justlikeheaven
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Apologizing to a cap
If you don't wanna ever see him again why do u care whether or not he forgives you?š
NO APOLOGIES as a wise Eminem once said
The problem here is more between me and myself, I can't have peace knowing that I hurt or offend someone (even if they deserve it).
I can't be the only one, right?
I can't be the only one, right?
Save your breath cap men could care less about an apology. Apologize to yourself
Posted by miriyahhhAh how many times have i tried apologizing to my cap? Lol he never takes it in fact it makes him more mad that you would bring it back up. Idk just learn from your mistakes if you want them around. Since you donāt just let him know youāre sorry and no hard feelings but you would rather stay friends.
Save your breath cap men could care less about an apology. Apologize to yourself
I donāt see the conversation going in your favor though, because if you do end up walking away from him heās going to look at you like āthen whatās the point in you apologizing?ā Then heās going to discredit your whole apology! Lol and that my friends is the merry go around with a caps
No apology then š
Apology is not for the other person but for you.
Posted by MoonshineLeoPosted by miriyahhhAh how many times have i tried apologizing to my cap? Lol he never takes it in fact it makes him more mad that you would bring it back up. Idk just learn from your mistakes if you want them around. Since you donāt just let him know youāre sorry and no hard feelings but you would rather stay friends.
Save your breath cap men could care less about an apology. Apologize to yourself
I donāt see the conversation going in your favor though, because if you do end up walking away from him heās going to look at you like āthen whatās the point in you apologizing?ā Then heās going to discredit your whole apology! Lol and that my friends is the merry go around with a capsclick to expand
The only apology worth anything to cap male or female is in gift form. Even then that may only get u very far.
Caps love languages are Gifts
Posted by Capricorn91That's what I want, I don't really care what he will think if I apologize, it's more about cleaning my conscience.
Apology is not for the other person but for you.
Posted by justlikeheavenThen just do it. He might like it.Posted by Capricorn91That's what I want, I don't really care what he will think if I apologize, it's more about cleaning my conscience.
Apology is not for the other person but for you.
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Posted by miriyahhhPosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by miriyahhhAh how many times have i tried apologizing to my cap? Lol he never takes it in fact it makes him more mad that you would bring it back up. Idk just learn from your mistakes if you want them around. Since you donāt just let him know youāre sorry and no hard feelings but you would rather stay friends.
Save your breath cap men could care less about an apology. Apologize to yourself
I donāt see the conversation going in your favor though, because if you do end up walking away from him heās going to look at you like āthen whatās the point in you apologizing?ā Then heās going to discredit your whole apology! Lol and that my friends is the merry go around with a caps
The only apology worth anything to cap male or female is in gift form. Even then that may only get u very far.
Caps love languages are Gifts
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Lol thatās what they want you to think but itās always going to be held over you. Your mistakes are permanent with a cap
Posted by justlikeheavenSend it. You never know if and how your paths will cross again!
The problem here is more between me and myself, I can't have peace knowing that I hurt or offend someone (even if they deserve it).
I can't be the only one, right?
Posted by UnicornSagYeah, that's what I'll do. I know who I am so I shouldn't try to prove my integrity to him.
learn to forgive yourself without asking for forgiveness from other people. No one knows better what's in your head than you do so if you don't want to have anything to do with him again and it doesn't matter if he forgives or not then just do it for yourself, completely regardless on him
In the end what I said in that text was nothing but the truth, so why should I say sorry for being hurt (by him)..?
I guess it's time to learn to walk away without looking back, knowing that I tried my best.
Thanks everyone for your opinions! It did helped me taking a final decision. š
when i'm in a situation like that i say exactly how i feel:
I'm sorry that I said those mean things but it's the truth. I don't want to make you feel bad but at the same time I needed you to know what was on my mind. I hope you make the best of it and don't take it to heart.
I'm sorry that I said those mean things but it's the truth. I don't want to make you feel bad but at the same time I needed you to know what was on my mind. I hope you make the best of it and don't take it to heart.
Posted by stillstillwaterYes, this is what I do too, like in 99% of the situations, but this is the exception.
when i'm in a situation like that i say exactly how i feel:
I'm sorry that I said those mean things but it's the truth. I don't want to make you feel bad but at the same time I needed you to know what was on my mind. I hope you make the best of it and don't take it to heart.
Even though I've aggressively exposed all my frustrations in a bad time (midnight text) and out of nowhere, that's who I was at that moment.
Throwing a tantrum seems immature (even more for a cap), I'm so rational and calculated all the time that when I finally do talk about my feelings I end up being ashamed and feeling sorry.
Well, I shouldn't.
An apology would be like "sorry for saying the truth in a bad manner, I was a bitch, also I am guilty for everything that ever happened between us and I take responsibility for all that went wrong, you are not a shitty person, not at all, you're just a victim of the circumstances; only God knows how you end up in this mess. Now go and take good care of your poor fragile ego and give a boost to that low self-esteem."
Actually this is funny š that's how I should apologize š , but of course, I won't š.
Posted by justlikeheavenDont apologize.... if your paths ever cross again, you can do it in personPosted by stillstillwaterYes, this is what I do too, like in 99% of the situations, but this is the exception.
when i'm in a situation like that i say exactly how i feel:
I'm sorry that I said those mean things but it's the truth. I don't want to make you feel bad but at the same time I needed you to know what was on my mind. I hope you make the best of it and don't take it to heart.
Even though I've aggressively exposed all my frustrations in a bad time (midnight text) and out of nowhere, that's who I was at that moment.
Throwing a tantrum seems immature (even more for a cap), I'm so rational and calculated all the time that when I finally do talk about my feelings I end up being ashamed and feeling sorry.
Well, I shouldn't.
An apology would be like "sorry for saying the truth in a bad manner, I was a bitch, also I am guilty for everything that ever happened between us and I take responsibility for all that went wrong, you are not a shitty person, not at all, you're just a victim of the circumstances; only God knows how you end up in this mess. Now go and take good care of your poor fragile ego and give a boost to that low self-esteem."
Actually this is funny š that's how I should apologize š , but of course, I won't š.
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if you now apologize, in any manner, he would rightfully think you want to maintain contact
if you felt that way, he probably deserved it, so its a good thing you finally told him off and get it from your chest
it may actually help him
if you apologize, he will never learn from his mistakes
instead of an apology, take it as a lesson for the future: do not send emotional midnight texts š
I heard someone saying this to a cap once and hope it helps you guys since you're all about "honesty" even if its ugly...
"honesty without tact is cruelty"
I used to work with a cap girl, she would try to get me in trouble all the time, this was in high school, and my boss at the time saw her doing this to alot of our co-workers and had to have a talk with her and thats what i heard her say to her. She also sees nothing wrong with her honesty but you guys, theres a better way to handle it grow up.
"honesty without tact is cruelty"
I used to work with a cap girl, she would try to get me in trouble all the time, this was in high school, and my boss at the time saw her doing this to alot of our co-workers and had to have a talk with her and thats what i heard her say to her. She also sees nothing wrong with her honesty but you guys, theres a better way to handle it grow up.
It's useless apologizing to a Cap lol. Just move on.
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I feel bad because that was an impulsive text filled with my frustrations and anger, and I am not like that.