Cappy stay friends with ex?

Any Caps still friends with their ex?

Oooooooo. I try to, but it gets too awkward after some time. And also feelings could always return.

I am with my two recent ex gf's Scorpio more recent Pisces but thats still fresh.

I have heard from some friend Caps that once they decide the relationship is over.. their mind is made up.
If that is true, I just wondered if that left room for friendship.

That is true from the moment we say its over you will know that we meant it because we will try to make a relationship work if we choose to break up with you its pretty bad.There is always room for friendship and it depends on how the relationship ended as well. If you were friends before you got together there is definitely possibility.

You want a clear example of "It's over", you should see my Cancer/Gemini ex, and Scorpio ex. I couldn't do friendship with em. Just no.

Posted by EmoFish
I have heard from some friend Caps that once they decide the relationship is over.. their mind is made up.
If that is true, I just wondered if that left room for friendship.

I suppose it depends on how the break up goes down. Betray me and I'll never ever aknowledge you again. If it's a mutual or no hard feelings breakup, then sure, why not?

There was always something in that person that was likeable enough to date. Usually they still have those qualities, so yeah. Just because it didn't work out, doesn't mean they're not friend worthy.

Usually some time has to pass though before a real friendship sets in.

But as far as romantic feelings, if we decide we're done, we're usually done with that.

If it's a mutual or no hard feelings breakup, then sure, why not?

Agree with this ^^^^^^

Until the next swingin dick steps in......then I'm out. 😉

^^ Yeah, it's hard to be friends with a guy when you're in a relationship.

Posted by truecap
^^ Yeah, it's hard to be friends with a guy when you're in a relationship.

I'll admit it if no other guy will, and that is .......

Even if the break up was mutual or the male's decision to break it off, a guy never stops viewing that woman as "HIS".

Even if you don't want her, you don't want anyone else to have her either. Once she starts dating again, it's time to cut the cord.

CapTenn-
that actually does make a lot of sense.
I have actually never broken up with anyone. I always think I can make it work. And possibly my aquarius venus speaking.. but I would have kept them all. My own harem of men... they were all special...
And I hate to lose special people.

NO..... but i think about 2 Virgo's that is was PASSIONATELY IN LOVE WITH and i mean MAD IN LOVE

Posted by EmoFish
they were all special...
And I hate to lose special people.

I can understand your point of view.

I have a Venus in Sag. I believe I read somewhere once that this placement has the naive idea that you can always go back to just being friends... which I do believe is possible. In fact I have stayed friends with pretty much all the women I dated.
Staying friends after breaking up though? I don't know. Happened maybe once.
I thinks she was a whole lot more heartbroken than I was. :/

Posted by TigerCap
I have a Venus in Sag. I believe I read somewhere once that this placement has the naive idea that you can always go back to just being friends... which I do believe is possible. In fact I have stayed friends with pretty much all the women I dated.
Staying friends after breaking up though? I don't know. Happened maybe once.
I thinks she was a whole lot more heartbroken than I was. :/

Thanks. His venus is Sag too.