Sag woman/cancer man. Mixed signals?

Ehh I had relationship like this with a Cancer guy. My oh my are they are their best when they are your friend first or what?lol. I swear I could mess up the stars and this guy would still look at me like I'm an angel, awesome friend to have. The best advice I can give is it seems to me like he's more into the friendship than anything.
The cancer guy I've been friends with for 14 years now, we've crossed lines, kissed the whole nine before, but we always come back to the friendship because we were friends for so long and to be honest I think it's more important to us than a relationship would ever be. He hates the idea of trying a relationship and it doesn't work and he loses the friendship in the mist of it too. He refuses to take that chance, maybe your Cancer is in the same boat; where he has feelings no doubt but refuses to act on them out of fear that he will lose his friendship with you if things don't go right. You giving him the green light to get at your cousin was a bad move too in my honest opinion, especially if you knew deep down you had feelings for him.

Also, Cancers move slowly. I have a water sign moon too (pisces) so this part I understand about them. They are far more emotional than I am, and for them to live in a shell, I can't understand how they let a lot of things get under it so much. It's a mystery us —air signs?? will never understand. You being a sagg, I've noticed with fire signs they don't really understand the complicated and emotional people in the world. To me a fire signs favorite phrase is —It's not that deep??. They forget not everyone is able to feel and move along that fast like them.

Anyway, just give it time. Enjoy the friendship. Plus if the two of you are friends like you say, then you should feel comfortable talking to him about anything, even this. Like I said, Cancer??s are awesome, caring, and nurturing people in friendships. They trust their friends and family. It's the new people going after their heart they have a hard time letting in. You're already in girl, lol. So just talk to him about it, let him know how you feel. If he's anything like the Cancer guy I know, he will ease some of your confusion or he will at least try. Mines always did.

And that little comment about him being —offended?? that your friends even asked is rubbish. He was embarrassed they noticed, and tried to cover it by —acting?? offended. Nice try crab. Lol. Careful with these ones.