@leo48
10 Years
This cancer guy is being so unfair!!!
Posted by Nevermore
Why the fuck would you hang out with him? Just dump his ass.. he disrespect you. 😐
he's my ex
Posted by Koniucha
What did you want you to do?
he wanted me to stuff my panties inside myself just for his sexual excitement. I mean don't get me wrong I would do it if I knew how! and if I wasn't such a lazy person. but no it seemed too crazy. no im never doing that
Posted by Koniucha
Wow, I don't even know what to say.I think I'll just be single forever.
ok so is he really gonna ignore me because I think he just wants to see me suffer for making him mad and not doing as he wanted. I walked pass him this morning. we go the same college. he had a smirk and he stared at me as I walked by. WTF!
Posted by Koniucha
Geez, ignore him back. His behavior is rude. I would have flipped him off as I walked by.
I was thinking of doing that. your right its my turn to give him a taste of his own medicine. and im not gonna even tell him when I ignore him. im just gonna do it.
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by leo48
Posted by Koniucha
What did you want you to do?
he wanted me to stuff my panties inside myself just for his sexual excitement. I mean don't get me wrong I would do it if I knew how! and if I wasn't such a lazy person. but no it seemed too crazy. no im never doing that
Tell him you'll work on it after he wears your panties for a week.
You only want them inside you if they've been on him.
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omg im gonna so try that out lol
Posted by Koniucha
Silence is golden, OP
so if im silent and don't pay any attention to him then he will come running back or not?
oh darn
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by leo48
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by leo48
Posted by Koniucha
What did you want you to do?
he wanted me to stuff my panties inside myself just for his sexual excitement. I mean don't get me wrong I would do it if I knew how! and if I wasn't such a lazy person. but no it seemed too crazy. no im never doing that
Tell him you'll work on it after he wears your panties for a week.
You only want them inside you if they've been on him.
omg im gonna so try that out lol
Make sure you pick something small. Tight and uncomfortable for him, and small and compact to fit inside you.
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Ahaha Arielle, you crazy girl. I would add to that and then you want him to stuff the panties up his ass. Now if he does that as sick of a mofo he is if I were you I would walk away and not fulfill your end of the bargain.
LOLZ beat me to it. The tighter the better!
LOL!
omg so guess what? my ex playfully grabbed me and gave me a big hug and asked me did I really think he was going to ignore me? and I said uh duh yea I did then he said no I wasn't serious and he started laughing. what does he want? this whole time I have known him I have been confused. one time I thought I figured him out and then I realized nope nope im not even there yet.
Take the time to get to know him, you are a smart cooki3, just be friends and build a foundation..
I'll be God damn someone I barely know would say that....
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Take the time to get to know him, you are a smart cooki3, just be friends and build a foundation..
thanks
Posted by blackphase
Posted by leo48
Posted by Koniucha
What did you want you to do?
he wanted me to stuff my panties inside myself just for his sexual excitement. I mean don't get me wrong I would do it if I knew how! and if I wasn't such a lazy person. but no it seemed too crazy. no im never doing that
Da fuck! Yeah, fuck that guy.. Don't even waste a thought on him, he doesn't deserve it. It's fine to have fetishes, but to treat someone in that manner becasue they do not comply.. What a disgusting human being.
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lmao
Posted by blackphase
Posted by leo48
Posted by blackphase
Posted by leo48
Posted by Koniucha
What did you want you to do?
he wanted me to stuff my panties inside myself just for his sexual excitement. I mean don't get me wrong I would do it if I knew how! and if I wasn't such a lazy person. but no it seemed too crazy. no im never doing that
Da fuck! Yeah, fuck that guy.. Don't even waste a thought on him, he doesn't deserve it. It's fine to have fetishes, but to treat someone in that manner becasue they do not comply.. What a disgusting human being.
lmao
Why are you laughing? :/
This guy has no respect for you. I'd be fuckin pissed, not laughing.
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your comment was funny. No I understand you completely im so sorry its not funny at all. and I was mad but I just don't know anymore.
@OP what do you want? from him, from this relationship or whatever this is?
Posted by hera
@OP what do you want? from him, from this relationship or whatever this is?
I really don't Know what me and this guy has. we broke up....but he still treats me like his girlfriend except we don't kiss each other except when were around specific people we know wont judge us. I mean in my mind were still a couple but at the same time I know its not that way in reality. we still talk about future goals and what we want and he wants me to live with him soon. its complicated. I just want him to stop being so indirect and come out and tell me what he wants and how he really feels about me that's all. and to share that with me sometimes keep me updated. I love him so much. I have known him for 8 months now. he is a really sweet and cool guy. he can be irrational too sometimes
Posted by leo48
Posted by hera
@OP what do you want? from him, from this relationship or whatever this is?
I really don't Know what me and this guy has. we broke up....but he still treats me like his girlfriend except we don't kiss each other except when were around specific people we know wont judge us. I mean in my mind were still a couple but at the same time I know its not that way in reality. we still talk about future goals and what we want and he wants me to live with him soon. its complicated. I just want him to stop being so indirect and come out and tell me what he wants and how he really feels about me that's all. and to share that with me sometimes keep me updated. I love him so much. I have known him for 8 months now. he is a really sweet and cool guy. he can be irrational too sometimesclick to expand
first: i think that after 8 months you cant say you love him... it takes much more to love someone...you are in love with him, thats different... its ok...
second: are you sure you want to build something with someone who treats you the way he did? i sure wouldnt...
respect yourself! tell him that what he did was wrong, tell him everything that bothers you, tell him you want him to be open with you...
Not a couple just fwb and Especially if no one is getting back to gether.
Unless you did something to him and he is getting you back like some kinky games and it was your turn...
Hmm strange... You think he was maybe just joking with you about the panty stuffing? Did you tell him you wanted him to wear them and stuff them up his keister?
I would usually make a funny comment and I'm glad other poster's could see the humour. But he has absolutely not respect for you. Unless he is hung like a horse and has some sort of magnetic unworldly charm about him, why are you even debating this? You deserve better. I would be terrified to see this guy again, let alone have sex with him.
Posted by leo48
Posted by Koniucha
What did you want you to do?
he wanted me to stuff my panties inside myself just for his sexual excitement. I mean don't get me wrong I would do it if I knew how! and if I wasn't such a lazy person. but no it seemed too crazy. no im never doing thatclick to expand
So he wanted you to stuff your panties inside yourself...
What kind of dumb ass request is that? Sounds stupid. I would've dumped him on the spot.
Posted by leo48
omg so guess what? my ex playfully grabbed me and gave me a big hug and asked me did I really think he was going to ignore me? and I said uh duh yea I did then he said no I wasn't serious and he started laughing. what does he want? this whole time I have known him I have been confused. one time I thought I figured him out and then I realized nope nope im not even there yet.
He sounds like a manipulative idiot.
I know. He's cancer . He'll continue like that.
Posted by leo48
ok so Friday I wouldn't fulfill this fetish for him because it just seemed extreme. so he tried to manipulate me, he started lying to get me to do it. then I made him mad un intentionally (I swear) I told him I knew he would get mad if I told him that I really didn't want to do it. and he said "oh so you made me mad on purpose and I said no way I would never do that. Not on purpose. and he said your lying and I said no im serious he said he would ignore me and act like I never existed if I didn't do it. I said fine then im still not doing it. he said no. I said bye I love you and he said stop and do what I said and I said y and he said because he said so. I said no and I didn't txt back. now today he is ignoring me! How unfair he totally blamed me!!! I would never do anything like that to him. not even try to manipulate him. I was so surprised. he has manipulated me before but I never noticed but my friends did. but now I see because this time it was way to obvious. is he really gonna ignore me or is just a game. does he want me to chase him idk ?!? I hate mind games.
Do you want someone like that back in your life?
He's asking you to do something you're uncomfortable with lol
And then he makes you feel bad about it.
He sounds like a piece of shit.
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ok so Friday I wouldn't fulfill this fetish for him because it just seemed extreme. so he tried to manipulate me, he started lying to get me to do it. then I made him mad un intentionally (I swear) I told him I knew he would get mad if I told him that I really didn't want to do it. and he said "oh so you made me mad on purpose and I said no way I would never do that. Not on purpose. and he said your lying and I said no im serious he said he would ignore me and act like I never existed if I didn't do it. I said fine then im still not doing it. he said no. I said bye I love you and he said stop and do what I said and I said y and he said because he said so. I said no and I didn't txt back. now today he is ignoring me! How unfair he totally blamed me!!! I would never do anything like that to him. not even try to manipulate him. I was so surprised. he has manipulated me before but I never noticed but my friends did. but now I see because this time it was way to obvious. is he really gonna ignore me or is just a game. does he want me to chase him idk ?!? I hate mind games.