number..
he even said that whats the point of crying when he is ending it on good terms. and i replied nothing..
. i asked him why he changed his decission, he saud he is like that. i said don't lie you changed it because u heard me cry.. he signed and said he was not talking me on phone past three dayz because he know i would cry and things will get out of hand..
He is being very straight with you.. whether you choose to LISTEN or you choose to try and delude the situation to hide from the truth... is up to you
Cancers are suckers for other people's pain. He won't be strong if you continue to cry and use your emotions to manipulate the situation... in return he will probably string you along (giving you his new number because he feels sorry for yu.. but ignoring you and being cruel) until you get the picture. You'll get even more hurt in the process.
Have some dignity and let it go...
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Posted by shellshockerPosted by Honeybees
told me that he is changing his number..
he even said that whats the point of crying when he is ending it on good terms. and i replied nothing..
. i asked him why he changed his decission, he saud he is like that. i said don't lie you changed it because u heard me cry.. he signed and said he was not talking me on phone past three dayz because he know i would cry and things will get out of hand..
He is being very straight with you.. whether you choose to LISTEN or you choose to try and delude the situation to hide from the truth... is up to you
Cancers are suckers for other people's pain. He won't be strong if you continue to cry and use your emotions to manipulate the situation... in return he will probably string you along (giving you his new number because he feels sorry for yu.. but ignoring you and being cruel) until you get the picture. You'll get even more hurt in the process.
Have some dignity and let it go...
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look.. i agree that i am not accepting the reality and staying attached on the bases of a hollow feeling from him, but i am an aquarius .. you see i do get detached as well... thing is this guy is alwayz, ALWAYZ there for me when i need him.. wether it is a break up or some personal problem.. he didn't change him number.. ( the number he gave was the current one) all i know is that the threat i gave him was the same threat his ex -gf gave him.. 🙂 still he took my side.. look i agree that i should move on if i have some dignity left.. but i don't want to loose him only because i missstood the situation.. he have to me straight forward and tell me that he don't want me in his life.. and i will go away 🙂
hmm i take my words back.. i think u r right.. i should let it goo 🙂
hmm thank you guys for so sincere advises.. i mean i am an aquarius but .. i don't seem like one lol.. must be due to my moon sign.. 🙂
Ok... Sooo... You "love" him, because he is always there for you in times of need. That doesn't sound like love it sounds like parasitism. Exacerbated by the fact that you ASKED him to stay with you until you graduate so that you didn't go all emo crazy. More parasitic behaviour. You don't love him, you have a feeling of need for him. You should probably be paying him for the servivce of him allowing you to always cry on his shoulder.
-based on what YOU have presented as the situation
-based on what YOU have presented as the situation
Posted by Sweetypie
If I were you honeybees Id take this to the aqua board....as ive found people here to be incredibly cruel and callous*with the exception of a very few*Whats so weird is you go look at some of the threads they post.....Fucked up beyond belief....Good luck hun...Take my advice...take it out of this forum🙂
sweetypie..
thing is ... i posted this forum on cancer wall because i wanted to think what th e majority of cancers think about my post.. i know what an aquarian might say.. but from the point of view of a cancer.. all i think is that they don't give a shit if a person wants them.. however they want the person to work on there terms...
it's not what a star is all about... its what a person thinks of you..i like him.. i want him..because he is loving.. i control my detactness, my friendliness, my anger.. just to be with him...
but lol he ( or these other cancers out here ) will take all of this as an immature act rather then love for some one...
i will find many other men on this planet earth or even on mars ( you know ) i am that good.. but still im sticking up for this guy only and only because of his emotions and love..
at this moment i am only listening... and figuring out the truth..
Don't you want him to work on your terms as well, because you like him - he should like you? Seems kind of flawed. The cancers here seem pretty unanimous that he isn't interested, he's just trying to be nice...
Posted by deezie
Don't you want him to work on your terms as well, because you like him - he should like you? Seems kind of flawed. The cancers here seem pretty unanimous that he isn't interested, he's just trying to be nice...
girl if u know what an aquarius is like.. ul probably should be aware that we NEVER make U people work on our terms.. btw are you a cancer? coz u alot sound like one./. creepy type😛
Posted by deezie
Don't you want him to work on your terms as well, because you like him - he should like you? Seems kind of flawed. The cancers here seem pretty unanimous that he isn't interested, he's just trying to be nice...
look a cancer is never jelous if he is not in love / like a girl.. in my case my guy is alwayz jelous when i talk a guy.. i stoped talking my friends just for him to be closer to me .. but now he is being distant.. that is the only problem... i mean if he likes me .. he can say it .. rather then giving mixed signals every time i talk him..its not his niceness. it is hurting my feelnigs as well as my gidnity that i am sticking to someone who don't even know what he want from me..
BS - aquarius are just better at making people think that following YOUR idea was their idea. Sounds like that's the problem with you and the cancer. He's not buying into your crap 🙂
You ditched your friends for this guy, doesn't sound very aquarius like...
You ditched your friends for this guy, doesn't sound very aquarius like...
Posted by deezie
BS - aquarius are just better at making people think that following YOUR idea was their idea. Sounds like that's the problem with you and the cancer. He's not buying into your crap 🙂
You ditched your friends for this guy, doesn't sound very aquarius like...
sweety thats what iam saying.. i am not acting aquarius like.. i mean i am loosing my importance because of this cancer.. 😢
Posted by Crabmoon
Just cut the crying thing, don't try to manipulate him with your emotions, talk to this guy and finish it.
that is wehat i am planing to do.. either i won't talk him at all.. or incase he text or calls.. il tell him that i have this problem.. 🙂 i need t owork this out.. for me as well as for him.. thank you btw
So it makes you sad to not be acting like yourself, but you are desperate to hang onto the thing that makes you not act like yourself.
Where do you envision that leading yourself. Just food for thought.
Friendless and in a pseudo relationship. Sounds like an upswing if I've ever heard of one.
I don't care one way or the other what you do, but I can't ignore the glaringly obvious things I've pointed out.
Where do you envision that leading yourself. Just food for thought.
Friendless and in a pseudo relationship. Sounds like an upswing if I've ever heard of one.
I don't care one way or the other what you do, but I can't ignore the glaringly obvious things I've pointed out.
Posted by deezie
So it makes you sad to not be acting like yourself, but you are desperate to hang onto the thing that makes you not act like yourself.
Where do you envision that leading yourself. Just food for thought.
Friendless and in a pseudo relationship. Sounds like an upswing if I've ever heard of one.
I don't care one way or the other what you do, but I can't ignore the glaringly obvious things I've pointed out.
i really have no idea what are you talking about.. do u mind helping me rather then pointing out things i am not even aware of? honeybees_online@yahoo.com if u really wana argue.. i will remove all your clashes 🙂
"look.. i agree that i am not accepting the reality and staying attached on the bases of a hollow feeling from him, but i am an aquarius .. you see i do get detached as well... thing is this guy is alwayz, ALWAYZ there for me when i need him.. wether it is a break up or some personal problem.. he didn't change him number.. ( the number he gave was the current one) all i know is that the threat i gave him was the same threat his ex -gf gave him.. still he took my side.. look i agree that i should move on if i have some dignity left.. but i don't want to loose him only because i missstood the situation.. he have to me straight forward and tell me that he don't want me in his life.. and i will go away"
"thing is ... i posted this forum on cancer wall because i wanted to think what th e majority of cancers think about my post.. i know what an aquarian might say.. but from the point of view of a cancer.. all i think is that they don't give a shit if a person wants them.. however they want the person to work on there terms...
it's not what a star is all about... its what a person thinks of you..i like him.. i want him..because he is loving.. i control my detactness, my friendliness, my anger.. just to be with him...
but lol he ( or these other cancers out here ) will take all of this as an immature act rather then love for some one...
i will find many other men on this planet earth or even on mars ( you know ) i am that good.. but still im sticking up for this guy only and only because of his emotions and love..
at this moment i am only listening... and figuring out the truth.."
So you say he has to be straight forward with you and tell you he doesn't want you to be a part of his life anymore and you'll go away...
He DOESN'T want you to go away! He doesn't want to be your boyfriend, and he's made that clear, but he still cares for you as a person and doesn't want to hurt you. And when he IS straight forward with you, you start sobbing and MANIPULATING HIM, which means your relationship is founded on BS and pain. You even admit that you "control my detachedness, friendliness, anger just t be with him". You can't keep manipulating the situation, faking/exaggerating your emotions to get a particular response out of him; it's immature, it's not healthy, and it's not right.
You point out that "the threat i gave him was the same threat his ex -gf gave him.. still he took my side.." but what does that really say? That he's been abused before a
"thing is ... i posted this forum on cancer wall because i wanted to think what th e majority of cancers think about my post.. i know what an aquarian might say.. but from the point of view of a cancer.. all i think is that they don't give a shit if a person wants them.. however they want the person to work on there terms...
it's not what a star is all about... its what a person thinks of you..i like him.. i want him..because he is loving.. i control my detactness, my friendliness, my anger.. just to be with him...
but lol he ( or these other cancers out here ) will take all of this as an immature act rather then love for some one...
i will find many other men on this planet earth or even on mars ( you know ) i am that good.. but still im sticking up for this guy only and only because of his emotions and love..
at this moment i am only listening... and figuring out the truth.."
So you say he has to be straight forward with you and tell you he doesn't want you to be a part of his life anymore and you'll go away...
He DOESN'T want you to go away! He doesn't want to be your boyfriend, and he's made that clear, but he still cares for you as a person and doesn't want to hurt you. And when he IS straight forward with you, you start sobbing and MANIPULATING HIM, which means your relationship is founded on BS and pain. You even admit that you "control my detachedness, friendliness, anger just t be with him". You can't keep manipulating the situation, faking/exaggerating your emotions to get a particular response out of him; it's immature, it's not healthy, and it's not right.
You point out that "the threat i gave him was the same threat his ex -gf gave him.. still he took my side.." but what does that really say? That he's been abused before a
abused before and now that you've hurt him the same way, the fact that he isn't leaving means he secretly loves you? Not at all. He's grown from that past hurt, and bravo to him for handling this one so well, but maybe he SHOULD tell you not to be in his life if you're going to justify hurting him like this.
I don't understand a few points in these posts, like the "it's not what a star is about... it's what a person thinks of you..." bit, and "all i think is that they don't give a shit if a person wants them.. however they want the person to work on there terms..."
He CLEARLY gives a shit that you want him, which is why he's trying SO HARD not to hurt you or make you cry, why he's being such a nice, caring, loving guy, and now you're gonna insult him by claiming he DOESN'T CARE— and he's somehow making you "work on his terms"? wtf is that?
In short, you've moved beyond our original concern of hurting yourself by dragging this out, and now you're hurting him.
I don't understand a few points in these posts, like the "it's not what a star is about... it's what a person thinks of you..." bit, and "all i think is that they don't give a shit if a person wants them.. however they want the person to work on there terms..."
He CLEARLY gives a shit that you want him, which is why he's trying SO HARD not to hurt you or make you cry, why he's being such a nice, caring, loving guy, and now you're gonna insult him by claiming he DOESN'T CARE— and he's somehow making you "work on his terms"? wtf is that?
In short, you've moved beyond our original concern of hurting yourself by dragging this out, and now you're hurting him.
Pointing out things you aren't aware of is the help I'm offering.
Also: THANK YOU ZENBEAR!
Also: THANK YOU ZENBEAR!
fine fine fine fine.. i admit i am wrong.. i will let this guy go... because if i keep manipulating him.. he will get more hurt.. thank you zenbear.. you kind off made things clear.. i just i ruined it my self 🙂 hmm anywayz i am happy i atlast got some good helping people 🙂
oh, my heart just broke hahahaha
Posted by ZenBear
"look.. i agree that i am not accepting the reality and staying attached on the bases of a hollow feeling from him, but i am an aquarius .. you see i do get detached as well... thing is this guy is alwayz, ALWAYZ there for me when i need him.. wether it is a break up or some personal problem.. he didn't change him number.. ( the number he gave was the current one) all i know is that the threat i gave him was the same threat his ex -gf gave him.. still he took my side.. look i agree that i should move on if i have some dignity left.. but i don't want to loose him only because i missstood the situation.. he have to me straight forward and tell me that he don't want me in his life.. and i will go away"
"thing is ... i posted this forum on cancer wall because i wanted to think what th e majority of cancers think about my post.. i know what an aquarian might say.. but from the point of view of a cancer.. all i think is that they don't give a shit if a person wants them.. however they want the person to work on there terms...
it's not what a star is all about... its what a person thinks of you..i like him.. i want him..because he is loving.. i control my detactness, my friendliness, my anger.. just to be with him...
but lol he ( or these other cancers out here ) will take all of this as an immature act rather then love for some one...
i will find many other men on this planet earth or even on mars ( you know ) i am that good.. but still im sticking up for this guy only and only because of his emotions and love..
at this moment i am only listening... and figuring out the truth.."
So you say he has to be straight forward with you and tell you he doesn't want you to be a part of his life anymore and you'll go away...
He DOESN'T want you to go away! He doesn't want to be your boyfriend, and he's made that clear, but he still cares for you as a person and doesn't want to hurt you. And when he IS straight forward with you, you start sobbing and MANIPULATING HIM, which means your relationship is founded on BS and pain. You even admit that you "control my detachedness, friendliness, anger just t be with him". You can't keep manipulating the situation, faking/exaggerating your emotions to get a particular response out of him; it's immature, it's not healthy, and it's not right.
You point out that "the threat i gave him was the same threat his ex -gf gave him..
Posted by deezie
oh, my heart just broke hahahaha
lol i might be stuborn.. but i do accept if i am wrong 😛
Posted by Honeybees
fine fine fine fine.. i admit i am wrong.. i will let this guy go... because if i keep manipulating him.. he will get more hurt.. thank you zenbear.. you kind off made things clear.. i just i ruined it my self 🙂 hmm anywayz i am happy i atlast got some good helping people 🙂
4 years since I ended things with my Aquarius ex... and he STILL tries to manipulate me. One selfish *sob*
your attitude is the same as his. I'm nice to him, and he tries to run with it and get in good with me.. over stepping boundaries cause he STILL can't handle the fact I DON'T WANT HIS ASS! So I have to be a bitch... and he tries to guilt trip me or gives a flippant "fine, fine, fine ... I know I'm wrong" when he's called out. Then he adds one of these 🙂 because he doesn't really care since he comes first and will rinse and repeat any chance he gets.
It's so predictable and boring... and also ineffective cause he now gets zero response
You threatened him. He took it EXTREMELY personally. That's how Cancer's do. He lashed out at you because he was hurt by what you said (even if you didn't intend to hurt him) and had to put that barrier up in order to protect himself further.
I dated an Aquarius (I'm a cancer) for two years in high school. It was an awesome time, full of fun and good times. Looking back, however (perhaps it was because we were young) there was nothing there that I would want in a relationship NOW. Cancer is an extreme homebody and Aquarius loves to socialize. Not that Cancers don't as well, but the conflicting interest COULD become a problem. Cancer runs on emotion and feels situations out. Aquarius usually thinks logically and informatively at situations.
This can be a great match between two people who share common interests, or it could be a devastating heart ache for one or more of the parties involved. Whatever you do, be mindful that your actions weigh HEAVILY on the Cancer's emotional center. He's probably being wishy washy because he is afraid to let himself be hurt. Gotta show him that you mean business and are here to stay!
I dated an Aquarius (I'm a cancer) for two years in high school. It was an awesome time, full of fun and good times. Looking back, however (perhaps it was because we were young) there was nothing there that I would want in a relationship NOW. Cancer is an extreme homebody and Aquarius loves to socialize. Not that Cancers don't as well, but the conflicting interest COULD become a problem. Cancer runs on emotion and feels situations out. Aquarius usually thinks logically and informatively at situations.
This can be a great match between two people who share common interests, or it could be a devastating heart ache for one or more of the parties involved. Whatever you do, be mindful that your actions weigh HEAVILY on the Cancer's emotional center. He's probably being wishy washy because he is afraid to let himself be hurt. Gotta show him that you mean business and are here to stay!
Posted by WaterboyCancepioPosted by Sweetypie
If I were you honeybees Id take this to the aqua board....as ive found people here to be incredibly cruel and callous*with the exception of a very few*Whats so weird is you go look at some of the threads they post.....Fucked up beyond belief....Good luck hun...Take my advice...take it out of this forum🙂
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Posted by Sweetypie
your telling me to go fuck myself....?Your a psycho nutjob who hears voices in his head...Nuff said...Ewee...look at you!
If you cant handle nuts, then wachu doin in a nut tree?
In other words, are you here to be a shit started? Troll?
Ya drinkin what I'm pouring. If you cant get us, and we bug you, then go to where you feel comfortable. I wouldnt go to a meat store if I didnt eat meat, unless of course it was only to protest. 😉
Posted by WaterboyCancepioPosted by Sweetypie
If I were you honeybees Id take this to the aqua board....as ive found people here to be incredibly cruel and callous*with the exception of a very few*Whats so weird is you go look at some of the threads they post.....Fucked up beyond belief....Good luck hun...Take my advice...take it out of this forum🙂
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hey hey hey.. come on dear stop fighting.. we are peace makers , not peace breakers.. see sweety pie and i need help regarding a cancer we are in love with.. instead of fighting.. help us out to understand them 🙂
Posted by Crabmoon
Why do I have the feeling that sweetypie and honeybee are twin sisters??
lol no we are not sisters.. we are both aqaurius 🙂 actually me are in same boat.. in love with a typical bad boy cancer lol 🙂 help us to understand them as we are more then obvious that we love them to pieces and we want there love...
Posted by OceanDeepPosted by Sweetypie
your telling me to go fuck myself....?Your a psycho nutjob who hears voices in his head...Nuff said...Ewee...look at you!
If you cant handle nuts, then wachu doin in a nut tree?
In other words, are you here to be a shit started? Troll?
Ya drinkin what I'm pouring. If you cant get us, and we bug you, then go to where you feel comfortable. I wouldnt go to a meat store if I didnt eat meat, unless of course it was only to protest. 😉click to expand
come on guys stop the fight in btw cancer and aquarius .. you guys and us ( me and sweety pie) surely think differnt.. but we want to understand over love ones..
no hate. just wondering why she is on our board if she hates us so bad. and slammed one of our fellow crabs, and made issue of something he made a thread about regarding himself, and followed it up with an ewwwwww. where is the love in that? no where.
Posted by CrabmoonPosted by OceanDeep
no hate. just wondering why she is on our board if she hates us so bad. and slammed one of our fellow crabs, and made issue of something he made a thread about regarding himself, and followed it up with an ewwwwww. where is the love in that? no where.
+1 we defend each other, that's crabland.click to expand
*nods n a highfiver*
Posted by CrabmoonPosted by OceanDeep
no hate. just wondering why she is on our board if she hates us so bad. and slammed one of our fellow crabs, and made issue of something he made a thread about regarding himself, and followed it up with an ewwwwww. where is the love in that? no where.
+1 we defend each other, that's crabland.click to expand
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Posted by HoneybeesPosted by Crabmoon
Why do I have the feeling that sweetypie and honeybee are twin sisters??
lol no we are not sisters.. we are both aqaurius 🙂 actually me are in same boat.. in love with a typical bad boy cancer lol 🙂 help us to understand them as we are more then obvious that we love them to pieces and we want there love...click to expand
rinse and repeat huh, honeybee..
I thought you "got it" 2 pages ago. But here you are again with the same questions and stubbornness and superficial smiley faces...
ahhh.. the monotony of the Aqua 🙂
Posted by Sweetypie
your lucky I didnt pick you you up -tear your crab legs off...toss them in a 550 degree oven..and when they were done...eat them with some tarter sauce and a nice chianti...Trolls love crab✨Dies laughing*
*makes a wish*
Posted by CrabmoonPosted by HoneybeesPosted by Crabmoon
Why do I have the feeling that sweetypie and honeybee are twin sisters??
lol no we are not sisters.. we are both aqaurius 🙂 actually me are in same boat.. in love with a typical bad boy cancer lol 🙂 help us to understand them as we are more then obvious that we love them to pieces and we want there love...
you can't say that he's bad just because he doesn't love you can you? That's what you need to understand and sweetypie get over yourself, for 40+ lady you're acting like a kid don't you think?click to expand
i didn't said he is BAD. i meant in the sexy romantic way 😉 that he is a *BAD-boy* got it ?
he has this dangerous, protecting, caring , loving, fearing aura around him.. and that makes him bad boy 😉
hmm well i know he don't love me. but i am sure he likes me more then he wants.. else why would he even agree to stay? because he felt pity on me? hmm if that was the case , why do he need to text me and tell me that his *other* number is switched on. ofcourse he said it so that i can contact him.. if not then why would he ever bother telling me? i was not even texting him past 3 dayz after the patch up of out friendship, why would he text? because he feel pity? or he don't want to let me go? ( guys i am not taking it towards love, it is a general Question )
WaterboyCancepio, lisabethur8, Crabmoon, OceanDeep, shellshocker,
THIS MESSAGE IS FOR ALL OF YOU!
why are you hating what she said? she asked me to post this message on Aquarius forum only!
ever wonder why?
🙂 tell me tell you WHY.
since the 1st post, i am listening to all of you, seriously ALL of you. but what are you doing?
you guys, YES ALL OF YOU, are defending my cancer guy. i didn't said anything because i was wrong when i hurt his feelings. and well as you all are so good at defending each other. so do me one last favor. explain me the following.
tell me about these questions which i was not asking about my cancer guy!
Q1. why would he always treat me more then a friend when i am ALREADY COMMITTED?
i know what you ALL going to say. WHY AM I GIVING HIM THIS IMPORTANCE that my bf is neglected and this friend is acting like my lover. ( the only reason that i didn't ask this question was because it would only mess up the situation more.
Q2. why would this cancer tell me to get away from my bf because he KNOW THE WORLD and he know that my boy will hurt me!
ok, i know the answer of that one too.. crabmoon i am sure on this you will say "he is only being nice like a friend"
but my dear fellows , why would he ALSO mention that HE KNOW what i want in a MAN!and right after that he will include his famous quote * i am best in her eyes* .some how he will be right after explaining it in detail about what do i really want. but i never accept that he is right because i don't want him to play with my heart!
BECAUSE THIS IS PLAYING! KNOWING WHAT THE WOMAN WANT AND STILL TORTURING HER EMOTIONALLY. AND WHEN SHE TRIES TO GET THE FUC*ING ANSWER IN THE STRAIGHT WAY, AND SHE SAY THAT *YOU LEAVE ME EVERY TIME WHEN I ACCEPT YOU ARE THERE FOR ME, NOW I WILL GO TO OTHERS *
BAAAAAAAMMMMMMMM
HE STARTS INSULTING!!!!
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO SAY ABOUT THIS!!! IT HAS BEEN 3 YEARS AND HE STILL DO THIS THING. AND THIS TIME I ASKED HIM WHAT THE HECK IS THIS ALL ABOUT!.... EITHER BE FRIENDS OF BE MORE THEN FRIEND BUT STOP GIVING THESE BLOODY MIXED MANIPULATING SIGNALS..
YOU GUYS THOUGHT I WAS MANIPULATING HIM! ... OFFCOURSE HE IS A CANCER YOU WOULD TAKE HIS SIDE...
BUT IF HE IS MANIPULATING MY MIND , THEN I AM A KID ? NOT SEEING THAT HE IS ONLY PLAYING WITH MY HEART?
I WAS IN NO MOOD TO TELL ALL THIS BECAUSE THIS WOULD FURTHER CREATE FUSS.. BUT THIS DEGRADING Which YOU PEOPLE WERE DOING WITH SWEETYPIE MADE ME SAY IT ..
THIS MESSAGE IS FOR ALL OF YOU!
why are you hating what she said? she asked me to post this message on Aquarius forum only!
ever wonder why?
🙂 tell me tell you WHY.
since the 1st post, i am listening to all of you, seriously ALL of you. but what are you doing?
you guys, YES ALL OF YOU, are defending my cancer guy. i didn't said anything because i was wrong when i hurt his feelings. and well as you all are so good at defending each other. so do me one last favor. explain me the following.
tell me about these questions which i was not asking about my cancer guy!
Q1. why would he always treat me more then a friend when i am ALREADY COMMITTED?
i know what you ALL going to say. WHY AM I GIVING HIM THIS IMPORTANCE that my bf is neglected and this friend is acting like my lover. ( the only reason that i didn't ask this question was because it would only mess up the situation more.
Q2. why would this cancer tell me to get away from my bf because he KNOW THE WORLD and he know that my boy will hurt me!
ok, i know the answer of that one too.. crabmoon i am sure on this you will say "he is only being nice like a friend"
but my dear fellows , why would he ALSO mention that HE KNOW what i want in a MAN!and right after that he will include his famous quote * i am best in her eyes* .some how he will be right after explaining it in detail about what do i really want. but i never accept that he is right because i don't want him to play with my heart!
BECAUSE THIS IS PLAYING! KNOWING WHAT THE WOMAN WANT AND STILL TORTURING HER EMOTIONALLY. AND WHEN SHE TRIES TO GET THE FUC*ING ANSWER IN THE STRAIGHT WAY, AND SHE SAY THAT *YOU LEAVE ME EVERY TIME WHEN I ACCEPT YOU ARE THERE FOR ME, NOW I WILL GO TO OTHERS *
BAAAAAAAMMMMMMMM
HE STARTS INSULTING!!!!
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO SAY ABOUT THIS!!! IT HAS BEEN 3 YEARS AND HE STILL DO THIS THING. AND THIS TIME I ASKED HIM WHAT THE HECK IS THIS ALL ABOUT!.... EITHER BE FRIENDS OF BE MORE THEN FRIEND BUT STOP GIVING THESE BLOODY MIXED MANIPULATING SIGNALS..
YOU GUYS THOUGHT I WAS MANIPULATING HIM! ... OFFCOURSE HE IS A CANCER YOU WOULD TAKE HIS SIDE...
BUT IF HE IS MANIPULATING MY MIND , THEN I AM A KID ? NOT SEEING THAT HE IS ONLY PLAYING WITH MY HEART?
I WAS IN NO MOOD TO TELL ALL THIS BECAUSE THIS WOULD FURTHER CREATE FUSS.. BUT THIS DEGRADING Which YOU PEOPLE WERE DOING WITH SWEETYPIE MADE ME SAY IT ..
Posted by Crabmoon
So that's a general answer, you're wastingt yours and his time move on, that's my last answer to this thread. We're just running in circle here, you got your answer already from lot's of crabs ( nobody here will say what you want to hear that's all). If you want a better answer ask your crab as I told you before. Jezz, that's why crabs don't get along pretty well with aquas like you and sweetypie you just can't move on. You 2 are like kids, ask the question, got the answer and keep asking why? What if? Really!
the only reason a crab and an aqua wont go along is because.. crabs think emotionally, they forget every bloody thing aqua did for them. and aqua gets pissed of because when i try reasoning with her crab, he retreats into his shell!!!.. no i am not asking anything from any one because obviously you crabs live like a family...even if one is wrong you will defend him, rather the correct one!...
it is better not to be with a crab when you know your heart will be broken in this or the damn other way.. PEACE OUT ! NO MORE POSTS.. THANK YOU EVERY ONE FOR YOUR KIND HELP... BUT SOMETIMES THINK OUT OF UR CRAB BRAIN ALSO.. WE ARE HUMAN WITH A BRAIN WHICH DEFINATLY NOT ONLY BASED ON THINKING OF CRAB OR AQUA , OR ANYOTHER.. BUT ALL!!.
leaving!!! because you all are same and if majority is same then he is same like you!!! and i don't want such love which is only filled with manipulation!!! bye!!
shut up *bast*Ard* go get a life and stop boiling my brain you not even worth my shit ...!!! get it !!! you wana see what an aqua is then here we go!!.. i was being bloody polite but well the people who are habitually beaten with legs .. don't really understand words 🙂 tata
and if that msg wipped ur ass* then think what 6 pages did to me when i was only being polite!!!
Posted by WaterboyCancepio
ahh mr bacham !1 was thinking then will you pop up ur nose!!!!
if i am retard then you are nuts for sure because clearly you only have guts for *fu*cking* 😉 or asking the other person to Fuck* them selfs in FRONT of you!!!
Posted by acrabbycrab12Posted by Honeybees
shut up *bast*Ard* go get a life and stop boiling my brain you not even worth my shit ...!!! get it !!! you wana see what an aqua is then here we go!!.. i was being bloody polite but well the people who are habitually beaten with legs .. don't really understand words 🙂
tata
So are you leaving or are you staying around??click to expand
depends on me. don't call some one a bitch untill she bitches with you.. coz if u called her first.. she wont bare but bite
Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I'm too tired to read what you wrote, so just in case.. Fuck you, from the bottom of my heart.
in ur dreams babe.. i really don't want your * pen* inside me .. and if u cant read it , then you have no right to say anything else even..
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