Please help

His moon may be magnetically attracted to your moon.
Also I like the Venus/Mars trine you two have going on.
Do you guys have intense communication going on?

Thank you, for your response. Yes, we do have intense communication. The first night we met we talked about our childhood and breakups. We cried together and shared things we've never told anyone else. Can you explain a little about our moons and Venus/Mars trine?

We've told each other how much we care, but we still play games and end up having to apologize. Neither of us want to seem weak.

Yes, but I'm the Cancer with the Cap moon. When we argue, which is often, he'll tell me that he loves me as much as he hates me. I'll mention what upset me without getting loud and he'll explain himself and I can understand him and usually I'll accept that I'm wrong. He interprets that as me agreeing so he will shut up and goes on 10-15 minute rants about how women always blah, blah, blah...
He's said that he doesn't feel like he deserves to be loved by me which I find sad.

An insecure man regardless of synastry is a big red flag.
Don't pity him because he'll just hurt you.
You'll end broken and he'll go find another.

Ahh you're probably right. It just feels like we're meant to help each other work on our issues. By this I mean point out things we see need improvement, for example, his indecisiveness and my indirectness when I want something. He's been feeling depressed because of culture shock, so I didn't take him saying that too seriously.