Cap Men: To pursue or not?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Peanutbutter on Sunday, March 23, 2014 and has 29 replies.

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@Peanutbutter
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How would you react if the woman you were interested in romantically and were pursuing all gears ahead were to tell you she was afraid to fall in love?

Would you be disillusioned/upset and give up completely? Be understanding and remain by her side as a friend and win her trust slowly?

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16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Yeah.

If you need to specify this straight up rather than go with the flow and have some boundaries...then you're liable to play games.

I've never seen a chick go "you know I'm really afraid of falling in life" and NOT play the guy in the relationship.

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Posted by StillWater
Posted by Peanutbutter
How would you react if the woman you were interested in romantically and were pursuing all gears ahead were to tell you she was afraid to fall in love?

Would you be disillusioned/upset and give up completely? Be understanding and remain by her side as a friend and win her trust slowly?

that's cap woman language for that she is afraid of getting hurt and wants you to be extra careful and gentle with her feelings.

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Yes exactly. I wonder if your male fellow Caps will feel the same?

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Posted by RichCap
Sun Capricorn
Moon Capricorn
Mercury Capricorn
Venus Capricorn
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Cancer
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Sagittarius

Ascendant Leo 🙂

So you have first 4 planets in Cap and you spend tine on DXP instead of ruling the world?

They're opposed to the Saturn in Cancer so you must have had some hardships with work in your life.

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@Damnata
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Posted by eight67530nine
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Cardboard meets Waterfall - A Harlequin novel.

Shut it children of the corn.

I'm kidding, you're one of my favorite people on dxp.

You bubblegum blower, you.

That's not me, that would be Tom Ford. I'm not sure if that's bubblegum he's blowing, could be the tip of a Dick. I'll let you decide.

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Did you see A single man?

First I thought dick, then balloon, then I realised it's bubblegum

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Posted by CluelessCancer
SW do you think it would be weird to talk out my need for braces with the X Virgo? Not cause i want his money, but i'm not sure if i should be paying 6k, it seems like alot. My sister got hers done for only $ 1200.

i wonder why mine is turning out to be so pricey😢

Get your ass to Romania.

What a fucking rip off that price.

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@Damnata
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Posted by StillWater
No, you are feral because human beings raised with manners know that when you know someone's misfortune you do not use it against them to belittle them in public just to get couple of laughs.

Seriously? You mean like CC attacking me over my friends death and telling me my whole family should die?

Kinda like that?

No worries CC, I don't hold what you say when you're emotional against you but the hypocrisy gets to me.

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@Damnata
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Posted by StillWater
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No, you are feral because human beings raised with manners know that when you know someone's misfortune you do not use it against them to belittle them in public just to get couple of laughs.

Seriously? You mean like CC attacking me over my friends death and telling me my whole family should die?

Kinda like that?

No worries CC, I don't hold what you say when you're emotional against you but the hypocrisy gets to me.

This is not about you Romania. I'm talking about Sancho and her specific comment.

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I know dude but you were mentioning human behavior. Don't dish if you cannot take.

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@Damnata
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Yeah but it's easy to see she does it because she's really oversensitive so I cannot hold that against her.

I wish she could detach more though. This place gives her a lot of grief

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@Damnata
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Actually whatever you post on a board, is free for all.

If I didn't post about Aura's death, I would have no argument. But I did, so whatever comes from that..I cannot blame people.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

I know you're sorry CC, it's all good.

It's just a pity that all the nice things you say and some hilarious shit gets lost in the oversensitivity.

I think that's what makes people troll you. They poke at your sensitivity.

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

Yes but by blocking you never hear some insight that might help you in a situation.

I don't know your current block list / US constitution...just my perspective. That's why I'll never block someone on here.

What if they say smthg interesting and I miss it?

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Wow... well that looks lije it took quite a turn... you guys that was really boring, thankfully I skipped through it all. Lol.

Im gunna hand out the Attention seeking card now. Wonder who it will go to.....

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Posted by M
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Wow... well that looks lije it took quite a turn... you guys that was really boring, thankfully I skipped through it all. Lol.

Im gunna hand out the Attention seeking card now. Wonder who it will go to.....

LOL

Having skipped the thread myself, this is just a reply tp the OP.
When someone's afraid of falling in love they're liable to keep sabotaging the relationship...can't help it. A Cap gent could, or would ride it out...esp if you talk it out.Bbut most men know there needs to be something more solid there, if only you showing you're keeping it in check. Otherwise looking ahead a Cap is going to see nothing but fickle times ahead.

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Thanks M for the insight.. Also StillWater.. You are both right... Hmm.. time to reflect upon quite a few things..

I've been honest with my Cap so hopefully that accounts for something.. he understood that Im sure about him just generally cautious in matters of le heart..