Need Help With Cancer Man--Please!!

Hi All,
I've learned so much about cancer men by reading all the postings...hope some of you will help me out....
If you could, please give some thought to these two issues:

1) How can you tell if a cancer man has romantic feelings for you--what kind of clues does he give/behaviors does he (consciously or subconsciously)
do or say? (He's so hard to read.....)

2) What can I do on my end to encourage those romantic feelings in him...let's hear it straight from the cancer men (and the women who love them!)

I'd really appreciate some insights, as I just adore this man and would love for him to feel the same......thanks so much, everyone!

Peace,
Aries Gal

For what its worth, as a Cancer male, I find we go cautiously slow and have our sensors scanning for all sorts of possible or potential issues which could cause conflict later. We really don't like making wrong decisions, and having to figure out how to get out of them. Show interest in his family, and get involved in his interests. Does he cook, if so let him cook for you, most of us love to cook and entertain. Sincerely become his best friend, and don't spend a lot of time criticizing him, his family, or his decisions. What is his "kisses" telling you? We can be hard to read, and sometimes it take patience, but I think as with ALL signs look honestly at the strong points and weak ones, and then decide if you can find a win-win compromise/balance that you both can live with. I personally don't do well with Aries, but love and dedication working in your relationship can make it work. If it doesn't gel, let it go, it will be easier now than later. I think this web sites paints a fair picture of your paring and Cancer basic makeup. good luck !

http://love.astrology.com/features/astrology/lovematch/canceraries.html

http://www.icehouse.net/astrolove/cancer.html

many cancer men (i'm a double cancer, by the way) are hard pressed to directly show you that they care, out of fear they'll be rejected...if you want to see where he's at, you'll need to confess your feelings for him first...

I am a quintessntial cancer male -
When I feel I can truly trust someone in my heart - I will let them know by affections, dedications, and verbal communications. The object of my affections will feel very stable in our relationship. Cancers have much love to give to the ones they trust. Once that may be ever broken, as much as the cancer loves his mate, he will cut them off like a switch, letting his partner to figure it out - cause cancer will want nothing else to do with him.
...And in the long run, the person that hurt cancer will be loser!

I am a quintessntial cancer male -
When I feel I can truly trust someone in my heart - I will let them know by my affections, dedications, closeness, and incredible love in the bedroom. It's all about TRUST TRUST TRUST. The object of my affections will feel very stable in our relationship. Cancers have much love to give to the ones they love and TRUST. Once that may be ever broken, as much as the cancer loves his mate, he will cut them off like a switch, letting his partner go figure it out - cause cancer will want nothing else to do with him.
...And in the long run, the person that hurt cancer will be the loser!