For you lovely cancers, did you ever go back to an ex or take your ex back if they messed up?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by coldwateryvirgo on Thursday, April 27, 2017 and has 8 replies.

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@peo
9 Years

I personally never took an ex back. I would have at times, when things were still fresh and raw, but the more time passes, the less likely. There was one exception where I played with the thought for a long time, but I think she appealed to my Leo ego (I love her CV more than her).

But again, that all might just as well be because of certain patterns within all these relationships.

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@rabidtalker
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by coldwateryvirgo
How does your brain process a scenario such as that ?

or have you ever gone back to an ex at all, why ? and did it work?

No, when it's over it's over. Fights or breakups just "to get things going" dont work either, they are disastrous.

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@Leoqueen21
9 YearsLeo

I have a cancer bff and she took back both of her ex's who cheated on her but in the end both of those relationships didn't work out.

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@Cancan26
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I did more times than I care to admit out loud... But it didn't work out cause the trust was gone 😢 and I just couldnt love him the way I did before...

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@pinkbird03
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I'll hold on until I find a new guy. Then I'm done/not interested in the old. But if I haven't found a new guy, yep I go back

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@UrFavoriteCancer
9 Years

It depends on what they did and how long it took them to come back and apologize for what they did. But when we're over you were over you so if you want this person back be straightforward before they move on