My cancer guy has an online dating addiction!

I'm a libra and I met this cancer guy 3 months ago. We're both 25. We met on Match.com, went on a few dates, things went great and now we're dating. At least that's what he calls it. We're sleeping together and I told him that I want him to tell me if he is sleeping with other girls too. He agreed and said that he expects the same from me. We're not exclusive though. I know that he is going on dates with other girls every now and then. I'm keeping my options open, too BUT only because he still sees it as casual. I would MUCH rather be exclusive with him but I don't want to be pushy or needy. He never really opens up to me and acts like he's the toughest guy on earth. However, I feel that we have a connection and I know that he likes me and he wants to spend a lot of time with me, too.

I try to keep him guessing and I try not to be too available. It's hard sometimes but I could live with this situation if he weren't online ALL the time. Match, Myspace, Yahoo, Hotornot, you name it - he has a profile there. He told me once that he's just bored at work and thinks it's fun to chat with people but I know that he actually meets girls too every now and then.

Is there hope? Should I confront him and tell him that I want a relationship or would that scare him? Should I forgot him and move on? I really like him.

See this is the problem with meeting ppl online and then getting involved...I must admit tho when i first got divorced my friends thought it was great posting my picture on every dating site on the planet..even I have lost track of where the hell i'm getting mail from !

It's fickle...and since ure not exclusive it's hard to bring up the subject...one way i can think of u mutually agree to delete ure dating profiles cos ure a couple...?!?

I tried!