Cap men- Advice needed

I dated this Cap back in winter for about 3 months and we weren't that serious because I was still not done with my ex and he seemed to not mind it too much. Anyways, I got jealous of him one day and ended it (he was flirting with another girl in front of me). I didn't blame him, but it seemed that way.

Since then, he has been calling me every month, or sometimes every week and inviting me to places. A few weeks ago I texted him that I don't believe he even likes me and he said he would never chase a girl like this for 6 months and that he feels sorry for how he treated me and he misses me.

Now he wants us to go on a holiday together.

It was so odd to me that he would flirt with other girls or sometimes treat me more like a friend than a lover when we were together that I said to myself 'I am definitely an object to him and nothing more' but am I misinterpreting something here ?

Could have been playing the jealousy game to test you.
Could have had air placements acting up.

If you don't want him, shut it down.
If you do, say that you won't tolerate that kind of game crap. Happens again, don't look back and move on.

So you were dating this guy and your ex at the same time, but got jealous because boy toy #1 flirted with another girl.

Makes sense.

Captenn, the difference was that I made it quite clear that I was crazy about this guy and I wasn't really seeing my ex often. And I never brought him up while I was with him. It was all about him.

Posted by beggarsblanket
Captenn, the difference was that I made it quite clear that I was crazy about this guy and I wasn't really seeing my ex often. And I never brought him up while I was with him. It was all about him.

If you were still seeing your ex (no matter how often), it's impossible to be all about the beau on the side.

Just too funny...

What sign are you beggars?

You weren't completely there for him and he wasn't completely there for you.
Seems fair.

Getting jealous... not so much.

Make a fresh start if you want but lay some ground rules.

I'm a scorpio 😛

He has aqua moon and venus. Maybe he is pursuing me because I'm acting so aloof ?

Could it be that he is feeling guilty ? He is a hot guy and he is very social, so why me ? Why not just let me go ?

Posted by beggarsblanket
I'm a scorpio 😛

He has aqua moon and venus. Maybe he is pursuing me because I'm acting so aloof ?

Could it be that he is feeling guilty ? He is a hot guy and he is very social, so why me ? Why not just let me go ?

Guilty for what? He did nothing wrong based on what you've said here.

I don't understand.

I don't know either but he says he feels sorry for the way he treated me and says that I deserve better.

So basically, he's saying that before, it was only sex for him? A FWB, so to speak?

You can always give him another chance to treat you better, if that's what you want.

Yeah I guess.

It's ridiculous right now. We talk on the phone, or I text him that it's over and then ignore his calls and texts. But then he calls again or texts again and I feel like I have to reply, at least in a friendly way..

He doesn't give up 😢 and that makes me even more miserable because I'm trying to forget him.