Any CAPS here date or in a relationship with another CAP?

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Read many compatibility articles saying Caps knows each other but the r/s gets boring after a while.

Think it depends very much on both venus mars and moon signs as well. But as a Cap sun, I m naturally attracted to Cap suns.....and Cap venus tends to be attracted to me.....

We are both careful, less optimistic and typically mean what we say. Thus being together means a serious relationship, both can feel comfortable being with each other and good sense of security over time, unspoken understanding. I like that Caps know we dont have to stick together everyday to know we care and we trust each other unless its broken.....I like that both our priorities are family and work, if you become part of each others life we become like family and look after one another. To the rest of the world we always come across as strong, but deep down we dont know how to express ourselves and my previous Cap partner is always a shoulder for me to rest on whenever I need......(my other non-Caps exs never could connect as well for me to totally drop my brave front)

Caps tend to have more fun when we get older and a mature relationship can see more laughter than the more serious younger Caps

Perhaps the cons would be that we are less spontaneous about life, sometimes we tend to think too much, we can also be stubborn about what we each wants and have to learn to compromise at times (not often). The Cap men I know will have a point in their life, when transiting from serious to having fun, I can only comment that they will be having too much fun that if you meet them at that point in time the r/s will likely not last.....
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Posted by Foreverloveme
I have nothing productive to add. A mature cap, I was very young...good sex, good guy, the type I could see myself with now.

Did a couple months with another, he wasn't stable yet & lied to me so that ended...the sexual energy was there although we didn't do anything.

I can imagine disagreements being tough as that's when we're most stubborn & 1 has to be willing to compromise.

Alternating schedules could make spending time together difficult, not so much if on the same shift.

Someone who understands you without words 🙂

Stable, goal oriented, similar core values, family, work ethic, etc.

Might stagnant & you'd just have to find a way to mix it up to keep it fun & interesting

Another cap is in my relationship potential rotation


So with the mature Cap, if you dont mind sharing...what made it go downhill or not work out? What was he like?

How was the chemistry in and out the bedroom?

Arguing? Lol, I love a good banter, as long as we make up. 🙂

"Someone who understands you without words" - that sounds appealing.

I think if 2 people really want to be together, they'll find a way to spend quality time together, doesn't have to be quantity.

Your post was awesome, very informative.
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Posted by Jalent99
Read many compatibility articles saying Caps knows each other but the r/s gets boring after a while.

Think it depends very much on both venus mars and moon signs as well. But as a Cap sun, I m naturally attracted to Cap suns.....and Cap venus tends to be attracted to me.....

We are both careful, less optimistic and typically mean what we say. Thus being together means a serious relationship, both can feel comfortable being with each other and good sense of security over time, unspoken understanding. I like that Caps know we dont have to stick together everyday to know we care and we trust each other unless its broken.....I like that both our priorities are family and work, if you become part of each others life we become like family and look after one another. To the rest of the world we always come across as strong, but deep down we dont know how to express ourselves and my previous Cap partner is always a shoulder for me to rest on whenever I need......(my other non-Caps exs never could connect as well for me to totally drop my brave front)

Caps tend to have more fun when we get older and a mature relationship can see more laughter than the more serious younger Caps

Perhaps the cons would be that we are less spontaneous about life, sometimes we tend to think too much, we can also be stubborn about what we each wants and have to learn to compromise at times (not often). The Cap men I know will have a point in their life, when transiting from serious to having fun, I can only comment that they will be having too much fun that if you meet them at that point in time the r/s will likely not last.....
I have libra moon, aqua venus and mars.

I'm at a point in my life where I can have/want fun, but also take the relationship seriously. A mature relationship.

How are you and your Cap doing?

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I haven't dated a cap man but I hate how my male cap friends treat women. They can be very vindictive, cold, and judgemental. It turned me off from them. I imagine we'd be too much alike and very guarded with each other so it wouldn't work.


Ya I have a Cap guy I'm in a social circle with, he's an ass to women, he's young though, and I don't talk to him much.

I have Cap friends that are also complete gentlemen.
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I have nothing productive to add. A mature cap, I was very young...good sex, good guy, the type I could see myself with now.

Did a couple months with another, he wasn't stable yet & lied to me so that ended...the sexual energy was there although we didn't do anything.

I can imagine disagreements being tough as that's when we're most stubborn & 1 has to be willing to compromise.

Alternating schedules could make spending time together difficult, not so much if on the same shift.

Someone who understands you without words 🙂

Stable, goal oriented, similar core values, family, work ethic, etc.

Might stagnant & you'd just have to find a way to mix it up to keep it fun & interesting

Another cap is in my relationship potential rotation


So with the mature Cap, if you dont mind sharing...what made it go downhill or not work out? What was he like?

How was the chemistry in and out the bedroom?

Arguing? Lol, I love a good banter, as long as we make up. 🙂

"Someone who understands you without words" - that sounds appealing.

I think if 2 people really want to be together, they'll find a way to spend quality time together, doesn't have to be quantity.

Your post was awesome, very informative.



Thank you. I was 15, he was probably in his 30s. So there was a huge disconnect, we were just sleeping together. Had I been more mature who knows, I still believe the age difference at that time would've been a deal breaker as it would've been hard to relate to each other

In the bedroom, very sensual, long lasting, slow pace...more exploring each other than focused on basic in & out.

He was very calm, loved his voice, nice car, financially stable, honest
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Dang girl, you liked them much older then, didn't you?

I've never been intimate with a Cap before, thank you for the description. 🙂
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I couldn't do another Cap at all.

Also, Cap males tend to be a bit shy around me, no matter how aggressive they are with other women. It's weird.
Why Inana? Never again?

Also, maybe you intimidate the ones around you, or they have a crush on you.

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Ive never dated a Cap, I'm just always irritated by male Caps.

Their arrogance annoys me. Also, my father is a Capricorn, and I've never met a more stubborn person in my life lol.

I silently clash with all male Caps. Even with my father and I, it can become a silent battle of who can be the most nonchalant lol.

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Read many compatibility articles saying Caps knows each other but the r/s gets boring after a while.

Think it depends very much on both venus mars and moon signs as well. But as a Cap sun, I m naturally attracted to Cap suns.....and Cap venus tends to be attracted to me.....

We are both careful, less optimistic and typically mean what we say. Thus being together means a serious relationship, both can feel comfortable being with each other and good sense of security over time, unspoken understanding. I like that Caps know we dont have to stick together everyday to know we care and we trust each other unless its broken.....I like that both our priorities are family and work, if you become part of each others life we become like family and look after one another. To the rest of the world we always come across as strong, but deep down we dont know how to express ourselves and my previous Cap partner is always a shoulder for me to rest on whenever I need......(my other non-Caps exs never could connect as well for me to totally drop my brave front)

Caps tend to have more fun when we get older and a mature relationship can see more laughter than the more serious younger Caps

Perhaps the cons would be that we are less spontaneous about life, sometimes we tend to think too much, we can also be stubborn about what we each wants and have to learn to compromise at times (not often). The Cap men I know will have a point in their life, when transiting from serious to having fun, I can only comment that they will be having too much fun that if you meet them at that point in time the r/s will likely not last.....
I have libra moon, aqua venus and mars.

I'm at a point in my life where I can have/want fun, but also take the relationship seriously. A mature relationship.

How are you and your Cap doing?

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wow you're really airy.

I had a gf in high school with venus/mars aqua but water moon.

cap sun.

I understand the venus/mars aqua on a cap sun female.

she always choose bad boys.

then later she chose a good man.
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Read many compatibility articles saying Caps knows each other but the r/s gets boring after a while.

Think it depends very much on both venus mars and moon signs as well. But as a Cap sun, I m naturally attracted to Cap suns.....and Cap venus tends to be attracted to me.....

We are both careful, less optimistic and typically mean what we say. Thus being together means a serious relationship, both can feel comfortable being with each other and good sense of security over time, unspoken understanding. I like that Caps know we dont have to stick together everyday to know we care and we trust each other unless its broken.....I like that both our priorities are family and work, if you become part of each others life we become like family and look after one another. To the rest of the world we always come across as strong, but deep down we dont know how to express ourselves and my previous Cap partner is always a shoulder for me to rest on whenever I need......(my other non-Caps exs never could connect as well for me to totally drop my brave front)

Caps tend to have more fun when we get older and a mature relationship can see more laughter than the more serious younger Caps

Perhaps the cons would be that we are less spontaneous about life, sometimes we tend to think too much, we can also be stubborn about what we each wants and have to learn to compromise at times (not often). The Cap men I know will have a point in their life, when transiting from serious to having fun, I can only comment that they will be having too much fun that if you meet them at that point in time the r/s will likely not last.....
I have libra moon, aqua venus and mars.

I'm at a point in my life where I can have/want fun, but also take the relationship seriously. A mature relationship.

How are you and your Cap doing?


wow you're really airy.

I had a gf in high school with venus/mars aqua but water moon.

cap sun.

I understand the venus/mars aqua on a cap sun female.

she always choose bad boys.

then later she chose a good man.
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I have just as many sag placements too. Have quite a bit of fire and air. 🙂

Venus and Sun in 8th, moon in 12th.

What are we like from your perspective?

Girl, don't even get me started on the bad boys, lol.

My virgo bestie always said I pick the wrong guys, that I'm too good for them.

What sun sign did your girlfriend end up marrying?





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I have nothing productive to add. A mature cap, I was very young...good sex, good guy, the type I could see myself with now.

Did a couple months with another, he wasn't stable yet & lied to me so that ended...the sexual energy was there although we didn't do anything.

I can imagine disagreements being tough as that's when we're most stubborn & 1 has to be willing to compromise.

Alternating schedules could make spending time together difficult, not so much if on the same shift.

Someone who understands you without words 🙂

Stable, goal oriented, similar core values, family, work ethic, etc.

Might stagnant & you'd just have to find a way to mix it up to keep it fun & interesting

Another cap is in my relationship potential rotation


So with the mature Cap, if you dont mind sharing...what made it go downhill or not work out? What was he like?

How was the chemistry in and out the bedroom?

Arguing? Lol, I love a good banter, as long as we make up. 🙂

"Someone who understands you without words" - that sounds appealing.

I think if 2 people really want to be together, they'll find a way to spend quality time together, doesn't have to be quantity.

Your post was awesome, very informative.



Thank you. I was 15, he was probably in his 30s. So there was a huge disconnect, we were just sleeping together. Had I been more mature who knows, I still believe the age difference at that time would've been a deal breaker as it would've been hard to relate to each other

In the bedroom, very sensual, long lasting, slow pace...more exploring each other than focused on basic in & out.

He was very calm, loved his voice, nice car, financially stable, honest


Dang girl, you liked them much older then, didn't you?

I've never been intimate with a Cap before, thank you for the description. 🙂



I love older guys! The most recent scorp has 13 years on me. I have a hard time clicking with guys my own age

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I'm 50/50 with guys my age. Some are old souls, and i seem to click better with them.

How are you and your scorpio doing?

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I couldn't do another Cap at all.

Also, Cap males tend to be a bit shy around me, no matter how aggressive they are with other women. It's weird.
Why Inana? Never again?

Also, maybe you intimidate the ones around you, or they have a crush on you.


Ive never dated a Cap, I'm just always irritated by male Caps.

Their arrogance annoys me. Also, my father is a Capricorn, and I've never met a more stubborn person in my life lol.

I silently clash with all male Caps. Even with my father and I, it can become a silent battle of who can be the most nonchalant lol.

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Lol, I would just love to be a fly on the wall at your house.

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I have libra moon, aqua venus and mars.

I'm at a point in my life where I can have/want fun, but also take the relationship seriously. A mature relationship.

How are you and your Cap doing?

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Similarly I have an Aqua venus and mercury, Libra mars and 0deg Gemini moon. True, I started letting go and wanting to have fun when approx 30. I moved to another country and started to have an active social life. Relationship wise I was still serious about it but in a different way.....I was able to "let go" of a responsible base r/s (being together for the sake of being together after 4yrs, we were together as logically we fit in as a good couple) but now I go for a r/s that touches my heart deeply, am willing to invest more feelings......I still want it to be serious but my priorities changed

Your Libra moon might square your Cap sun, it might clash with what u want vs what u need, u might want to chk that out. I trust this cause when I was young I can be emotional/irritable/impulsive etc, but this doesnt make sense as I dont have any fire signs in my main planets......till ltr I realise my sun squares my mars.

Work in progress with the present Cap sun and venus guy, been dating for 2+mths. I think his Aquarius moon Is similar with my Gemini moon, we are very passionate when together and able to give each other space when apart. Good for Caps as we like to focus on work and our ability to detach our emotions at work does well for us. I believe our passion comes from his Leo mars opp my Aqua venus, most passionate experience I have ever had. I looked back at all the other r/s and I never had this combination before.....
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I couldn't do another Cap at all.

Also, Cap males tend to be a bit shy around me, no matter how aggressive they are with other women. It's weird.
Why Inana? Never again?

Also, maybe you intimidate the ones around you, or they have a crush on you.


Ive never dated a Cap, I'm just always irritated by male Caps.

Their arrogance annoys me. Also, my father is a Capricorn, and I've never met a more stubborn person in my life lol.

I silently clash with all male Caps. Even with my father and I, it can become a silent battle of who can be the most nonchalant lol.


Lol, I would just love to be a fly on the wall at your house.

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Girl, I see my dad once every year or so. Soon as I see him he'll refuse to smile and embrace me like he can care less that I'm there.

I be like, oh two can play that game.

I remember once I was leaving, and he refused to carry my luggage to the car. Had my 70yr old Cap grandmother struggling trying to carry it to the car. Just stubborn and childish smh. He is silly...a wanna be comedian, but we kind of ignore each-other in a way. Now that he's older he seems to want more of a relationship, but Idk.

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I couldn't do another Cap at all.

Also, Cap males tend to be a bit shy around me, no matter how aggressive they are with other women. It's weird.
Why Inana? Never again?

Also, maybe you intimidate the ones around you, or they have a crush on you.


Ive never dated a Cap, I'm just always irritated by male Caps.

Their arrogance annoys me. Also, my father is a Capricorn, and I've never met a more stubborn person in my life lol.

I silently clash with all male Caps. Even with my father and I, it can become a silent battle of who can be the most nonchalant lol.


Lol, I would just love to be a fly on the wall at your house.


Girl, I see my dad once every year or so. Soon as I see him he'll refuse to smile and embrace me like he can care less that I'm there.

I be like, oh two can play that game.

I remember once I was leaving, and he refused to carry my luggage to the car. Had my 70yr old Cap grandmother struggling trying to carry it to the car. Just stubborn and childish smh. He is silly...a wanna be comedian, but we kind of ignore each-other in a way. Now that he's older he seems to want more of a relationship, but Idk.

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I wamt to give you a hug!!

I know we can be so asshat stubborn but that is a special case of stubborn. Lawd!! Grandma must've been annoyed inside!! Lol.

He's realizing he's wasted too much time and pride and needs to repair your relationship. I know it's hard to drop your guard, but I want to encourage you to give it a chance, and so you also don't have to live with any regrets when he passes some day.

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"Good for Caps as we like to focus on work and our ability to detach our emotions at work does well for us. I believe our passion comes from his Leo mars opp my Aqua venus, most passionate experience I have ever had. I looked back at all the other r/s and I never had this combination before..."

-- Oppositions? Leo mars opp aqua venus. Hmmm, I've experienced that. If the passion is healthy I think it would be amazing. Mine was not. More like obsessive ime, and it brought out the negatives more so than positive.

I'll look into the sun/moon combo. I do know what I DON'T want and need, that's for sure. Lol.

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This whole thread came about bcuz I met a Cap/Cap couple yesterday (friends of friends) and they've been together since college, married right after and have been married 10 years in ...October I think.

They looked cute telling their story and they travel a lot but I didn't want to dig (it was hard not to due to my planets in 8th) for more info. No kids yet for them though, not sure what that was about.
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This whole thread came about bcuz I met a Cap/Cap couple yesterday (friends of friends) and they've been together since college, married right after and have been married 10 years in ...October I think.

They looked cute telling their story and they travel a lot but I didn't want to dig (it was hard not to due to my planets in 8th) for more info. No kids yet for them though, not sure what that was about.
Wow, 10 years? Maybe they don't want kids. I wonder what their charts look like. I'm all nosy though and would ask them 😛 dat embarrassing friend **hides**

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I'm sure I will see them again, I will ask their birthdays and find out. They were really cute.

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"Good for Caps as we like to focus on work and our ability to detach our emotions at work does well for us. I believe our passion comes from his Leo mars opp my Aqua venus, most passionate experience I have ever had. I looked back at all the other r/s and I never had this combination before..."

-- Oppositions? Leo mars opp aqua venus. Hmmm, I've experienced that. If the passion is healthy I think it would be amazing. Mine was not. More like obsessive ime, and it brought out the negatives more so than positive.

I'll look into the sun/moon combo. I do know what I DON'T want and need, that's for sure. Lol.

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Leo mars are agressive in actions, but his emotions and thoughts would be from Aquarius moon, that conj my Aquarius venus.....maybe its somehow better because of this. Then again he dont come across as the obsessive/ possesive kind, probly cause he has caps and aqua.....he can be detach
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@Greentea How are you, long time no talk to....

I think it is the same with Taurus and Taurus too all good til we need to have a sit down talk about things that pertain to life.. which all need to compromise or it will be stuck in the mud stubborness.


I really like how you ask people "how are you" 🙂

It's endearing. You're a sweet person, I can tell.

Oh yes, compromise would have to be a must, earth and earth stubbornness is no joke. Lol.
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that Irina Shayk who was dating Cristiano Ronaldo

is now dating that Capricorn sun guy, Bradley Cooper.


Oh ya, she was being salty. Lol

She wouldn't be that way if he was ignoring the ex.

Something must've happened during that time before the match, maybe he was too friendly with the ex when crossing paths or something like eyes locked for a little too long for her liking or comfort maybe, then the ex sat close to where they were sitting.

She won't do or say anything to the ex though, she's too ladylike and classy for that. Lol.

It's up to him to make her feel secure and respected around exes if he's the real deal, and the same goes for her.

My Pisces girlfriend who is married to a Cap friend of mine said they were at a function, and his ex girlfriend was trying to inch her way to talk to him/them, and when she did, her husband kept his arm around her waist and after some cordial introductions, he started telling the ex stories about their vacation and how good she was on the jetski, and how the while conversation ended up being about her, then the ex excused herself after a few minutes.

She said he was classy about it, and he made his point. My girlfriend was playing the part too and being friendly and all smiles and laughing at his story, but she knew what was up. It was funny how she described what happened.

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that Irina Shayk who was dating Cristiano Ronaldo

is now dating that Capricorn sun guy, Bradley Cooper.


Oh ya, she was being salty. Lol

She wouldn't be that way if he was ignoring the ex.

Something must've happened during that time before the match, maybe he was too friendly with the ex when crossing paths or something like eyes locked for a little too long for her liking or comfort maybe, then the ex sat close to where they were sitting.

She won't do or say anything to the ex though, she's too ladylike and classy for that. Lol.

It's up to him to make her feel secure and respected around exes if he's the real deal, and the same goes for her.

My Pisces girlfriend who is married to a Cap friend of mine said they were at a function, and his ex girlfriend was trying to inch her way to talk to him/them, and when she did, her husband kept his arm around her waist and after some cordial introductions, he started telling the ex stories about their vacation and how good she was on the jetski, and how the while conversation ended up being about her, then the ex excused herself after a few minutes.

She said he was classy about it, and he made his point. My girlfriend was playing the part too and being friendly and all smiles and laughing at his story, but she knew what was up. It was funny how she described what happened.

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I would be very very upset too. I don't like ex's trying to "inch" their way in. like why?? get lost. lol I know I wouldn't say anything there, and just be "nice". unless something goes down. lol

but I like that your gf's husband did that, wrapped his arm around her, and talking about their TIME together (the husband and wife) that's really classy. I like that. and lmao @ the ex excusing herself -- she must have gotten super bored as hell.
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Effortless synergy. Partially understanding "cap problems" without any or little explanation. The way we are around each other. Loyalty.
Sounds wonderful. 🙂

How are you two when you're around eachother?

Curious. I've only been friends with cap males, so I don't know the dynamic on a romantic level.



i fail at sleeping

it is definitely wonderful. but we're like everyone else - we disagree, we take care of each other, watch out for each other, plan together, fight, defend each other, we joke around like friends, and so on. ya know... the usual c:

although i have to say, we've definitely perfected the shit out of lazying about together. we're really, really good at that. hey, i'm not complaining here either. i wouldn't have it any other way. fo sho.

we also have a tendancy to breakout into some random silly dancing at least once a day. my favorite activity., especically in public. it's nice to be in this brief little bubble together when we're around other people. like we're always connected on some other level. it's always kind of been like that since day we first became friends though really..
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Sounds like my friendship with my closest male cap friend, JUST friends. We can definitely get lazy...he's a bit worse about it though. He's always trying to get me to cook something for him. I don't always do it, only when he's high. And when we used to go to the club we'd walk in doing a little dance to the music, and in stores, etc. Must be the cap quirkiness. Lol. We're like brother and sister.

We used to go with our other Cap friend and his now pisces wife, and he would do it too when we walked into places or in public (gotta be some thing with cap quirkiness). Then she started doing it with us. She's pregnant now btw, and they're having a little Cap baby. Lol. I think she timed it just right.

Good to know this pairing can work, thank you. I've never dated another cap, and was curious.



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@caliber. .so it's Damous!! 😄

Not gonna lie, I wanted to ask you when you came back last month who it was with.

Pertaining to my chart, well the thing is, I have a lot of fire and air in my chart, (sag and aqua)...however my moon is in the 12th pisces, and 4 planets in the 8th scorpio, that's including my sun and venus.. in water houses.

So I'm kinda all over the place.

If I do end up with a cap, I feel like he'll definitely need to be the stronger one. Lol.

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He met me the first day he was back......and nothing after.....maybe i feel like mayb i dont really matter.......

How long has he been back? How were things when you saw him?
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Been a week since he is back, saw him the day he was back and yesterday after he drunktext to meet up. Which we did. First day we met when he was back, for me its electrifying as usual, good chemistry and we went on to have dinner drinks and talked for 3-4hrs. But inbetween that hardly any contact. Which is someth i m not used to.......i normally hear frm ppl i m dating a lot, like a few times in a day.....
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Posted by caIiber
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weeeellllllll i was also going to add before i passed out - you're correct about the fighting between this pairing. it completely sucks, mostly because we are far too stubborn to quit or be wrong, so some fights can last for days. throw in the occasional, nasty bad habit or miscommunication on either or both sides, and you've got more than normal to overcome when shit hits the fan.

how you come out of it on the other side is the most important; i've found that all cap relationships i've had, romantic or otherwise, have always had a strong enough bond and foundation to get through the tough stuff. and even if you have to part, there is always a fondness/appreciation for the other cap. kind of like "thank you for sharing you're life with me even though we've grown apart - i appreciate everything you've taught me".

we were also in an LDR and had to deal with that for a year. oh the fun. i say that sarcastically but also with geniune senitment c;
I would give in to him if i genuinely love him......but it takes time to get there
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Just thinking out loud, when Cap men drunk text, they dont mean it right....its like anyone else out there
i think they may mean it - both caps i was approached by had taken their time with communication in gengeral. i never actively looked for them (at first) and they were always there.

alcohol definitely allowed them to freely express their feelings.....in the most coy, comical way possible. any time he picks up that phone and he's tipsy, you should answer 😄
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Mmm interesting! I hope they rem the gist of the conversation the day after though. Well i will be elated if he means it...
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He met me the first day he was back......and nothing after.....maybe i feel like mayb i dont really matter.......

How long has he been back? How were things when you saw him?
Been a week since he is back, saw him the day he was back and yesterday after he drunktext to meet up. Which we did. First day we met when he was back, for me its electrifying as usual, good chemistry and we went on to have dinner drinks and talked for 3-4hrs. But inbetween that hardly any contact. Which is someth i m not used to.......i normally hear frm ppl i m dating a lot, like a few times in a day.....
I'm like that sometimes where I'll contact once or twice a week. Ideally yes I can talk to someone I'm interested in everyday.

I would say try to ask him about talking everyday if it's a concern for you.

He might be still deciding. Imo it's not unusual, I think there are many people who would disagree with me.
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Probably my major nagging feeling come from me being lower on his priority list at this moment....
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Just thinking out loud, when Cap men drunk text, they dont mean it right....its like anyone else out there

Would you mean it if you were drunk? People call alcohol liquid courage
Cause he texted he miss me....but he have had quite a bit when i met with him 30mins ltr

Imo he meant it.

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I m happy to wait for him with what u said 🙂

Never wanted to rush in, in the first plc, just wanted to know that i m not being played
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Posted by caIiber
@jalent99 i think, that during the courting stage it's best to be less involved and treat it more casually maybe. with both caps i've dealt with, they were more apt to communicate when they had to chase me. give him a little something to crave c:

and if he reacts negatively to having to put more effort into you, than he is not worth the hassle. at that point i would say he had something else in mind when he was drunk texting. i'm not trying to be negative, just hope that you think about all possibilites. sometimes you have to let things just play out, and not analyze them so deeply ♥
He has been consistent, but mayb less proactive than i hv expected