Whats wrong with my gf emotions last night

Last night talking on the phone with my gf a light switch end off and she said shell call me back. I could hear in her voice something was wrong. I asked her was she ok she said yeah. I dosed off hour later got a text, "im going to bed, feel weird upset dont want to be mean or spazz out on you". I sent her a good morning babe text as i do every morning and she replied back with a dry ass "good morning". I replied with asking her to talk to me because idk whats wrong and dont like the feeling.

All this was out the blue, were both very happy together. What could have hit her so strong outta nowhere?

Idk, not really enough information to make a conclusion...hormones. pms. Something work related, friend related, just feeling funky

I had an emotional breakdown last night out of nowhere...

what's her sign? Any weird retrograde happening?

PMS

Because im the nut job cancer, I have gotten like this if I found out something that my partner was keeping from me. It could be Pms, moody, or something with someone else...Hope you didnt lie about something.

It could literally be anything. Only thing I can conclude from your post is that whatever it is, it didn't go away after a night's sleep.

However, if you want me to throw some haymakers, 'ere goes:

If I was in your situation and got that same text from my GF, I would immediately think that I just effed up. I know you're thinking, "WTF?" right now. Gimme a moment. This is why.

The fact that she sent you a text back saying that she was going to bed and does not want to spazz out on you, followed by the dry good morning, probably means you should have called or texted her at some point before the night ended. Even if she wasn't going to let you in on anything, she still likely wanted you to try and pry it out of her and continue to express concern.

I know she said she would call you back. I know she said she was ok. If there was a time for you to not listen to her, it was when she said those things to you. By 'not listening', I mean with your ears. She was not trying to communicate with you using words, but feelings.

Again though. This is a haymaker, and like some of the other posters stated, it could also just be PMS.

Posted by Crabra
It could literally be anything. Only thing I can conclude from your post is that whatever it is, it didn't go away after a night's sleep.



However, if you want me to throw some haymakers, 'ere goes:



If I was in your situation and got that same text from my GF, I would immediately think that I just effed up. I know you're thinking, "WTF?" right now. Gimme a moment. This is why.



The fact that she sent you a text back saying that she was going to bed and does not want to spazz out on you, followed by the dry good morning, probably means you should have called or texted her at some point before the night ended. Even if she wasn't going to let you in on anything, she still likely wanted you to try and pry it out of her and continue to express concern.



I know she said she would call you back. I know she said she was ok. If there was a time for you to not listen to her, it was when she said those things to you. By 'not listening', I mean with your ears. She was not trying to communicate with you using words, but feelings.



Again though. This is a haymaker, and like some of the other posters stated, it could also just be PMS.

Pretty impressive insight here. It's not astrology, just most women or people in general.

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Posted by Crabra
It could literally be anything. Only thing I can conclude from your post is that whatever it is, it didn't go away after a night's sleep.



However, if you want me to throw some haymakers, 'ere goes:



If I was in your situation and got that same text from my GF, I would immediately think that I just effed up. I know you're thinking, "WTF?" right now. Gimme a moment. This is why.



The fact that she sent you a text back saying that she was going to bed and does not want to spazz out on you, followed by the dry good morning, probably means you should have called or texted her at some point before the night ended. Even if she wasn't going to let you in on anything, she still likely wanted you to try and pry it out of her and continue to express concern.



I know she said she would call you back. I know she said she was ok. If there was a time for you to not listen to her, it was when she said those things to you. By 'not listening', I mean with your ears. She was not trying to communicate with you using words, but feelings.



Again though. This is a haymaker, and like some of the other posters stated, it could also just be PMS.

Pretty impressive insight here. It's not astrology, just most women or people in general. click to expand

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Indeed

I love astrology, and perhaps my placements gives me a better understanding of people's behavior. For the most part though, it's just 20/20 hindsight and intuitiveness. When I've dated in the past, I was in the OPs situation countless times and know all too well that if your gut is telling something is off with your partner, then you need to listen to it. Do NOT take what women say at face value when your intuition says otherwise.

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Posted by Ssasy
Because im the nut job cancer, I have gotten like this if I found out something that my partner was keeping from me. It could be Pms, moody, or something with someone else...Hope you didnt lie about something.

This basically sums it up. Lol click to expand

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You got caught lying about something??

Posted by Crabra

Posted by starlord

Posted by Crabra
It could literally be anything. Only thing I can conclude from your post is that whatever it is, it didn't go away after a night's sleep.



However, if you want me to throw some haymakers, 'ere goes:



If I was in your situation and got that same text from my GF, I would immediately think that I just effed up. I know you're thinking, "WTF?" right now. Gimme a moment. This is why.



The fact that she sent you a text back saying that she was going to bed and does not want to spazz out on you, followed by the dry good morning, probably means you should have called or texted her at some point before the night ended. Even if she wasn't going to let you in on anything, she still likely wanted you to try and pry it out of her and continue to express concern.



I know she said she would call you back. I know she said she was ok. If there was a time for you to not listen to her, it was when she said those things to you. By 'not listening', I mean with your ears. She was not trying to communicate with you using words, but feelings.



Again though. This is a haymaker, and like some of the other posters stated, it could also just be PMS.

Pretty impressive insight here. It's not astrology, just most women or people in general. click to expand

Indeed

I love astrology, and perhaps my placements gives me a better understanding of people's behavior. For the most part though, it's just 20/20 hindsight and intuitiveness. When I've dated in the past, I was in the OPs situation countless times and know all too well that if your gut is telling something is off with your partner, then you need to listen to it. Do NOT take what women say at face value when your intuition says otherwise. click to expand

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Correct. Same goes for men. And always trust the gut. That's why most of the topics here are selfexplanetary. The doubt itself is the answer.

Okay so friday at work i got her to tell me. She was in her feelings because i mentioned something about an old fling, nothing serious. Her thing is she doesnt want to picture me having sex with anyone else. Before she didnt care but now that she has such deep feelings she does.

We talked and moved passed it. Thing is shes always bringing up old exs but i didnt go tit fir tat with her.

Im a libra 10/5, shes a Gem/Crab cusp june 22.