@ConsiderableMyth
8 YearsLibra
Cracked the Cap Code
Posted by UnicornSag
find a weak spot and approach it gently, that's the only way you can get any answer you want. That includes lots of reading between lines and understanding unspoken things too
How do I know what his weak spot is?
Posted by UnicornSag
find a weak spot and approach it gently, that's the only way you can get any answer you want. That includes lots of reading between lines and understanding unspoken things tooHow do I know what his weak spot is?
Observe and analyze him...see what he responds to the most, i'm not sure how to describe it really, i discovered this by a chance and figured it works every time...just whatever you do don't make it look like interrogation anyway. Do small talks, smart talks, funny talks, spark interest.
I'm not sure how long you're talking to that guy so this clearly takes some time getting to know a person, if you pay attention to him you can read a lot from his behavior, responses or lack of responses
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Ok I get what you’re saying now! Yessss, I know what his interests are. I feel like everything kinda clicked today. I’m excited to see how I can spin this. 🤓
Be Motherly
Posted by ufo
caps are so lame they're not even worth the hassle, make life easy on yourself don't go for a cap
I’m really enjoying the mental challenge though. It keeps me occupied without entirely imploding.
Posted by miriyahhh
Be Motherly
Hmm, elaborate, please. 🙏🏼
Posted by miriyahhh
Be MotherlyHmm, elaborate, please. 🙏🏼
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Firm and strict yet loving. Unmovable but vocal. Controlling in a parental way.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.
That's great that you two can communicate and are willing to compromise. Some people confuse compromise with not getting their way/needs met. It's about doing what's best for both involved. It builds trust and promotes a sense of fairness that leads to reciprocation.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.
That's great that you two can communicate and are willing to compromise. Some people confuse compromise with not getting their way/needs met. It's about doing what's best for both involved. It builds trust and promotes a sense of fairness that leads to reciprocation.
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I’m learning a lot; both about myself and patience. Regardless of where it goes with him, I’m expanding my ability to understand the dynamics of different relationships.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Ignore em
I feel like this wouldn’t work with him. His level of detachment is incredibly high.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Ignore em
Is that really you in your pic?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Ignore emI feel like this wouldn’t work with him. His level of detachment is incredibly high.
you're wrong, it works like a charm
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i suppose i'll find out because i'm done playing his games. lol
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3
Ignore emI feel like this wouldn’t work with him. His level of detachment is incredibly high.
you're wrong, it works like a charm
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Only works somewhat if there's actually a bond or the potential to build on something. Otherwise, we'll forget you exist.
Posted by ConsiderableMyth
Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.
As a Cap venus the easiest way to get ne to open up is for you to open up first. It has to be genuine or I would see right through it. Don't do it early on but after I have gotten comfortable around you.
Posted by ufo
caps are so lame they're not even worth the hassle, make life easy on yourself don't go for a cap+1
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Virgos need to bring something to the table other than redundant traits that we already possess as fellow earth signs. You want caps to stop taking Virgos for granted..stop being boring and average and settling for less than you deserve. Nervous eeyore, martyr complex gets old after awhile and makes it hard to earn our respect. Although you are clearly awesome Sierra 🐴
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Post some useful, TRIED AND TRUE, cap things that make them feel comfortable to open up. Sort of. In cap fashion.
I used to ask my cap several questions back to back. After trying that twice, he made it clear he didn’t like it so I stopped.
I just asked him one question, knowing the question was related to something he’s interested in, and he answered, engaged, and then I backed off. His training me has paid off.