cap and anger

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Posted by nightvirgo8888


just my straightforwardness might have been threading on thin lines lately. he doesn't look too please but still haven't unleashed any vengeance ATM....



"Straightforwardness" is just code-speak for being blunt, insensitive & not thinking before speaking. Caps usually prefer tactfulness.

I often wonder why people try to provoke others just to see how angry they become. What purpose does it serve?
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Posted by nightvirgo8888
how do cap men act when they r angry?
what should I do if cap is angry?
what are some of the things that can make them angry?

in the context of cap sun with saggi moon?

thanks!



I'm not sure about a Cap sun with a Saggi moon, this is based on a Cap/Aqua sun, Aqua moon.

Contemplative, aggressive, brooding, and kind of sarcastic...

If he tells you he's angry, he probably wants you to reassure him in some way. It's when they don't say anything that it's a problem... In those cases, if you're not sure why, be consistent and calm. Give him space but be mature and try not to react to the silence. I know it's hard when it's abrupt no contact.

If you know why he's angry, and you think you're wrong, own up to it and say sorry. Try to explain and make amends. If you don't think you're wrong, tell him you sense some distance and ask if you can talk about it.

Some things that could make my Cap angry is when I don't trust him, and keep secrets from him. Our situation is fwb with him wanting a lot more so it's complicated.

Umm...with his friends..a lack of loyalty I think, but he seems to cut friends a lot of slack, and accept them once he trusts them.

With his employees he's harsh and gets mad at people asking in his opinion, "stupid"/obvious questions.

Also, people taking advantage of others. For example, he works at a charity that serves a lot of downtrodden people and he saw an ice cream truck go down their back alley selling treats to drug users who hang out there. He thought the driver was taking advantage of these people.I thought maybe the driver thought when's the last time these people got a chance to buy ice cream like this. Most ice cream trucks would avoid this part of town because it's dangerous and shady. Difference of opinion...he didn't argue when I said that but he also didn't agree.

Good luck, I think if a Cap cares about you, he will do his best to work it out and compromise! 🙂