At war with a Capricorn F, I'm a Scorp F

Hi all,

Basically, I'm at war with an insecure, jealous Cap that can't accept that my family went on with our lives and that we are fine. For her, that was not the goal.

It's a long story to how we got to this point, but she is my so called brother n laws gf.I think I am to the point of putting my hands around her neck.Last year after she contacted CPS on our family out of bitterness, we didn't say anymore to each other. As much as I wanted to retaliate I didn't.My morale just wouldn't let me and I moved on and my life got better.Apparently, she was watching and didn't like that. This year out of the blue she just up and starts an argument out of thin air. I mean seriously, I don't even talk to her. She went all out of her way just to have something, anything to say so she could argue. It's ridiculous. So since that point we have pretty much been passive aggressively bothering each other. She is constantly trying to embarrass and ruin the reputation of my family by posting lies on FB. This irritates me because we are from a small town where anything said is law to them, you have to really convince them that a rumor was just that, a rumor.I am getting pissed, I feel myself about to physically attack her in the most vicious way possible for old and new. I just want this to end so I can get back to more important things yet I'm not willing to play nice this year so I've been retaliating. I know myself and it's about to get ugly. I need a solution on how to get her to back off before the dark side of me emerges and she catches all hell that I've been holding in for everybody. She just will not go away. I have got to solve this, how do I get her to disengage and stop putting energy into this?

Posted by Kjk62
Keep doing what youre doing and dont feed the beast. Im not tryin to be corny but you cant fight hatred with more hate. Been around people like this, and embarrassingly/unfortunately my "dad" is like this.
They just want attention so they can play the victim card. I dont wanna keep talking out my ass because i dont know the whole scenario. Just stay strong and keep listening to your moral compass.

While I get I shouldn't approach hate with hate,I'm past that point.Intially, I ignored it because this is all her fault...

They lived in our home rent free for 2 years while talking crap behind our backs.She was upset that my husband refused to allow her to drive his vehicle. It was the only one we had and he made a good call cause she wrecked someone else's vehicle. This happened the same day she asked to borrow ours.She really just wanted her way no matter what and we were not hearing it. Kicking them out brought out the bitterness.It wasn't even personal for me, it was the principle.Don't bite the hand that feeds you,I live by that.You aren't going to crap on my name while using me for resources. From then on, she has been ticked.

Posted by FrenchKpricorn
find the reason why she hates your family,

I know why and am over it.She can't get over it. I read that Caps like to mirror behaviour to teach you a lesson.I would like to flip it and mirror hers.I am seriously considering videotaping her stalking behaviour and posting it everywhere and making horrible but brutally true memes and flooding the internet with them so everyone can know who she is and the crap she does.My bro n law swears it's me because he never gets to see what she's doing while he's at work. I want to expose and embarrass her.She's a big girl and I love to crack jokes. Should I mirror her behaviour to mess with her?I feel bad even thinking this,but oh well.