Put the blame on Facebook

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Hawaiiangirl on Sunday, June 23, 2013 and has 15 replies.

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@Hawaiiangirl
13 Years

Is there anyone here got any problems with facebook which wrecked ur relationships or drown u in doubts about ur gfs / bfs—

I have known lots of situations related to the timestamp appearing next to the mobile icon on fb which has been causing lots of troubles for relationships.

Discuss here plz. Thanks.

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@libragirl37
13 Years

No. The only way it could cause problems is if you put your personal business out there and if your posting about every fight you have with your significant other your obviously not mature enough to have a healhy relationship.

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@IridescenceMorpha
13 Years

Don't have one, only activate it to contact long distance families & see how they are doing to deactivate a couple days later.

It does wreck relationships while other people try to get into their business, it also depends on mutual trust between couples.

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@IridescenceMorpha
13 Years

Posted by libragirl37
No. The only way it could cause problems is if you put your personal business out there and if your posting about every fight you have with your significant other your obviously not mature enough to have a healhy relationship.

+1

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@xxixxi
13 Years1,000+ Posts

I have it but rarely use it. I just store pics there lol

I think it's about people who and how they use it, not the facebook itself is the problem or causing troubles.

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@Sag89
14 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by BikerCh1ck

Posted by Hawaiiangirl
Is there anyone here got any problems with facebook which wrecked ur relationships or drown u in doubts about ur gfs / bfs—

I have known lots of situations related to the timestamp appearing next to the mobile icon on fb which has been causing lots of troubles for relationships.

Discuss here plz. Thanks.

Never caused me any problem at all. On the contrary it saved me of lots of trouble.
I don't trust people with no facebook because I feel that they want something to hide.

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lol..seriously?

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@prettyladii
17 Years1,000+ Posts

I've had real life stalkers/followers so I tightened up security on my facebook, and when I had it open or do open it back up, security is so tight and information is so minial you have to be someone I talk to and am cool with/ close with IRL to really know any of the things people spy for.

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@butterflydream
13 Years

Actually, I think that social sites do help about trust and stuff. I'm a Cancer and although I won't force anyone to give me their passwords to Facebook, if a boyfriend trusts me enough with his password then that's quite a good sign, right?

Also it's easier to note the red flags and catch cheating partners. I found out a Pisces cheated on me once, through FB. We were doing long distance and obviously he could say anything he like to me and lie through his teeth and I would never know. And he's so good at it, until his FB account betrayed him.

If not for FB, I don't know how long I would have continued to be fooled.

*of course sometimes FB causes lots of trouble, especially for paranoid people, but then these people cause trouble out of everything with their behaviour, so how could you put the blame on FB?*

my 2 cents. 🙂