My Virgo Friend

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cancershorti27 on Monday, August 3, 2009 and has 1 replies.

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@Cancershorti27
18 Years

Okay.... so i have this friend from childhood and so happens she's a Virgo..We don't have a Friendship message board her on dxp... so i decided to put it under my Cancer board. Anyway, She is 22 years old pregnant by a man who already has 3 childern with 3 different women. I asked her why would she put herself in that situation and i couldn't get an answer...i don't know what she could say. On top of that..... she is not working... I have given her many job leads and she has an excuse for every job of why she can't work there..,... A bank teller guys... come on...All she needed to do was take a basic math test and she would of gotten the job... She says "I have to be doing something, i can't just be siting down doing nothing"....She nuts!!... i just don't get it. Anyway, her mother has 8 childern and 6 lives with her, includeding my friend. She goes to school to become an RN, but she has to depend on her mother for subway fare. Today i got home and my brother tells me that she came to the house this afternoon asking our mom for a metrocard to get on the subway for school. she told my mom my brother took her metrocard. Mind u... My brother has a metrocard he works and if he didn't i would make sure he gets one...my brother knows this. Now my brother has told me about her character with men in the past and how she runs around alot, but i told him what she did in the past really doesn't concern me. I'm really upset that she had to come out her face the way she did. And lie on my brother. My brother haven't even been to her house..and i don't know how she came up with that conculsion. My mom give her money to get to school mind u.... I don't know what to do about the situation.. i will definitly talk to her about it, but i don't know if i should cut ties with her or keep her as a friend, but at a distance?

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@Cancershorti27
18 Years

Guys thinks so much for your advice.... i have decided to distance myself from her because moon u r right..... she has alot of growing up to do. My issue was why go to my mother? I have to learn who is who in my life. Thanks again guys xoxo🙂