Aries Lover

I know that in most cases, a Capricorn like myself won't be very compatible with most aries of any kind. But... Well, I've had a tough life and she's had a sort of lonely one, we meet at the same level. She accepts the fact that I'm not open, that I dislike most affection, and that if she wants to meet my family, she'll be waiting a LONG time because I won't socialize with them.

Fact is, I'm not normally accepted, and neither is she, but she's strangely accepting and almost encourages my negativity with her simple teases.
The first few weeks when we were together I found that she aggravated me to the point of yelling. But even though when I storm away, and think about whether or not to let her go, I head back to her. Just a little bit away from her and I'll find my composure and go to say what I want to say, but seeing her sitting there, smirking and asking if I'm done have a 'hissy fit', I can't do it. My heart melts, its like she does it on purpose to help me control my mood swings better.

I must admit that I'm not as easily corrupted or angry anymore. I smile and shine in her presence. The day we shared our first kiss together, I went to work happy. (Though hiding it with my normally emotionless face) My boss comes into my office, sees me smiling and working away, and he tells me to follow him.

Curious about my behavior (I'm normally silent and cold) he asks what it is. I simply said that I love my job. Long story short: I ended up getting a raise and a new, more official looking office.

So as you can see, she's helped me a lot in life, and even tries introducing me to some of her friends, even her mom. (She's a very straight forward Pisces woman and reminds me a lot of my Aries)
She's even helped me find my libido, though I have yet to grow accustomed to it, she's strangely patient and instead sticks to teasing and aggravating me.

I'm wondering...Should I keep this up? I've been hurt a lot through life but... She accepts me, teaches me things, cheers me up, and well...She got me a promotion! What do you think...?

my aries is sunshine!

just let yourself appreciate all the energy!

that's why she is in your life!

It because I'm nervous about this kind of feeling, I'm not used to it. I've never really been in a relationship like this before, and I'm just really anxious and stuff, wondering whether I should settle into it or not. Most of the things I loved hurt me and I'm just...Unnerved about the whole idea of being in love. 😢

Anyways... I'd better get going home now, (can't work anyways) gonna phone her...Tell her I'm on my way back. so brb kk? Unless she's on the home computer...(which she probably is)

Back, with a friends lap top. (She's on the home comp after all) And surprisingly she made me...tea? Maybe I should do something too...But...I'm nervous again.

nvm, I'm gonna talk to her instead.

Thankyou, and apparently my Aries likes your advice too. For I know she is standing behind me because she's trying not to laugh and she isn't a very good sneaker. And she should know I'm sorry for doubting her. Anyways, good night to you all... (Now she's laughing and I'm irritated)

Probably because their fun to be around even though they can be annoying...

soushin an aries woman can give you all the love you need! Dont be afraid of it...embrace it..

I'm trying, but over 20 years of shyness and love uncertainty isn't gonna vanish just like that...lol...But I AM trying, and I think I'm getting somewhere...heh🙂

Im a aries in love with a cap man...I know he loves me too but what can I do to make him feel safe with me because right now hes very distant.

caps are funny that way. well maybe it's not funny funny.

yea I know.... I try to give him his space...but if I wait too long to call hes get very upset with me. I guess he doesnt want too much space...weird! Yet I still want to pursue this relationship because I know it can work if we can get pass these barriers..

nice post, I liked how you expressed your moods and concerns, most guys should be able to do that but they don't, your girl sounds awesome.

good luck and enjoy it!

Thanks, she IS really sweet...Like a strawberry. (My fav) lol...

i don't know any capricorn guys, but loads of girls that i get along with great (i'm an aries). the cliche is that they're kind of stuck up and serious, but the ones i know certainly aren't. quite the opposite, they look serious at first and after you got to know them, they're the funniest open ppl i've ever met.

I wholeheartedly agree with the passion thing...But my Aries is unique and lets me be moody, because instead of annoyed or depressed she laughs at my so-called 'hissy fits' and asks me to get her when I'm done...-.-
Its rather aggravating but I can't get annoyed with her.

My hubby is an Aries and the most important thing is that i appreciate his child like ways. I'm usually very serious but he's helped me find my playful side. I've become a different person since i've been with him. He's opened me up and if you can look pass your serious persona and look into her world you'll probably find the same thing i found in my hubbies universe and that is a life full of laughter and very very very loud times. We've had our share of problems and we lock horns a lot, but i wouldn't leave him for anyother man. She'll bring you much sunshine, but don't damper her good weather (we have a tendency to do that sometimes. The hardest part will be keeping yourself together and in good spirits.

bah, reminds me of me and my aries ex, gl mate.

just don't fall for the 'she's so sweet that she could never do (x)' over generalization. but try not to get paranoid.