Ok This Is For Cancer's To Answer

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by ceribdis on Sunday, November 22, 2009 and has 2 replies.

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@ceribdis
16 YearsAries

so im dating a cancer and im an areis and i love her with all my heart and well she sometimes tells me i dont love her and she pulls away from me and hides things (also we live togather) simple things and it bugs me should i wait it out to see if this goes away farther the relationship goes (been togather by my account about 3 months 1 1/2 months long distance the rest in the same house) drop me a line

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@domanb
17 YearsCancer

Honesty, openness and communication are the key to any successful relationship. Sounds like she may be insecure with herself. Or doubt that you really love her as much as you say you do. Or maybe she just considers herself really lucky to have you, and thinks it's too good to be true. So she may be putting up a defense, trying to test you so she doesn't get hurt further down the road, after she is more heavily invested in the relationship.

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@ceribdis
16 YearsAries

im hopeing what you say my good man is true we have had a couple bumps but one was my fault the other was a girl causing problems for us so im goin to wait it out because i love her more than my next breath

ty for your advice friend

Mr~Ceribdis