the only thing holding us back is ............

OUR SELFs !!!!!

anyone agree ?

Totally but then again our past is what has the grip on us

Yes they say we don't let go of the past.. We eventually learn from it though... Because if we don't let go of the past we can never be happy in the future... I think that it just takes Cancers a while to learn who they really are ya know to grow up and except life for what it is..... So as first stated the only thing holding us back is ourselves...

i totally agree. as i am getting older i do look back at my past a lot but not to dwell but to keep learning from it. i have grown so much as a person with all of my experiences and try to stay positive and move forward. but no matter how hard i try there is this nagging voice in my head that always reminds me or takes me back to the past. seems like our good memory is a curse too in that we remember everything which doesn't help when we want to let things go..

Ya we let go of the past but we never forget it. it shapes us and makes us better people. We learn from the past unlike some signs who keep making the same mistakes throughout their lives.

EXACTLY!!!

i glad that many of you saw my point
becasause recently
i stoped ... you kno' really thinking about someone that was in my life for a long time ... and soon after that ... umm lets just say that the ladys strated pouring in 😛
but i did realize that i was holding myself back from letting myself be discovered by new people

mugen great attitude and i have also learned that we draw to us what we think or feel. if we are negative then we will draw negative experiences our way but if we are positive and hopeful that is what will be delivered.

I think that we have a balance of negative and positive thoughts... We are always out weighing things we see the good and we see the bad so we hope for the best but, fear the worst and thus we have problems making decisions... Till we finally put ourselves out on the limb and see what happens... Takes a while but, we eventually just do it...