Another Aries

Him: Is one of those for me?
Me: looks him up and down, sure which one do you want?
Him: he points the the Sprit
Him: you really would buy me a soda?
Me: sure, I would hope you do this same for me if I ask you
Him: sure
Me: walks up to the counter to pay for the soda's, digs in purse to get money
needed some more change, digs in purse for it.
Him: standing next to me writing something
He see me still looking for change and he said I get that for you
Me: no that's ok I can pay for it, I do have change
Him: I am gonna give you my number, I am singe, ive down the street, I am just up here chilllin,
Me: looking at him but still not concern,
Him: so you gonna call me?
Me: finally looks up and he is gorgeous, I start to smile, and take the number and say yes I will call you
Him: ok call me
Me: walks out the door with a big smile.

Later that night I leave my g/f house and feeling a bit tipsy so I called him, one to see if the number was right which is what I told him, and second I was not ready to go home it was like 930pm and I was feeling good. So I called and invited him outside to talk to me. Told him that I was intrigue with him and that was a first for me, because men are intrigue with me not me with them, so that blew me off course a bit.

he still did not give me an answer to my spontaneous act so then I said let me find out you are not spontaneous, then he said so where are you comeing from I told him, got in the subject of drinking and he says he drinks, Henny, Heinikens, etc, so he said ok give me ten mins and I will meet you out side. I stopped at the store and brought some Henny, and when I got there he was standing outside looking damn good.

He gets in my car and we started talking, he is mixed, black, spanish, and white come combination, he is light skinned, well lighter than me, tall and sexy, he used to run marathons, he has ran the marine corp marathon, and some other one.

Well during the couse of this outside date, I started touching him, holding his hand and kept catching myself, I don't know what it was but I just wanted to touch him I was touching all in the back of his head down his nect and he just let me and when I caught myself, I said I am just touching you like I known you for years and he said that was ok. Talked some more and then I lkissed him on the cheek and when home. He lives like 3min from my house.

I can' believe I am so intrigue with him. He likes, plays, resturants, clubs, His mother just passed he loves children, but hell I can't give him any and I told him that. The next moring when I got up I thought about my actions and decided I was going to call him again until he calls me. I might have been a little to forward.

He is a yournger Aries, 43 and me 45, He said is looking for someone to get to know and be with. I asked him why me and he said I look like a lot of fun. So true.

LMAO....roxi your are funny girl...I am 45 and he is 43....I was doing all the rubbing and touching, that is why I think I might have be a little to forward, and can't call him again until he calls me.

Girl I was on 3 months of no man no sex....

Well, he is light skinned with a really nice grain of hair...he has big eyes that stand out. He said that people think that he is ethiopian, and they say that because of his eyes. I think he said that his mother was of another race and his fathe was black. actually he just told me that he was mixed I never asked so when he said it the words just went right out of my head that is why I am not really sure. LOL

Well I will never know what our children would look like because I can't have any. and he never had any, but he loves children.

SL: "Well I will never know what our children would look like "

give the guy a bloody chance

LMAO

Ooops sorry...didn't read that properly..LOL

I was just basically trying to say you know when some women meet the guy, they are already thinking what the children will be called etc..

Theres an advert like that on tv here in the UK..never fails to crack me up

Wow..yeah he sounds like a dish!

So do you now AB...

😉

Archy me love...twins??

MM-

I made that comment because my tubes are tied, been tide for over 10 years. So I can't imagine what the children would look like.

Aprilbaby
I am not intrigue by him being mixed I told him I was intrigue before he told me he was mixed...Hell can't even remeber what exactly he is mixed with.

I really could care less about his family background of color. He just buried his mother a few weeks before I met him and he volunteered that info alos.

I have not intentions on pursueing this unless he is makeing an effort also. If any of you know anything about me by know. I have no problem walking away or giving up on something that I don't see necessary in my life.

Aries are HOT and they know it!

I did pick up some conciet in him not a lot though he seems more reserved, and modest and humble, I asked him that and he said yea.

What I do think about him that I feel like he will show me a good time, enjoy food, plays, music, and fun, and I am all for that.

We both believe that people come in our life for a reason, season a life time.

I just asked my Aries friend how he's celebrating his 31st birthday and he shot back with

"with a couple of prostitutes"..

LMAO

LOL..He says he's in the process of booking my ticket to fly me to the USA for his birthday..and he wants me to stand at the door in the morning..ready and waiting!..LMAO..you gotta love the Aries dudes..straight for the kill...

He's in NYC

Damn MM why could'nt he be in DC...I would stand at the door with you and prostitute.

LOL..bless his cotton boxers!...

Mmmmwah..i am outta here..

Night all muppettos

🙂

Nothing like a hot mixed aries. 😉

Hmmm...Seems itz going to be all Aries night on the scorp board 😉

those sexy aries men..oh my goodness! ::breath juicy, it's all in your head:: lol

LOL...Roxx U can only defer the inevitable 😉

LOL You can't resist!

And I am surrounded by your lot...

What is happening up there in the stars?..something weird is going down...

Ha-I've been fortunate enough not to run into any Aries. Which suits me just fine 😉 they're okay though. I have a couple of associates who are Aries. And only one "friend"

Scorpion Lady-So you are an Aries magnet huh mama? He sounds god awful cute! Why did he never have any children? I guess you guys haven't touched that subject yet huh?

At any rate-Good Luck! I hope he can get some of those 3 month juices running! I mean that in a good way of course!

Yeah I do have an overwhelming urge to date an Aries..

I actually can relate to Aries chicks a lot!..

I reckon the Mars part of scorpio defo rules the outward nature of the scorp ladies of the sign and pluto the man...

huh?

Karma

"Scorpion Lady-So you are an Aries magnet huh mama? He sounds god awful cute! Why did he never have any children? I guess you guys haven't touched that subject yet huh?

At any rate-Good Luck! I hope he can get some of those 3 month juices running! I mean that in a good way of course!"

Well, for the first time in my life I am not in rush to see the romantic side of this man, (I can't believe I actually feel this way) I have this strange feeling that I could possibly fall in love and I do n't know if I am ready for it I know it is way off but this man is someone I really would like to get to know.

Yall remember when I dated the older Aries, (just for sex), I think I may be intrigue to know how is a younger Aries, cuz the older one, I guess I expected more out of him, (communication) and he could not deliver, I did mention it to this new Aries, and I told him that I really need communication. He knows I was dating another Aries, but I believe in second chances.

Oh, when he asked me my sign he said "Please tell me you are not a Virgo" I said I am a Scorpio and he said "I figured that" I was like how so? He said that some people are born with gifts. Go figure

I still can't call him again, and maybe I could be making a mistake, but I don't want to seem pushy to forward, and his mother just past, I know, he probably needs a friend, in his time of need but, I feel the need to give him the space and if he really wants to get to know me he will call. It also has to do with him telling me he has had stalkers, so I know I won't be putting my self in any position for him to think that I am like that. (which I am not, and never have been)

I will keep yall posted.

aprilbaby

Yea he said that.

You are probably right with the connection of aries/scorpio, there is something about them that has me curious. I also see moody, and somewhat serious side to these types also. as far as the humor the ones I have come in contact with aren't really funny, my stepbrother, can be funny at times, be to me he is corny, my older aries friend, he use to tell stories that were corny to I just giggled to appease him but he was not funny to me, now me on the other had has cracked them up.

I know we all have mood swings but their's is obvious.

oh I have no problem with that. I did tell him that sometimes I get scared, especially falling in love, because I have not been in love in a long time. I have love, but loving and being in love is two different things to me and being in love, means my emotional being is devoted to him. That scares me, and I need to be sure absolutly sure. I feel in love with my sons father and end up being abused. I don't know if I can my heart so fully like that again. I am no spring chicken, getting older by the years, I know someone is out there for me, and my scorpio, antenna tells me its him. (frowns)

I am more than willing to take this as slow as we can possibly take it. The only way I know not to let him get away is to call him. I can't. I was thinking maybe he thinks I don't like him or maybe he is waiting for me to call him. I can't, I need for him to call me at least that way it will let me know that he made the effort.

I did tell him that I was not big on makeing alot of phone calls and that both parties if interested should do it and he agreed. I think maybe he is thinking do he want to pursue this, so I will make it easy for him and not stand in the way of his dicision.

Yeah and don't forget to let us know as soon as you have sex.

LOL....trust me caldibaci I am going to hold that off as long as possibly. Hell from what he told me has has not been with anyone in 4 months and me in 3, that is scary...very scary.

Mmmm yes, you are right. It is unlikely that when/if it happens you will be able to walk to a computer.

Well damn! 3 and 4 months is a long time to ya'll? I go without sex for months at a time! Because when my legs open feelings come out and I'm just not with giving my body to people who aren't appreciative.

At any rate this is not about me. I see not calling is a Scorpio thing for real! Glad to know that! I hope everything works out for you two. Yes please keep us posted. My ass is good and nosey! Details baby!

Especially since I am on hiatus. LOL!

Because sex is not the end all or be all...it's okay to go without it. Especially if you are not in a monogamous relationship. There are way to many diseases out here to be playing russian roulette with your life!

You will learn self control. Either voluntarily or involuntarily.

I first had sex at 15. 3 months is a long time for me. Because me not having sex is my decision.

Aprilbaby I am not doubting anything you say cuz it could all be possible. But here's the problem...MY Pride.....gets in the way of a lot of things.
I might call him by weeks in I don't know. But today I won't

yea yea I know, if it's meant to be it will be.

I have not felt this way in a long time. It is kinda scary, maybe I need to get some nerves up, and one day I will but not today, and I don't know about tommorrow but if he calls I think it will make it easier on me at least.

I am not really out for control although I love to be in control I am willing to give that up if it is worthit.

I don't think he will exploit me that's not a concern it's just that I don't think I should be the only one working for something, and I need him so show me that he is making an effort also. It has only been 3 days, lets give it a week and see what happens.

right. so on that note life goes on as if he never existed,

thanks you emeraldgem,

see that is why I can't hang with aprilbaby she want half I want all. LOL LMAO

Either I am or I am not I choose NOT.

LMAO...oh .that virgo....

Ok I went to dinner we sitting at the Red Lobster and he says to me...."are you gonna sleep with someone after this date? and I said "If the opportunity presents itself" and his eyes bugged out and I said what? Then I said unless you can give me something concrete, right know then it is free game. and he just looked...I spoke with him one time after that because he called to see if Mother Nature was still in town and then I said oh is that the only reason you hanging around and he said now he was just concern and I have not heard from him since.

So what I got out of this was......Have dinner with him, he have me submit to him he screw me and then treat me like crap. NOT...

I still love you anyway Aprilbaby......

I do appreiciate all you insight...and I will keep it all in mind. But, again my mind is made up so if I lose out then I guess I lose out. I will only look at it as it was never meant to be.

You know the old saying

"If you love someone let him go if he come back than it was meant to be".

I am not saying that I love him but I am willing to let him go so that he can find what he really wants and if for that moment he felt something for me and it changed after the 1st visit then I have to let it go.

yall understand, what I am saying

LOL girl you are funny....

Thanks alot.

*gives aprilbaby a big hugg*