most effective way to get over someone.

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by truecancer on Sunday, March 31, 2013 and has 4 replies.

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@truecancer
13 YearsCancer

You are correct! Although it does tone down the attachment and makes the healing process quicker. So does quitting the job in advance that you worked at with said attachment

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@Marmotini
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No. I can confirm that fucking does not make you get over someone.

It might make you feel less lonely, or help you cope, but it won't erase a real emotional connection.

Because usually when you're hung up on someone that's why, because you had an emotional connection with them, something beyond physical.

If you can get over a person by simply fucking someone else, then you probably just had a crush.

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@Marmotini
13 Years500+ Posts

HOWEVER...

If you meet someone else you REALLY ACTUALLY LIKE, and then have sex with them, and happen to get "involved" that may actually work.

It depends on how "over" the person you are.

I mean if you're already like half-way over someone, and just have some lingering bullshit, and actually meet someone else you like (and aren't "just fucking") then that may work.

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@Sashimoon
13 YearsLibra

Posted by Marmotini
No. I can confirm that fucking does not make you get over someone.

It might make you feel less lonely, or help you cope, but it won't erase a real emotional connection.

*nods*