one thing that I wish people understood about cancers is....

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whats one thing that you wish more people understood about cancers or what ever your sign is ?

one thing that I wish people understood about cancers ... my love, praise, and affection can come quickly but it can leave just as fast.

one thing that I wish people understood about cancer is there is beauty in subtly expressing yourself ...

one thing that I wish people understood about cancer is we don't keep explaining ourselves ...we just leave .... first emotionally then physically
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Posted by bittercupcake
that their the most nurturing and dependable peeps..... โค
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My Mom is the one and my patient is the one.

So I totally agree that my mom is most nurturing and dependable...however also most critical and 'my way or highway' person!

Someone asked me about Mother's Day. I said Mom always asking to leave her alone...

Person said 'but you have to tell your mother - it's Mother's Day and we going out' - I said 'nobody tells my mother what to do! If I suggested and she said no - end of convo!'

Lol

That's why our living arrangement - she is left alone to do whatever she wants to do!

Don't push Cancer! Or you will regret it for a while! Lol

She needs a lot of space! Like not anyone I know! Just let me be!

Like a cat - I will come when I want and go when I want. I've learned it and it's better now...?
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Posted by Cancan26
whats one thing that you wish more people understood about cancers or what ever your sign is ?

one thing that I wish people understood about cancers ... my love, praise, and affection can come quickly but it can leave just as fast.

one thing that I wish people understood about cancer is there is beauty in subtly expressing yourself ...

one thing that I wish people understood about cancer is we don't keep explaining ourselves ...we just leave .... first emotionally then physically
I understand these things about Cancers...that's why I don't really mess with them anymore...too fickle

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Lmao the shade... Well whats something you wish we understood about Scorpio?
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Posted by SentimentalCrabby
That we Cancer's could be a Bish. You mess with our temper & lie straight to our face, we will point out your b.s. and say it how it is.

Don't tell us that we don't know what we are talking about, we know damn well what the hell we are talking about. Nonetheless, we aren't wasting our precious time with you anymore, & your value level to us is garbage.

Tell us we are crazy, we will show you crazy. Just to prove that fact and entertain the purpose for the hell of it.

Bully someone we love & we will snap, set you in fire and make sure you'll stay 5,000 ft away from them.

We will give & give until we are tried of it. But you'll never smash our pride, because we know what we have, & if you wouldn't notice that it's not our job to show you. Somebody else will notice & appreciate us crabby's for the things we have done.

We also love our space, don't expect us to feel lonely when we just need time alone & recharge.

We cry & get emotional by several seasons, only because we have so many thoughts in our mind that might trigger nostalgia moments from the past, or a flashback. Either way, it could be us not understanding why are we being like that. Don't question why, majority of the time we don't even know why are we feeling that way.

We love to feel stabled & not having to worry about not being financially stable. Without that feeling of security, we stress ourselves out to the point our emotions are all over the place.


This all of this โ€”
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Posted by LazyK
I wish I could understand how anyone could deal with cancers mood swings in a relationship day n & day out until the day they die.

You think it's bad for them? Try being the Cancer.

And this leads to my response to this thread: That moodiness that drives so many crazy? Well at least you can take yourself from it...

While you're at work,

or at play,

or something else that takes you away.

There is no escaping it for the crab,

who has to deal with it every passing minute,

of each and every day.