The relationship between Cancer male and female

Are we the only sign of the zodiac where the male and female naturally attract eachother as lovers? Or is this only me 😛. Cancer women have such femininity about them that it's like an immediate mating call.

Any thoughts on this?

My ex was cancerian, she was also probably my best friend. I have met a few cancerian women and I always find them very nice. I am surprised you say intimidating.

Fixed it, why would me being a she frak you out? LOL..

Making you lose your balance in a positive way? Isn't that a good tthing that a person can do that for you?

to* you

Cancer Women are worse than Cancer Men. I am a man but I believe there are stronger female zodiac signs over their male counterpart yet Cancer Woman isn't one of them.

Posted by PurrrrHissss
The Cancer dudes I know are really shy. I'm shy, too. So it makes it really difficult for us to get to know each other.

I have always felt a sense of comfort around cancer women that we will always be there for eachother. Then it usually makes it easier for me to talk to them and open up. Do you feel similarly comfortable with cancer men?

Posted by WaterboyCancepio

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Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I can't believe the statistics suggest that..

Cancer Woman - Aries Man
Cancer Man - Gemini Woman

..are good matches. Both sound like suicidal thoughts.

(I still insist Cancer man - Sag woman is a damn good match!)

Hmmm. I'm not sure about Cancer/Gemini and Cancer/Sagittarius relationships. I would have to check her chart. Okay, let's say that our charts would have to look similar or something like that.

Can-Sag is a great match in my opinion. Cancer-Gemini is absolutely stupid, even though they tend to have a lot of water.

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If the guy is a Cancer and Sag lady. Not the other way around. You are more likely to get some faithfulness out of a Sag girl than a Cancer girl gets from a Sag boy. Sag is rightfully at the bottom of the Cancer lady's list!

Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I can't believe the statistics suggest that..

Cancer Woman - Aries Man
Cancer Man - Gemini Woman

..are good matches. Both sound like suicidal thoughts.

(I still insist Cancer man - Sag woman is a damn good match!)

Cancer woman and Aries man have a very strong attraction. It's an incredibly dynamic sexy pairing, and often turns serious but doesn't last long. Two different people and again the issue with faithfulness on the part of the Aries male. Many Aries men tend to have Cancer ex-wives/ex-lovers.

And btw, that Gemini is in the middle of the Cancer mans list of successful matches. So it could go either way. I know a Cancer male/Gemini female partnership. He absolutely adores her and considers her to be his soul mate. She seems to down play it and was asking me if I knew of any apartments she could move to. I was thinking why was she asking me that when she is living with her boyfriend.

Posted by MoonMan
I don't know, I'm starting to think there is too much emphasis placed on 'Sun sign' regarding faithfulness.
I mean, is one sign really more faithfull than any other?

There are so many other factors to take into consideration...

ps.
Hey LunarMaiden, what country do you live in?
(if you don't mind me asking, juz curious)

I disagree, on DXP there is too much consideration to the other planets in my opinion. Moonman we have been here before and you fail to understand that I already know that there are other aspects to the chart. Yes, sign is capable of cheating under certain circumstances! However, I find that some are more prone to have a very interesting definition of loyalty vs faithfulness, which is why it's important to discuss that; so that there will not be any surprises.

Unfortunately certain sun signs has never failed me in regards to faithfulness, which is why I believe it's the strongest planet in the chart, inspite of the "faithful" signs in moon, Venus and mars.

Correction:

Every sign is capable.......

Posted by WaterboyCancepio

For me, I find that in all my friendships/relationships with cancer women; they are in control of the gears and even to an extent the direction of the relationship, if that makes any sense. I'm not used to that, i'm used to being in control of the pace and direction. Which is why I find them intimidating.

We can easily have a deep and meaningful conversation, she will always figure me out faster than I will figure her out. It's all just a little too much for me in a way.

I know of one long term cancer-cancer relationship. The woman in that relationship is definitely the one in control.

Bump! I think y'all cancer chicks should just roll with us Cancer dudes. COnsidering all the sob stories I have seen on this board, I think only we can manage eachother. 😛

^I think so too.

Some of the deepest connections I had in this place were with Cancer Ladies. Definitely there is some major potential with this combo.

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I can't believe the statistics suggest that..

Cancer Woman - Aries Man
Cancer Man - Gemini Woman

..are good matches. Both sound like suicidal thoughts.

(I still insist Cancer man - Sag woman is a damn good match!)

Cancer woman and Aries man have a very strong attraction. It's an incredibly dynamic sexy pairing, and often turns serious but doesn't last long. Two different people and again the issue with faithfulness on the part of the Aries male. Many Aries men tend to have Cancer ex-wives/ex-lovers.

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Not sure why I was hating on Gemini Women then, I like them a lot.

Posted by incandescentcancer
Bump! I think y'all cancer chicks should just roll with us Cancer dudes. COnsidering all the sob stories I have seen on this board, I think only we can manage eachother. 😛

I'm actually curious of the dynamic between this pairing.

Would there be a power struggle?
Would one try to dominate the other?
Would they sexually satisfy each other?
Would kinky sex, bondage and role playing be apart of the mating ritual?
Would there be a lot of sex?
Would there be too much sensitivity and mood swings?
Would they argue often?
Would they understand each other?
Can a Fire/Air Crab successfully mate with an Earth/Water Crab?
Just how different/similar are they?

Posted by MoonMan

Posted by LunarMaiden I disagree, on DXP there is too much consideration to the other planets in my opinion. Moonman we have been here before and you fail to understand that I already know that there are other aspects to the chart. Yes, sign is capable of cheating under certain circumstances! However, I find that some are more prone to have a very interesting definition of loyalty vs faithfulness, which is why it's important to discuss that; so that there will not be any surprises.

Unfortunately certain sun signs has never failed me in regards to faithfulness, which is why I believe it's the strongest planet in the chart, inspite of the "faithful" signs in moon, Venus and mars.

🙂

"There are so many other factors to take into consideration"... ...other than just planetary positions (astrology)

I'm still not convinced that Sun sign is a valid criteria in judging the faithfulness of an individual.
Essentially, if you think that sign X is 'likely' to be unfaithful, because of their sun sign, then you are already biased towards an outcome of a relationship with that person, before you even get to really know them.
If you believe this to be true, then you will subconciously attempt validate this view to prove that you were right.

So, you have to ask yourself, was it really their Sun sign that caused them to play up on me or was it some other reason.
If you're willing to accept that people of a specific Sun sign are likely to be unfaithful, yet you're also willing to accept that some people of this Sun sign Will be faithful, then there must be another reason for the unfaithfulness.
Therefore, one can't look at Sun sign in isolation as the criteria for judging faithfulness.

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I still think the Sun sign plays a major role in determining personality traits. However, I will admit that I do prejudge based on the sun sign, but that is based on the reading I have done about the sign and personal experience. I am also aware that there are other planetary aspects that influence personalty including environment, culture and upbringing.

Lately I have been thinking about ignoring astrology and just winging it without even knowing what the person's sign is.

Would there be a power struggle?/Would one try to dominate the other?

I think this is a matter of maturity more than anything else. But I do think it would be easy for them to figure out a harmonious equilibrium.

Would they sexually satisfy each other?
Would kinky sex, bondage and role playing be apart of the mating ritual?
Would there be a lot of sex?

By the looks of it, Yes + 2*Fuck yes.

Would there be too much sensitivity and mood swings?

I doubt mood swings would be an issue, we have a better understanding of it than the others. But the sensitivity thing might become a concern.

Would they argue often? /Would they understand each other?

Can a Fire/Air Crab successfully mate with an Earth/Water Crab?

I would think F/A would go well with F/A crabs. And E/W would go well with E/W crabs. I see major potential if they stick to the secondary element of their charts, not that going another way is a concern. I just really believe in this combination. I've been thinking a lot about it lately, and I see people communicating at a very high level of chemistry in complete ease. That has to be worth something, right ?

Just how different/similar are they?

Penis/Vagina
I think both are very rational and reasonable people.
I think both can fall very very deep into love
I think both do an excellent job at listening to what's not being said
I think they will both know how and when they should give each other space
I think sex would incorporate a healthy level of laughter & orgasms.

It's just how I see it, I think t would be absolutely awesome.

Good response Bommy

Anyone have a brush with a fellow crustacean recently?

I think Libras get together all the time.

The best guy I "dated" was a cancer lol we just clique but he just didn't want anymore than what it was... It was fun though 🙂

Just don't delete the Bommy account please.

Why do you say you are not good for them?

J9 why are you bumping these Cancer/Cancer threads? LOL
What are you up to?

Anyway, I seem to attract Crab males easily whether as friends or romantic interests.
I think there is an understanding between us.

To each their own but I don't think this is a good combo. Too much water. Too many hurt feelings. It can be a right royal mind field. Then again, any combo with love & compatibility can work.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by Este8
To each their own but I don't think this is a good combo. Too much water. Too many hurt feelings. It can be a right royal mind field. Then again, any combo with love & compatibility can work.

I vehemently disagree, now if it was me and BlackIndian, that would never work, but the crab relationships i've seen are way more satisfying from the outside then i've seen crabs with others like Virgos or Caps.

Now Crab men and Sag women do really well.

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Ruh Row! CAT FIGHT!! I'm crouched, hissing and ready to pounce on your AZZ in a moment's notice!! 😉

LOL @CluelessCancer, now why you gotta put me in this? I think Cancer & Cancer can be a great match as long as the good communication & love is there. I mean it's just zodiac signs, not real life. I think any match can work if the people involved want it to.

Lol yeah I know, but you didn't have to use me as a example. But its all good, no hurt feelings🙂. @Caster I never dated a Sag before. What makes them good for a Cancer man? Although im very open to them if they are like my my Mom whose a Sagittarius. Never say never right

It can work.
I know of two such couples married a long time.

Most of the Cancers I know in real life are either women, or they're relatives of friends (my best friend's husband, her son, her baby brother), or married. Haven't seen a Cancer/Cancer couple, that I know of. Mental note to start snooping for people's signs....

cancer female? of course i can. sag female ..... i have two words for yall but lemme put in song.

Or better yet he he he

My one and only true love that got away cuz I fucked up was a Cancer. That's when I really knew what love is.