How do Caps flirt?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by saqua on Friday, February 7, 2014 and has 23 replies.

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@saqua
12 Years

I've read that caps don't do lots of staring. Recently a cap guy shows interests in me. He mostly just stares a lot. He tries to catch my eye contact and sit closer to me in class.

I looked up his chart and every thing about him is pretty much cap (venus, mars, sun, mercury, uranus, neptune).

So hm, how am i supposed to interpret this?

I am a cap venus myself and it takes a lot for me to approach a person

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@saqua
12 Years

any other signs i should look for? Do very cappy caps flirt with people they are seriously interested in?

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13 Years1,000+ Posts

I don't know anything about the one I might date's chart, but besides her constant staring, when I first saw her, she winked and smiled at me for what I felt was no parricular reason. She kept on doing this until I started talking to her. When she knows I should be around, she looks for me, and always finds some way of getting to where I should be so we can talk. All her coworkers know she wants me because she just couldn't keep it to herself. 😆 She hasn't told me with words, but it's just too obvious. Maybe it's because we are the same element.

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@saqua
12 Years

Ok. Y'all haven't answer my questions though. Would a cappy cap just approach people they are interested in long-term relationships or casual ones?

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by saqua
Ok. Y'all haven't answer my questions though. Would a cappy cap just approach people they are interested in long-term relationships or casual ones?

Short answer: yes.

I dated a Sun, Moon, Merc, Venus, Mars, Uranus, and Neptune Capricorn guy briefly over the summer.. No joke - virtually every planet was Cappy. He was very talkative and straightforward.. Pretty much from the get-go. Might have been all those conjunctions.. Idk.

Of course, he's the only person I've known with that much Cap; so it might vary from individual to individual.

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@saqua
12 Years

Posted by PuraLeo
Wait.....but you got the info to look up his chart, right? How did that go down?

is this a question for me?

His birthday was recently so I just look up. I don't know his asc though

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Posted by saqua
Ok. Y'all haven't answer my questions though. Would a cappy cap just approach people they are interested in long-term relationships or casual ones?

Mine approached; with friendship of course. But he was persistent as hell, he chased, I analyzed making sure it was the right thing to do. We went from friends, to dating, from dating to being official and we have been together now for almost ten years.

We did take a break from each other. Either way, we are a stronger unite because of it. We get along really well; we are both big kids at heart. Know when to play; when to work hard, and over all we have lots of fun together.

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@PuraLeo
13 Years

Gotcha..

Caps I've dated have no problem staring. I've seen some hide their stares when they're sizing up a love interest they're evaluating.

If he's interested nothing will stop him from making something happen. Nothing.

Thing is a younger Cap is different than an established Cap in his approach, in my opinion.

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@lnana04
15 Years5,000+ Posts

I get extremely shy when i like someone. I actually ignore and avoid them somewhat...to prevent from making a fool out of myself.

Kristin Cavallari(Cap) says she does it too and she is known for being very flirtatious. She said when she really likes someone she gets shy, so thats the indicator...her claming up.

Ive seen it with Cap males too, so idk. Its like when some of us are interested we hide it.

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@saqua
12 Years

@soultalk: hm... i think staring is flirting...awkward flirting that is.
@Inana04: I feel ya. I have cap stellium and I am generally shy to people but I'll help people I like.
@puraleo: thank you for your input. This guy seems like that. He plays baseball too so he is competitive. He has a Libra moon. Though i'd assume that since he is so cappy, he's less confused like other libra moons.
@Saggitarius2315: I hope we can start with friendship. People my generation has cap planets conjunct neptune and uranus so we are somewhat different.

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by saqua
I've read that caps don't do lots of staring. Recently a cap guy shows interests in me. He mostly just stares a lot. He tries to catch my eye contact and sit closer to me in class.

I looked up his chart and every thing about him is pretty much cap (venus, mars, sun, mercury, uranus, neptune).

So hm, how am i supposed to interpret this?

I am a cap venus myself and it takes a lot for me to approach a person

Well, lots of eye contact. The eyes say a lot!

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Caps will observe for a while and watch you to try to figure out what type a person you are. They, they might use eye contact to determine whether their advances would be receptive or not. Caps aren't very willing to risk rejection, so a cap needs to know their efforts will be received before they make a move.

But, do not ever question whether a capricorn will go after what they want. If they want you, they will definitely go after you.