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Aries28Aries
@Aries28Aries
15 Years

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Confused is not the word!

This is long!

I met this cancer guy on Facebook who is a friend of a friend he lives 140 miles away from me!

We started talking a year ago this month and we got along great we have been on a fair few dates!
Anyway Over the time That I have been talking to him I noticed he got a lot of attention on his Facebook from this one girl and it deffo looked like flirting to me!

(So over this period I was kinda becoming Aloof with him due to this fact and he did point out to me a few times that He thought I was being distant with him) So many chances to bring this girl up And I never..
So I logged on to Facebook this one day and seen something I didn't like from this girl 😢 Instead of asking him about it Me being an Aries I went guns blazing called him some offensive words! (I know I shouldn't have) Turned out I was wrong!
I said sorry to him for swearing and he accepted my apologize but then he went quite on me which is fair enough I think I would have too.That's 3 months ago. I've been text-in him since and its been small talk getting better over time he would make and effort once in a blue moon to text me.. We never really discussed at any point What was going on with us even when it was good, I guess we both felt Uncomfortable! Anyway so this week he has tuned the contact up high and I'm confused by it!!! I think he was hinting for us to go on a date yesterday but I'm not sure and then tonight he was flirting with me over facebook!!! I didn't know how to react cos its took us so long to get back on talking terms and I dont know if im reading to much in to it and he is just being friendly—? Or if he wants something more I don't want to ask in case I scare him away ...What do you guys thing??
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justSophs
@justSophs
15 YearsCancer

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@ Aries. To me, he was probably hurt by the whole deal of you overeacting so he is proceeding with caution.

But if you like him and he is open to hanging out agian. Go for it and take it day by day.

I know with my Aries on and off friend, she over reacts sometimes and I ignore her, because sometimes that bully stuff dont work with me. It takes awhile for me to warm up back to her.

Just take it day by day and hang out and be cool.
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aujra
@aujra
15 Years

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You should be good, you hurt his feelings he lost some trust for you, backed up and waited and watched you, and now he is starting to rebuild that trust with you. Understand that cancers take a LONG LONG time to build up trust and lose it easily. If you want an animal image 😛.

He started poking his head out of his shell, got his claws relaxed started to poke out more and more and then he got smacked on the head (poor little guy 😛). So he popped back into his shell and started peaking his head out to see if it would get smacked again. Now he is getting comfy popping his little head out again and he is less worried about getting bopped on it again. 🙂 Easier than it seems now right? 😛