Scorp Women and Cancer Men.....Do they work—?

Hi Everyone!

I am Scorpio woman who has her eyes on a certain Cancer male. The only problem is that he is kinda seeing someone right now. She is an Aries. he has told me that they are pretty much at the end of their rope....she has told him that she has become bored with him and he does not feel like she gives him enough in the relationship (attention, caring, time etc.).

He has also expressed interest in me...but is waiting until things are completely settled to really try to start anything romantic with me. However, he still calls me every night....and we still spent the night together this wekend (no sex) just cuddling.

So, I guess I have three questions. 1) Are Cancer men compatible with Scorp woman? 2)Should I be concerned about this girl...or just be patient and allow her to slowly fade out of the pic? 3) How can a Scorp woman go about wooing a Cancer man?

Thanks guys!

P.S. I am soooo over the Gem guy...what a waste of time and energy!

I've already answered this on the Cancer Board...

Do some astrology research if you want to dig into it further.

I heard that it works extremely well but can also be plauged with problems.

Nah

I think these astrologers talk a load of bollox at times...They always match Scorpio/pisces, scorpio/cancer..when in rweality these pairings suck..big time!

My best relationship was with a Leo and another with a fellow Scorpio...I have desires to murder cancer and pisces men and would not dream of having them as a life partner..perish the thought!

Grrrrrrrrrrrr...even now my blood is boiling..

I need a powerful, dominating man to be a husband to me and a father to my kids..(assuming I have one) not some whiny ass moron..

God I hate them...I never want a water sign apart from Scorpio as the father of my child..heaven forbid

And whats a reality check from a guy like when its at home? Can't recall ever feeling sensitive or crying due to an insult from a man..they are usually too busy crying themselves or faffing around like a live chicken with a lemon up its ass

FYI: I AM NOT FUCKIN BROODY!!!!!!!!

No, I can't stand weedy men...And I really do not hesitate to actually have a physical punch up with the guy if thats how he wants to show me a smackdown..literally..LOL..

I don't often lose my temper but when I do, consider a red mist moment..I am perfectly capable of killing..hence i tend to walk away most of the time..Can't be bothered with all that..been there, done that, got the t-shirt...

I was married to a Cancer, and I would have to agree with the majority of the posts above... It has its high points, but it also had its extremely, extremely, extremely low points.

Points to re-iterate:
"he does not feel like she gives him enough in the relationship (attention, caring, time etc.)"
"mummy's boyz the lot of them!"
"Either too whiny or too selfish"

But, if you would like to continue, it doesn't sound like you need to do much to "woo" him. It sounds like you have already done that. Just keep up whatever you were doing before...

::rolls eyes::

And Scorpio men are the worst at winding you up too...

This combination does work to an extent. My cancer and I get along very well. We have been together for 4 years. I almost forgot to mention I'm a Scorpio. He is the only person who can just look at me and know what is wrong before I even say a word. Now as everyone else has said there are some low points. He tends to be extremely self centered at times. Not only that when he is frustrated or stressed out he falls into the "Woe is me everyone is out to get me. The world must come to a stand still because I am stressed out." attitude. Most male Cancers are very sweet but will put you through test after test to make sure you are the right person to be sweet on. Hope this helps.

woooaaaahhhh huh?? Scorpio female NOT compatible with pisces or cancer—??
well who ARE we compatible with then..? I couldn't imagine an air sign.. nooo too flirty for me. actually capricorn sounds ok..

It could work but it would depend on how strong the Cancer man is. Since Scorpio females want to be dominated, if the Cancer has Leo in him, that could make a big difference! I would do a synastry report and see what it tells you.

Cancer men can take a long time to open up. If they get into a whiny mood, tough love doesn't work (it could make him withdraw and getting him out the shell is hard). I would suggest using Scorpio empathy and compassion to soothe the moody Cancer or leave him alone until he's ready.

I think some Cancer men can be complex, just like their polar opposites Capricorn men.
Cancers needs attention and affection in heavy doses (unless they have lots of Gemini in their chart).

I agree on the Pisces men comments. They are too soft and elusive for me. The ones I know move too fast and have little ambition. I cannot stand lies, even little lies and it seems they will lie when they feel cornered. They say Capricorn-Pisces is a great match but I need a man that would dominate me and Pisces seem like doormats.

Maianm,
I have a link to a huge thread about Scorp Women/Cancer men. Many Cancers gave the Scorpios advice, hopefully it can help you.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001739.html

"I am perfectly capable of killing"

With most of the planets stacked in Scorpio, one really cant expect a Mother Teresa to come out it.

Hahahaha....

Don't let me make you the first victim 😛

LOL...first victim ?....So U kill with a new style everytime ?

Well yes, consistency is rather boring wouldn't you say? besides, I want to leave without a trace...

😛

Tis quite a sad day today, clearing out all my junk I seem to have accumulated over the 5 years I have been at this work place..

😢

Hello you two

No last day is Friday but I am trying to clear everything up..its quite sad..

Its not depressing as such..just so much to gather etc..I will miss my cactus plant..

😢

But planning the party extravaganza for Friday!..woohooo..really gonna let my hair done and go mad..

Yes its great!..its about 21 degrees here today so nice and warm..the feet definitely need a pedicure now!..woohoo..need to get one done real soon...let out the pretty little feet of mine..

hows France shaping up? lovely I presume

LOL..my harem are very well...Virgo still number 2..

Yes Aries is very excited, as am I....he said something the other day which was a biting the knuckle moment for me too..he said "be warned, i like to mark my territory"

Rrrrrarrr

Bring it on baby...I will deeply scar you!...

Am very excited about seeing him..

I don't like goodbyes...I would rather just disappear

Oh my!

::fans self::

Boy am I excited!...

Anyways, yes the grandoise display of affection etc...can't be seen choking...God I don't know how I will say goodbye to the Aries..

::be warned, i might not return at all::

Ok lunch awaits..

You guys always catch me at a bad time...

See you all later

::sings eye of the tiger::

Oooooooh saucy!

😉

loves young dream!

LOL..Nah man I am totally sunny today...

I feel like jiving to that Christina Aguileras song..Candyman!

I can't get it out of my head..I am gonna request it at my leaving do...

Gonna see if the MD wants to jive with me..he's an Aries

😉

Oh ok lol..i thought you were calling me a raincloud!..

Yes Aries is the flavour of the month..well actually flavour of the year depending on how the meeting goes end of month..woohoo..

He's a one stop jive, makes my cherry pop
He's a sweet talkin' sugar coated candy man (oh)
A sweet talkin sugar coated candy man

Whoa, yeah
Well, by now I'm getting all bothered and hot

lalalla...

EG: thats so cute..the whole protection element coming out to play when your at your most vulnerable..dontcha just lub them

LOL..Cappy called me shady too..

I am not shady

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaah 😢

I can just imagine doing star jumps to this line:

He's a one stop jive, makes my cherry pop
He's a sweet talkin' sugar coated candy man (oh)
A sweet talkin sugar coated candy man

LOL..Yep..feeling it today man!....Woooooah!....Wheres mr aries..i need some lovin

Some cancer friend of mine is pestering me on text message..he wants a "picture"...told him to sod off and that i am not an exhibitionist!..moron..he looks like hugh grant though fwiw..

Message posted by: tanya023 on 4/11/2007 8:55:31 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.142
She's iffy EG. It's like, something's buggin' her. Are you lonely MM?

Tanya, your insight amazes me...how did you know?

Pffffffffffft

Nah mate, not lonely, too much energy..need releeeeeease....

EG understands me.....cos she da bomb!

I know a Scorpio like that..at work..the guys a total dickhead

Yeah me reckon you been zapped with the scorpio seal of approval

You gems are ok..in small doses 😛

Scorpio male/gem female works out quite well..the other way around, disaster..

Its alright Tanya..I like you.

EG..the scorpio dude at work..same problem..married to a cancer chick, hates her guts but is still in marriage..too much of a coward to come out of it cos of financial issues etc..then moans about it all the time..told him to either put up or shut up

Message posted by: tanya023 on 4/11/2007 9:06:48 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.142
Oh MM. Stop it, I don't expect you to.

Now your just being modest..

😛

Yeah too much emotional drain...can't stand victim mentality....If your stupid enough to get yourself in that mess in the first place, be man enough to get yourself out..I think its a result of living a sheltered life to be honest..

wimps!

Message posted by: tanya023 on 4/11/2007 9:11:08 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.142
Which part was so modest? I'm just saying you don't have to, I don't expect you to. Ah you screwed my frame of mind, and I was just recuperating.

LOL..lets move on from this...

"Maybe they DO respect that marriage is forever"

only if we are happy...if we aren't, then that above statement goes straight out of the window...we're self-centred too...don't forget that..

I don't understand that mentality..and I have VERY little time for it too...it irritates me to the point of lashing out..thats why I wouldn't be a very good counsellor..

I was with my leo for aaaaages...very secure, loving relationship..but it came to a point where I didn't love him anymore..maybe it built up over 6 months..was losing interest in him, then the interest disappeared altogther. I went on holiday alone to rejuvenate myself, came back and told him it was over and that I can't live a lie...over and done with...

I can't relate to the Scorpios having baggage and afraid to let go...that part doesn't apply to me AT ALL..

LOL..must be awful being you!...Once my decision is made..its made..no going back!..and its usually an instant one..it just clicks into place..