Cap draws me in and kicks me back out.

If you saw my first post, you'd know that I'm having a "time" with my Capricorn. We got into an argument where I ended up apologizing and the only words she uttered was that she was speechless and that she would get back to me later about the situation. This was the day after Christmas.

She texted me 4 days later apologizing about not answering my text or my call (I only called and texted once) due to the bad signals in New Jersey (she was visiting family for the holidays) and said that she would talk to me about the situation as soon as she made it home on the 2nd.. I told her that it was fine and began telling her about my plans to come to her hometown so we could meet up and have a heart-to-heart talk. She seemed excited about our meeting and that was the end of our conversation. It's been 4 days now and I've heard nothing from her.


My question is, is she ignoring me and if so, wouldn't it be considerate for her to tell me that she just doesn't want to be together anymore (or ever)? I say that because when I confront her about the silent treatment and whatnot, she gets super defensive. But recently, she has admitted that she doesn't talk to me as much as she should.

What should I do?

I'm trying my best, but our meeting is this Thursday and I'd definitely need to hear from her before then. But thanks for your advice! I appreciate it! 🙂

Posted by champranger

Posted by Chelsey07
I'm trying my best, but our meeting is this Thursday and I'd definitely need to hear from her before then. But thanks for your advice! I appreciate it! 🙂

What would you do if you don't hear from her before then?

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I wouldn't be able to do much. I was just looking forward to see her and I'm hoping the feeling is mutual for her.

I say reach out to her and confirm plans.

Posted by truecap
I say reach out to her and confirm plans.

That's if she answers. She won't answer me.