Moloko, a question for you....

"No one can do love and give love like a Cancer can but it is heart and maternally oriented as opposed to sexually oriented and its worse tendency is to be smothering."

I read this and....from what it says here, this would pretty much suggest that Cancers in general are not the ones looking for one-nite stands, I don't think they're very big on one-nite stands? They have to be "emotionaly" attached to get physically intimate with one right?

Hi Cafrella

For myself the thought of a one night stand really put me off, ive never had a one night stand, and hope that i dont get drunk one night in my future and end up doing that, even when i have been out and a bit drunk theres always a common sense thing going on in my head.
I would feel annoyed with myself if i did have a one night stand, i prefer the emotional depth of a real relationship, i dont want to be alone, but would rather cope temporarily than have a quick fling, im totally dedicated to the person if thier my partner, and its something that builds up and grows stronger in time for me.
I like to feel comfortable with the person, excited by them too but definately have to have that attachment.
The smothering thing just always has to be kept in check, us cancers have to remind ourselves that our partners need free reign from time to time, but at the same time i wouldnt be happy with someone who is too loose and casual, someone with no depth at all would leave me cold.

Thanks Cancerbuddy!

I'm no Cancer, I'm a Leo but "this is the way God intended sex to be when two people love each other"... is really my WAY of thinking too...

and Moloko...

"im totally dedicated to the person if thier my partner, and its something that builds up and grows stronger in time for me.
I like to feel comfortable with the person, excited by them too but definately have to have that attachment."

I FEEL THE VERY SAME WAY, CALL ME OLDFASHIONED IF YOU'D LIKE, BUT THAT'S ME!

THANK YOU BOTH FOR YOUR INPUT!