Oh my gosh! It's been 4 days and I can't get this guy out of my head! I have absolutely no experience with a Cancer guy. Meeting him was so exciting and refreshing. I was invited to his house by a mutual friend to play poker.
It started off slow but as the night went on he was very attentive to me, would stare at me to the point of where I was uncomfortable and was not shy about letting the rest of the table know he wanted to stare at me. We enjoyed a great game and casual conversation as you usually do in a friendly game of poker but we both knew there was an energy between us. He obviously liked my bust size but I ignored that when I caught him looking.
I was the last to leave (on purpose) and we took the opportunity to sit on his couch, talk about a few things, including his not so pleasant divorce about a year ago. It sounds like he had is heart broker by his ex. We didn't dwell on it but he did openly share that with me. He said that he was able to read me and understood more about me than I would think. I didn't really spill a whole lot other than I found it surprising that I was able to talk with him relatively easily...hard for me as I am very guarded with pretty much everyone in my life. Might be a mix of the Capricorn in me together with a more than interesting upbringing.
I felt emotionally connected to him and attracted physically but unlike most of the time the emotional connection seemed to be the driving force. We enjoyed some very close/soft kissing but that was it. No groping or other things...it was a very sweet encounter although we both knew it could have gone further but it was not inferred or asked for. It was getting late so I took the opportunity to head out as I had an early day the next day.
On the way out he asked me to call him because I had his number and he didn't have mine. He had given me his business card earlier. The next day, around lunch, I sent a text simply asking him how many times he had thought about last night and now he had my number I hope he'd call sometime. He answer quickly and said 100 times. I said back to him that we were then neck to neck. He then said that wasn't his neck. I wasn't going to play that game so left it at that.
I know very little about Cancer men, are they usually this "aggressive" with their flirting and attentiveness if they are in player mode? Or does this sound like what a Crab guy would do when he is interested? Would love to hear from the crabbies o
Thanks for your response Crabby. I have a pic for you but can't figure out how to post it here. The copy paste doesn't seem to be working.
Always plan to take things slow but thanks for the reminder. I can't decide to "friend him" on Facebook or just wait to see him at the next game and let him make the move. I keep reading that if you wait for a Cancer to make the move it may never happen. Is the REALLY true? Would adding him as a friend be good to try and connect more with him or just leave it be for a while?
You should wait, if you think you'll see him again. Just make every encounter count when it happens. If he's happy to see you, then try Facebook.
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It started off slow but as the night went on he was very attentive to me, would stare at me to the point of where I was uncomfortable and was not shy about letting the rest of the table know he wanted to stare at me. We enjoyed a great game and casual conversation as you usually do in a friendly game of poker but we both knew there was an energy between us. He obviously liked my bust size but I ignored that when I caught him looking.
I was the last to leave (on purpose) and we took the opportunity to sit on his couch, talk about a few things, including his not so pleasant divorce about a year ago. It sounds like he had is heart broker by his ex. We didn't dwell on it but he did openly share that with me. He said that he was able to read me and understood more about me than I would think. I didn't really spill a whole lot other than I found it surprising that I was able to talk with him relatively easily...hard for me as I am very guarded with pretty much everyone in my life. Might be a mix of the Capricorn in me together with a more than interesting upbringing.
I felt emotionally connected to him and attracted physically but unlike most of the time the emotional connection seemed to be the driving force. We enjoyed some very close/soft kissing but that was it. No groping or other things...it was a very sweet encounter although we both knew it could have gone further but it was not inferred or asked for. It was getting late so I took the opportunity to head out as I had an early day the next day.
On the way out he asked me to call him because I had his number and he didn't have mine. He had given me his business card earlier. The next day, around lunch, I sent a text simply asking him how many times he had thought about last night and now he had my number I hope he'd call sometime. He answer quickly and said 100 times. I said back to him that we were then neck to neck. He then said that wasn't his neck. I wasn't going to play that game so left it at that.
I know very little about Cancer men, are they usually this "aggressive" with their flirting and attentiveness if they are in player mode? Or does this sound like what a Crab guy would do when he is interested? Would love to hear from the crabbies o