I recently started dating a cancer man, when we first met there were sparks immediately. I was actually really surprised by how well we connected. Well we had sex pretty quickly however during sex he would say things like he wanted to be with only me and wanted to make me happy. When he first said this, I blew it off as "sex talk" but there was something about it that made me think that maybe he was serious when he said it. But I ignored it because anything said during sex can't be taken too seriously. After having sex a few more times and his continuing to say these things to me like calling himself my "boyfriend" one day on the phone I asked him if he was serious when he said those things and he said absolutely, he said that he was very comfortable around me and that it's taken him a while to to meet me. So I thought to myself ok, even though things are going very fast between us since we're both in our mid to late 30's maybe he's just tired of playing "games" and just wants to be upfront with his feelings. We talk most days but eventually every conversation turns sexual, also, every time I see him it's usually at either one of our places and it always ends in sex. I started noticing that we don't see each other on the weekends. This confuses me because that's the time that we could spend some "quality" time together doing something other than having sex. During an argument, I asked him if I was just a sexual thing for him and he said no. I kind of believe him because I stopped speaking to him for about 8 hours and he sent no less than 15 text messages and left voicemails asking me if I was ignoring him and asking me to tell him what was up. But this not seeing him on the weekend thing is confusing to me (granted he sometimes have to work on the weekends and no I don't know his schedule). But no one works all day. So, is this typical behaviour for a cancer male? Does this seem like a test? or, does it seem like I am being used for sex? How do I handle this?
