Can you trust this cancer man?

Met him on a website and we went on one date. He seem very honest and sweet.

We are about to go on a second date, I saw his other profile on a different website with a younger age.

The age he told me in person is older and is the same as the site we met.

Is this discovery worth mentioning to him?

Posted by Koniucha
I wouldn't say anything, but I'd watch him closely.

Can't watch the younger age profile anymore.

Posted by Goldigold
I would

How would you approach it?

Posted by Goldigold
Jokingly, I would say.... Ummmm I saw your profile on _____, you sly fox 😉 your 24 lol? Or however old he said he was. He'll feel obligated to answer if you say nothing more but smile.

I'm not a fan of liars. So I would enjoy this. But it's important to let a man know you wont put up with his shit in the beginning. If you let it slide, you'll regret it later when he starts lying about other things. You're just dating. Choose wisely. 🙂

Honesty is important at any stage. Some people blame their chart for their behavior. No it only influence you but you are the one who chose to be dishonest.

Will say that in person. I have a feeling he might say soemoen steal his picture or some lame excuse.

Posted by Illuminati
Met him on a website and we went on one date. He seem very honest and sweet.

We are about to go on a second date, I saw his other profile on a different website with a younger age.

The age he told me in person is older and is the same as the site we met.

Is this discovery worth mentioning to him?

Food for thought. If, IF, he lies about his age what ELSE does he lie about? 😕

Love,

Eva

PS: To answer your question I would call him up on this. When I was communicating w/a man on Christian Mingle I caught him in a lie. The pic he sent me showed a shiny glow on his left wedding finger. I called him up on it and he confessed he was still married, living w/his "wife" and that they were sleeping in separate bedrooms.....Yeah right! And I wasn't born yesterday. This was Christian mingle for God's sake and you STILL FIND LIARS!! Well, I wrote to the administrator (I don't give up) and shared the e-mails as "proof" as he violated the rules and regulations of being "divorced or single" (they would NOT accept separated or married) and he was removed from their site.

(Eva calmed down now)

@evathediva good for you for reporting him. I will definitely bring it up in person

Trust a man? Trust a cancer man? I wouldn't. You can start with 5% of your trust. If he doesn't PROVE he's worthy of more of your trust, I'd recommend to look elsewhere

@goldigold will keep you posted.

He is free to meet people now. It's the fake age that makes me leery of him.

No. don't trust him. They lie and manipulate to get what they want, without any regard to how it affects anyone else. And they will always be able to perfectly justify it in their own minds, so you cannot make them realize that they are wrong.

Hmm.. I don't know why he has to lie about his age. Maybe bcoz he like an older women, and he don't want you to look at him like a boy. Maybe he want to show you that age doesn't matter. But if it metter to you, then just asked him. Nothing to lose rite? You just had a first date.

Mention! See reaction. Don't waste your time waiting for...nothing.
Though my mom BF said he was 70 when he was 77. Looked good.
Had a good life for 8 years until his passing. Oy!

@cancerwoman15@shellyd238@goldigold

I asked him how old is he really? He told me the older age. I told him I saw his other dating profile with a younger age.

He goes he started that one sometime ago as a joke. He said people there have no quality and he doesn't care what he out here. The older age one is real as he is looking for serious partner

Then he show me his license to prove his real age to me, which is the same as the older age profile

If something don't seem right, well, it usually..ISN'T!

I don't understand people who would lie about basic things, lol! What's that all about??

Posted by piscespoppy
I don't understand people who would lie about basic things, lol! What's that all about??

I know right! The site we met he had all the real info. He was able to verify his real age in person which was good.

He said he didn't intend to lie about his age on other site. As it was a fake account he just couldn't change the DOB anymore