to say i love you?? cancer/cancer

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by canceroushugs on Monday, January 22, 2007 and has 1 replies.

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@canceroushugs
20 Years

Im a cancer girl dating a cancer dude...i am leaving to study abroad for 5 months and we decided to take a break while im gone to be fair. I am 100% in agreement with this but i was wondering if i should tell him that i love him before i go or not— on one hand i think he should know how i feel but on the other it would be unfair to say right before i leave and potentially hinder the free experience i want him to have while im gone..but i am afraid of losing him...any advice?/?

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@mr.crabby
21 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

I think cancers can wait a few months to be together, so you could try it, but i'd rather just wait until she would come back to start anything. I really think it's best to wait, but you have to be able to handle it if he's been with someone while you're away.