AriesAlways
@AriesAlways
8 Years
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My Capricorn and I rushed into each other after fancying each other for 2/3 months (while he had a gf). He had plans to go to Skye but we both agreed to be casual...
We fell into one another, went on holiday together, still weren't sleeping together as much as he wanted to caus I knew he was leaving!
But now it's time for him to go and he doesn't want a gf. Now I've never mentioned a relationship to him (it's always been him saying we're dating and showing people around us that I'm him ect) but I think it's for a few reasons:
1. He had left his previous gf in the dust in a way...and just yesterday he had to go collect his belongings from her and she hates him which really hurt him and made him feel bad for going out with me so soon.
2. We have moved too fast for him...he's told me that he's fallen for me the fastest he's ever fallen for anyone and the more time we spent together the more in love with me he is (genuinely I was shocked too...)
3. Everyone in our village/work pals/close friends thinks we're gf and bf and this is pressuring him to be that - although I've never asked it of him
4. He's worried that having someone by his side while up there will hold him back - take away from his freedom and alone time.
Now we haven't fallen out, argued or gotten emotional - just talked! And he's said that he DOES like me, and misses me when I'm not around but that he doesn't want a relationship rn and needs time.
So my questions are: Does anyone relate to this situation? Will he maybe come back to me once his head is clearer? And is this testing me...to see if I'll stay loyal while he's away?
I'm an aries, moon in Capricorn and rising Leo