Scorpio and Cancer differences

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@lubenica
20 Years

They are very, very similar, especially emotionally.

I have read in one book that Cancer is a Scorpio without the tail (sting), so perhaps Scorpio is more dangerous of the two. Otherwise, they are remarkably similar, even the animal symbols look alike a lot, LOL.

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@lubenica
20 Years

Yes,

Bling is right, they have dark, cruel sense of humour. But I really like that, because I know where it is coming from (their dark side), that's why I find it hillarious. Me and my Scorpio friend are usually on the floor laughing.
As for the first part of Blingys answer, this is only the immature Cancers. The mature ones (eg myself πŸ™‚), are not like that at all, but they usually mature a bit later.
Scorpios are really, really sensitive, but hide it really well, that's why I love them so much. But so are the Cancers, although, much more obvious.

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@lubenica
20 Years

....oh, and unevolved Scorpios are evil, which Cancers are not, even unevolved ones.
Look at Aedimus here, a prime example!!!!

Hey, just joking, I love Scorpios (although the evil part is often true)

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@lubenica
20 Years

Blingy, that is correct

After 30 Cancers are the best, don't even bother before that. Talking from the personal experience.

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@lubenica
20 Years

Hmmmm, interesting...

I am still to meet a Scorpio that I don't click with straight away, whether in love or friendship (of course, if the age, interests, life style s are similar). And they always stick to me like glue, which I don't mind at all, just on the contrary. But there is always an exception to the rule, I guess...

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

LOL..Well I would hate to burst your bubble m'dearest Blingers...but the other sign is Libra!...lol..I have NEVER had a problem with Leos..

Libras on the other hand...

::cringes::

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@lubenica
20 Years

Hahahaha, in my case it is mutual (well, thank God for that!).

And sometimes, Scorpios get so possesive with me, I have to move away, litterally, for some space. But I do love them, I love their good qualities, they are great, loyal friends, if a little controlling...

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Oh I remember on New years eve, we were about to go out to this club. My Pisces friend had invited a Cancer chick who expected the pisces chick to arrange her travel itinery for her...I can see my Pisces friend getting all worked up trying to arrange all this. So I just grabbed the phone off her and said "look, we are going to a club in Tower Hill, if you need mummy to hold your hand, I suggest you stay in your little bedroom with your barbie doll...if you want to come out, heres the address, make your own bloody way there"

Fucking twat!...Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!!

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@lubenica
20 Years

This IS funny, because I have totally different experience.

It is usually my Scorpio friends that WANT to and INSIST on organizing things for me, even though I am more then capable of doing it myself. They just love to take over.

Example: I had a Scorpio girlfriend from abroad to be the guest in my home. One morning, I took the pot to make us some coffee, and she literaly snatched the pot from my hand and did it herself. And it was like that with everything, she loved to be in control.
My male Scorpio friend does similar thing, but it almost smells of protectiveness, however, it is still the part of controlling behaviour.
But I let them do it, because I know they like it, it makes them feel good, but it does feel a bit overbearing sometimes.

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

We are just self-sufficient, don't like relying on anyone..in whatever shape or form..We have to be in charge of the situation..

But I hate organising anything..just tell me where I need to be and I will turn up....late...but I will turn up...

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@lubenica
20 Years

Yes, they are emotionally unaware, immature Cancers. But again, it is not sign specific, as a matter of fact, I had many ultra possesive expriences with Aquariuses. These ones turned obsessive, and for one "cool" sign, it was very scary experience.
It all boils down to emotional maturity.
My personal horoscope is air signs heavy (even though I am Cancer), perhaps this is the reason I sometimes need some air/space. But still, evolved Scorpios are ones of my favourite signs, I really get them on this gut level, I simply know where they are coming from.

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@lubenica
20 Years

Blingy, really not passing the back, the guy was obsessive, possesive nutter (realized it too late). And I have a Leo girlfriend, and she told me that the only sign that she had the same experience with was Aquarius.
And as for Scorpio/Libra rising, WOW! My two favourite signs blended into one! That is one fine combination, as far as my tastes go, that is.
I do think that Can and Sco's are very similar, but of course, it is a few, but major differences that set them apart. In general, Scorpios control their emotions so much better then Cancers, but inside they are similar emotional volcanos. Anyway, that's my 2 cent.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

"He means what he means...he owns them. Or so he thinks. He believe he owns the world..."

Silence woman! Silence!

Yeah as Clio meant...I own them in every perspective.

Scorps can go and scare off crows, cuz that's only what they can do near me. Cancer's manipulations works only against them. I've seen their king, and kicked his ass. The rest will follow him.

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@lubenica
20 Years

Blingy, you are funny, LOL.

Did I say Scorpio sun/Libra rising, a VERY neat combo! Hahaha, that was terrible "a second hand dartboard"

Well, I think that Scorpios and Cancers rock, I don't care what anyone else thinks πŸ™‚

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@lubenica
20 Years

Do you know what I am predicting will happen one day, and this is serious:

MissMorals will fall madly in love with.....a dreaded Cancer! Ahahhaha, I can't wait for this day to happen, and it will happen as sure as the Sun comes out every day.
Don't waste your time denying it, I am sure it will happen one day, hopefully I'll be around to read all about it, hahahhahahaha.

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@lubenica
20 Years

Very happy for you and Aries, but lets wait......and see....

Blingy,

In my past, my major attractions were with people who had either Libra Sun/Scorpio everything else, or Scorpio Sun plus some Libra influence (moon, ascendant etc).
I just think that a Scorpio benefits greatly from Libra's more airy influence, the need to look at both sides of things. I really like that combo, but it may be because I myself am a mixture of water and air. Don't know, but you should be happy, LOL.

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@ABCR2
21 YearsCancer

you know, A lot of these comments could be found in a class room. Seething hatred and all.

But anyway the diffrences and similarities between the two are almost equal.

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@lubenica
20 Years

I had fun on the forums today. And I agree with your post above.

Anyway, good night people, off I go to Slumberland.

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@Karima27
20 Years500+ PostsScorpio

I have got to add my two cents to this. Scorps are more straitfoward in all ways. We do not dance around things we need to say. Where as Cancers like to play. Both the males and females.As Scorps we have to walk on eggshells or we hurt feelings...

We are stronger than them too. We are the strongest of all the water signs.

We are very emotional but we hide it better than Pisces and Cancers

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Chiaki Kuriyama is a libra

(sorry this is the gemini in me, .. always talking...)

I like the cancers on this board, but they seem very different from your "every-day" cancer.. I don't get along all too well with them in real life either.

Oh Blingy you lil' thingy, you PUPPY YOU!!!!!!

πŸ™‚

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

I really do think though you can't compare cancer with scorpio. They may appeal to each other, but they are very different.. An aries ain't no leo, a libra ain't no gemini and a taurus aint no virgo...

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

antibling 6/11/2007 2:59:54 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.102

^^^ example of a lubbly little Cancer chick,doesn't seem as mardy and unhinged as a fair few of them are,especially when there's a full moon ......

When there is a full moon I don't look like a cookiemonster anymore now do I? πŸ™‚

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

I don't get along with cancers all too well either.
I can't think of a single cancer-friend.
It's strange. I get everything I read about us and it's not all negative.
I think we are beautiful personalities, like the other 11 signs!
In real life though... a lot of us turn out to be naggin' b*tches, I admit
My grandmother was a manipulative cow, I was afraid of my aunt when I was little (she made me eat big pieces of half-raw carrots she'd dropped in her spaghetti) and my cancer-classmates... *sigh* : DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA. I mean,seriously!!!.. Very tiring!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so not like that, and my leo-mate (and many other πŸ˜›) agree/s with that!
Also my other grandmother is a very nice old lil' lady. But then again we were born 22 June and 24 June.. maybe it has something to do with the fact that we were born on a cusp?

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@cancimini
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Aprilbaby 6/11/2007 5:38:23 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.134

Eh, I don't think the cusp thing improves anything. My mother is on the cusp of Gemini/Cancer, and it's awful

--> damn! I'm thinking of another theory, cause I really can't be that bad hehe πŸ™‚

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