Please help me understand

Problem: You want a relationship, he only wants sex
Solution: Cut him off and move on

what the hell is wrong with falling in love, ffs?

Ask him that!

What lunar maiden said.

Oh no, I'm sorry if I came off as harsh.

I don't think it's fair to say "falling for everything". I don't think that's what she was referring to. We can have sex without feelings, but as the emotional creatures many of us cancer females are, we can't help ourselves from falling for someone we share a deep emotional and physical connection with. I was in a similar situation six months ago then, with a make crab as well. I never would have guessed someone could make me feel the way I felt with him, in bed. I fell for him immediately and was left wondering what went wrong. I wanted more and he didn't. Hard to stop think about him.