So I've known this cancer man for about 4 years. He lives out of town and comes in multiple times a year. We had become friends but the past 2 years he has tried hitting on me multiple times. Both times he had a girlfriend but he was persistent with me. I shyly would turn him down. Recently we began texting each other more. He would still flirt and say things like come down right now to see me or let's take a trip to Vegas me and you. I started to flirt back. We continued texting and one day I decided to tell him that I did have a serious crush on him. He told me he has a massive crush on me but him and his gf just broke up and hes just taking it easy at the moment. Though ok this is a bit odd as he was soooo determined when he was with his gf to get with me but now he was cooling off. No matter. We continued to msg each other. I sent him a nice care package in the mail. He was constantly telling me how amazing I am and how sweet I was. He was comming to town in Sept and we were going to hang but a friend of his kinda distracted my attention and I ended up having too much to drink that I didnt even get to hang with my friend as promised. Next morning I noticed he was texting me telling me to come back multiple times that night( I must have went home and dint hear trxt) we still continue texting here back an forth. Again he is constantly telling me how awesome I am. I was falling for him. So I told him how I felt. I told him I was falling in love with him and how much he meant to me. Then he told me he had been seeing someone already. It was like a brick smashed my heart. I was stunned and hurt. I told him how stupid I was for saying my feelings and that he should have said something the moment I first confessed I had I crush on him. He didnt. He didnt mention it at all even tho he was seeing her. I was heartbroken. He kept telling me how amazing I am and that it didnt get serious between them until just recently. He knew I was so hurt and he kept insisting he call me so we can talk. I told him dont bother as it wouldnt change anything. He said maybe not but why didnt u tell me u felt like this and we need to talk about this. I was in tears and kept refusing. He really wanted to talk on the phone about this. He said he wanted to give me time to cool down so we can talk about this. Again all saying how awesome of a friend I was to him. Havent texted him for 3 days now. I'm so hurt. I feel so lied to and betrayed. He hasnt posted anything online which is not like him as he posts daily. He hasnt reached out to me. God how could I be so stupid. What does he want from me??!!! Is he seriously just going to give up on me now after me finally confessing my feelings. Is there any chance he is seriously thinking about telling me how he feels? Please help guys any insight and advice. I'm hurting over here so badly
