Posted by BullShitPlus synastry is bull! I did the chart and it was perfect but he still lost interest and wanted only sex. Bullshit!!!
Breathe. Everything will be fine. You're hurting right now, and it's understandable. But remember Any lost encounter is a lesson learned.
Posted by BullShitStill hurts cuz I had strong feelings for him. I don't see the lesson in this. I'm meant to get hurt³Posted by victoriageminiWe are not the sum of our charts. Morals and ethics play a huge part in a personsPosted by BullShitPlus synastry is bull! I did the chart and it was perfect but he still lost interest and wanted only sex. Bullshit!!!
Breathe. Everything will be fine. You're hurting right now, and it's understandable. But remember Any lost encounter is a lesson learned.
commitment level. Think of it as dodging the proverbial bullet.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterHell no I'm 29 he's 37
awe and you are Gemini right? Are you both young like mud 20s?
Posted by HemispheresWhy are you amused
-chuckles heartily-
Posted by BullShitI want throw upPosted by victoriageminiNo one is meant to get hurt. Only meant to grow. Remember the power of thought, if you truly believe something it can manifest itself. IF he is so amazing that you liked him so much, you wouldnt be in this predicament. You liked the idea of him, he did you a favor and showed you who he was/is. Be happy the facade is over with so you wouldnt have gottenPosted by BullShitPosted by victoriageminiWe are not the sum of our charts. Morals and ethics play a huge part in a personsPosted by BullShitPlus synastry is bull! I did the chart and it was perfect but he still lost interest and wanted only sex. Bullshit!!!
Breathe. Everything will be fine. You're hurting right now, and it's understandable. But remember Any lost encounter
is a lesson learned.
commitment level. Think of it as dodging the proverbial bullet.
Still hurts cuz I had strong feelings for him. I don't see the
lesson in this. I'm meant to get hurt³
hurt worse (and trust me that's possible). Hurts i understand, this hurt wont last long. You're meant to learn and grow, never to hurt and stagnate.click to expand
Posted by HemispheresFuq you too then
I'm the resident hateful asshole, just enjoying the saltiness of your tears.
Posted by MusicologyI may be hurt but he wasn't my boyfriend plus thats not my style
Just punch him in the eye. Works like a charm!
Posted by victoriageminiOh wow, has he been married before?Posted by MoonbutterHell no I'm 29 he's 37
awe and you are Gemini right? Are you both young like mud 20s?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterNope..no kids eitherPosted by victoriageminiOh wow, has he been married before?Posted by MoonbutterHell no I'm 29 he's 37
awe and you are Gemini right? Are you both young like mud 20s?click to expand
Posted by BullShitLove to you
you'll be fine gem.
Posted by victoriageminiDid you guys meet through on-line dating?Posted by MoonbutterNope..no kids eitherPosted by victoriageminiOh wow, has he been married before?Posted by MoonbutterHell no I'm 29 he's 37
awe and you are Gemini right? Are you both young like mud 20s?click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterNo through FacebookPosted by victoriageminiDid you guys meet through on-line dating?Posted by MoonbutterNope..no kids eitherPosted by victoriageminiOh wow, has he been married before?Posted by MoonbutterHell no I'm 29 he's 37
awe and you are Gemini right? Are you both young like mud 20s?click to expand
Posted by siopaowiksYeah! Wtf! It must be them if it happened to you too
@victoriagemini I feel you dear. My Cancer was exactly like how you described yours. He was so eager,persistent,cooked for me,he was sooo into me. Then after a month of seeing eachother and having sex I thought he was the one. Coz let's face it,they are such good actors,fooling us that they like us and sh*t then when we have adjusted and liked them then they disappear like nothing happened. W.t.f is wrong with these guys
Posted by narayanaI'm patient but I don't want to be a second option. I don't know..maybe the long distance between us turned him off
The problem with Cancers is that mostly they are not faking it, they actually do like you. But liking someone doesn't mean they want to marry you right away, although it may seem like that because of us being so thrilled at the present moment. But as the moodiest and probably the most changeable sign, Cancer may suddenly change his mind and disappear, and not because he consciously decided to stop liking you because of this and that, he just felt that something wasn't quite right, so he needed to run away and he did. There are dependable Cancers out there too, but the unpredictability is just a trait that one must be aware of, if they want to understand a crab.
Posted by victoriagemini@victoriagemini exactly! Everything was going fine with me and my Cancer. I'm a leo and I have to admit I held back a bit because I didn't know his intentionsyet and its too early to ask coz its only been a month. The last few days before he disappeared we watched a movie at his place,then the next day I brought him dinner. Then days passed it was ok coz we were both working. Then I randomly messaged him,coz he wasn't txting. I asked him out for a movie and he said he was out with friends. I actually tried testing him if he would reply to my message coz I was pretending I wrongly sent it to him. Then he replied and said he was gonna be busy dring the weekend,so I just said I miss him and enjoy the weekend. That was it,no reply,nothing. Like wtf are wrong with them? I get it they don't like cofrontations but atleast have manners,right?!Posted by siopaowiksYeah! Wtf! It must be them if it happened to you too
@victoriagemini I feel you dear. My Cancer was exactly like how you described yours. He was so eager,persistent,cooked for me,he was sooo into me. Then after a month of seeing eachother and having sex I thought he was the one. Coz let's face it,they are such good actors,fooling us that they like us and sh*t then when we have adjusted and liked them then they disappear like nothing happened. W.t.f is wrong with these guysclick to expand
Posted by MissGemmiOK but get this....he called me so sweet and that he likes it. So I'm just this sweet girl who's a second option? Who's suppose to wait when he wants to play? Fuq that... I don't want to be a second option. I feel like he's ignoring me on social media too. Like I get it dude...but just delete me not ignore me
You never should show your profound interest in a Cancer/ whether male or female. Just be there when they want you to. Act oblivious. They don't want you to be the emotional one telling them you miss them and you want to hang out (you can do this, when the relationship between you has settled). Hence, why they go for the more cool/aloof types like Caps and Aquas, eventhough they are their complete opposites. Cancer wants to have complete freedom to either come close or withdraw, but you need to stay at the exact same place where they left you for them to know where to find you when they come back. They will be very sad when you leave, but sure they will find another object close by where they have left it before you.
I have learned the hard way. My cancer has put much effort to reel me back in because I couldn't handle the situation. I only replied when I was needed, giving myself time to flip the script to where our relationship was heading -> being friends. I think as a Gemini I can do this, keeping it platonic and just take it as a fully lived experience. I do not have any expectations from our relationship or thinking that it might get anything else than this. Especially in the love/romantic department you cannot change the heart of a Cancer. You're either in or you're out. If they have made a decision that's it. If you care enough you might stay (like I did), if you feel you can't handle the situation you must leave and cut all ties, because there's really nothing you can do when a Cancer is gone and not putting any effort in whatever relationship you had. You will think they still care for you romantically if they keep in touch but that's not it, they keep in touch because they found something in you that they really appreciate and they find it hard to let go of that. Cancers need the whole package. If you're not the whole package you will not get any form of romantic commitment. Sad but true.
Posted by MiZLeoHUGS
I'm with you girl.....except mine was a Pisces with a cancer moon. Did the same shit to me. He still talking to me telling me how he wants to make "love" to me......it's making my skin crawl...and I loved him so much....it's so sad. I feel for you. I really do.
Posted by MiZLeoSweet...still don't get them haha
However, I was married to a cancer. He was emotionaly abusive....but he was faithful and took care of me. Even when we seperated he still made sure I was taken care of after he moved out. He is still my friend. He texted me today asking if I wanted to go see the new avengers movie together when it comes out. I told him yes. So we still are friends. Just couldn't live together.
Posted by SalamanderCandyNo just dating
Are you his girlfriend though?
Posted by thinktoomuchI don't hate him...I am just dissapointed and angry with myself. We had a good time together. Why I'm not deleting him? Because I still hope he will come back.
Why don't you grow up and delete him and take power back in your life? Yeah so you got dissapointed, happens all the time, but ask yourself why you are wanting around for him to delete you on social media instead of just doing it yourself if you're this angry and "hate" him so much?
Posted by thinktoomuchYou know what? You irritate mePosted by victoriageminiIt will be a lot more convincing, when you actually believe what you´re saying yourself.
Screw them. Last time I fall for a guy ever! I'm so done with them
Statements like this are always bullshit 100 % .click to expand
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