Saying I love you

Saying I love you

I'm sorry I don't know what happened when I wanted to post. The question was

When you, especially cancer men, say "i love you", do you really mean it?

From my experience, when a crab guy says something, he usually 100% means it 🙂

Cancer rising here, I only ever say "I love you" when I mean it.

Otherwise I would get pretty disgusted with myself.

Posted by TokerX
Is not the words I want to hear from you, it's not that I want you, not to say, but if you only knew how easy it would be to show me how you feel... 😉

If you're talking about showing my support towards my cancer man, I do it everyday. He works very much and I'm always there for him at the end of the day. He tells me everyday at random moments (something like: "The work day is horrible so far and I'm not feeling so well but I love youu")
I just had a genuine curiosity if a cancer man REALLY means when he says "I love you"

Cancer rising and Taurus sun female here and if I say it I mean the shit.

If you say it better mean it too..mars in mercury and mars in Taurus.. I want proof you mean what you say and say what you mean.. and be honest with me.

Yes

Posted by Kodak375
Oh yeah. Saying that is like making a life or death commitment at times. lmao

lool sounds so dramatic haha

leo here, also dramatic sometimes. It kinda adds something extra over the aparent casual things does it not? haha

I will admit to having some minor trust issues related to this question. Since he's telling me everyday and being all lovey dovey when he's with me, sometimes I'm a bit scared of who he's talking with when he's not with me (on facebook,etc, he's/was a lady's man) and we don't talk, while I'm giving his space, let him be. I do sometimes question the validity of his words.

I do realize the problem is with me though :/

As far as I know most Cancers that say this really do mean it.

Posted by Koniucha
I don't see how the problem is with you. Perhaps it is, but if he is giving you a reason to not trust him, then it is not just you.

I feel like on this forum cancer men get pass on everything because well, they are cancer men.

I feel that sometimes too

Posted by TokerX

Posted by bloobaz

Posted by TokerX
Is not the words I want to hear from you, it's not that I want you, not to say, but if you only knew how easy it would be to show me how you feel... 😉

If you're talking about showing my support towards my cancer man, I do it everyday. He works very much and I'm always there for him at the end of the day. He tells me everyday at random moments (something like: "The work day is horrible so far and I'm not feeling so well but I love youu")
I just had a genuine curiosity if a cancer man REALLY means when he says "I love you"

It's a song. 😛 More than words by Extreme. I have Venus in Cancer, but I'm a Gem, sooooooo... 😛 As I stated on the Gem board yesterday, I'm more likely to say "Go fuck yourself" when I want to say "I love you".

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Is it hard for you to tell people that you love them and if so why. Is it because someone hurt you in the past.

Posted by bloobaz
leo here, also dramatic sometimes. It kinda adds something extra over the aparent casual things does it not? haha

I will admit to having some minor trust issues related to this question. Since he's telling me everyday and being all lovey dovey when he's with me, sometimes I'm a bit scared of who he's talking with when he's not with me (on facebook,etc, he's/was a lady's man) and we don't talk, while I'm giving his space, let him be. I do sometimes question the validity of his words.

I do realize the problem is with me though :/

I don't like it when the man that I am with talks to other women on Facebook ect also. Maybe it's because I am on the the Leo cusp. And if he has other women in his life that are just friends this would bother me also.

Posted by Kodak375

Posted by Koniucha
I don't see how the problem is with you. Perhaps it is, but if he is giving you a reason to not trust him, then it is not just you.

I feel like on this forum cancer men get pass on everything because well, they are cancer men.

ha! =)

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I used to think that cancer men where so innocent until I started hearing horror stories about their silent treatment/hot and cold behavior and selfishness. I'm attempting to date one now but I am already confused by his behavior. I guess I should just stick to what I'm used to which is Leo men.

Part of it is not believing the hype and seeing them as ordinary people instead of "the cancer". I am guilty. When I started treating my friend like a friend and not like a off limits mystery she reciprocated and told me she was distant because I was off. I was off because I was reading way too much into thing about her that didn't have anything to do with me or really her. There are lots of cancers in great relationships. If it ain't for you just move on.