Are we really that shy?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by cappiegirl on Wednesday, May 31, 2017 and has 7 replies.

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@cappiegirl
9 Years

I believe that in general we are quite shy and reserved and because of fear of rejection we hide our feelings till we are sure that they are reciprocated. However I note that if I really like someone which for me is rare I quite easily lose control of my emotion even if hidden within, live with storm in my head/heart without people even suspecting.

Also I tend to never lose that feelings no matter how much time it passes. Is it same for you guys too?

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@poison_ivy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

You caps come off that way.. 🙂

Before my mom met my cap, I showed her a snapchat video of him and she goes, "Is he shy?" without even meeting him.. lol

My dad is shy.. He doesn't like to speak in front of large crowds.. his words get all stuttery and you can see him "sweat"

My sis is shy as well.. BUT she is working to become an actress in Hollywood, CA

You would not know this to be true because they play it off so well.. I notice when my cap is in an uncomfortable situation tho.. Only time he's not shy is when he's had a few drinks.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

My husband was married 3 times before me because he wasn't shy to meet women but he was shy to refuse proposals from women. ?

Every time it had ended successfully! Divorce!!! ?

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@cappiegirl
9 Years

I think that I rarely find people interesting or worth my time, I just enjoy my solitude. However that backfires sometimes when I like someone and then I am awkward and shy when trying to speak to them.

There is a cap guy who seems shy and there has been mixed messages from him (touching me and wanting to be around me but not asking me out or never initiates texting but replying instantly to my messages).

I'd love to tell him openly that I like him but I just can't bare the possibility of rejection or scaring him off.

Sorry last part is just venting