Capricon Communication Thread

As promised, a (hopefully) foray in to the secrets of communicating with Goat love interest.

Please feel free to chime in on the following;

1) What method of communication do you prefer,

2) How important is response time

3) How to communicate with a Cappy who is angry

4) " " " or sad

5) " " " or cold

6) Are you a robot

All jokes aside though, communication (or miscommunication) is a common problem affecting relationship regardless of astrology. If you have any insights to help out in this area, please feel free to jump in as well.

Fire away...

Posted by daron76
As promised, a (hopefully) foray in to the secrets of communicating with Goat love interest.

Please feel free to chime in on the following;

1) What method of communication do you prefer,

2) How important is response time

3) How to communicate with a Cappy who is angry

4) " " " or sad

5) " " " or cold

6) Are you a robot

All jokes aside though, communication (or miscommunication) is a common problem affecting relationship regardless of astrology. If you have any insights to help out in this area, please feel free to jump in as well.

Fire away...

not sure what to say - but in reading your last paragraph I must reiterate that expectations are the major cause of a relationship disaster and the only way to appease the expectation king is to communicate

that said - Caps should love this aspect - however I find myself needing space just to not talk and not think and not do - anything - just to re-group ... that is important and established upfront in my "relationships" ...

Posted by tcta

Posted by daron76
As promised, a (hopefully) foray in to the secrets of communicating with Goat love interest.

Please feel free to chime in on the following;

1) What method of communication do you prefer,

2) How important is response time

3) How to communicate with a Cappy who is angry

4) " " " or sad

5) " " " or cold

6) Are you a robot

All jokes aside though, communication (or miscommunication) is a common problem affecting relationship regardless of astrology. If you have any insights to help out in this area, please feel free to jump in as well.

Fire away...

not sure what to say - but in reading your last paragraph I must reiterate that expectations are the major cause of a relationship disaster and the only way to appease the expectation king is to communicate

that said - Caps should love this aspect - however I find myself needing space just to not talk and not think and not do - anything - just to re-group ... that is important and established upfront in my "relationships" ...

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Agreed. I need the space and the trust. The space for the same reasons you mentioned and the trust that I'm going to address the issue with them once I have had time to process things. I also like to let people know that about me upfront as well... seems to help--- a little lol

Capricorn communication is an oxymoron 😛

I'm just trolling. I heart you guys 🙂

Never assume anything. Want an answer? Ask a question.

Posted by Capri-sun
1) Face to face

2) Depends. Mainly on the stage of the relationship and context of the communication

3) How to communicate with a Cappy who is angry... don't. It's best to leave me alone until I have processed it and am ready to talk. Leave a message, I am most likely listening/reading, doesn't mean you'll get a response. If we're arguing then at any point feel free to explain your side and I'll try to be understanding. Don't yell or cuss at me because at that point I'll be ignoring anything you say after that and I'll shut down.

4) " " " or sad... Hugs, kisses, space...it will pass on it's own, words of encouragement, just be gentle.

5) " " " or cold...ugh...give me time or again gentle and caring, if I'm unresponsive after a couple of times then it's not looking to good for you.

6) Are you a robot. Nope

lol I'm gonna enjoy reading this thread

Posted by pinkbird03
Never assume anything. Want an answer? Ask a question.

Best. Answer. EVER!!!

Posted by -elle-
From the experience with mine...I will offer insight from an observer. Tell me how I am doing 😄

Posted by daron76


1) What method of communication do you prefer,

He prefers face or face. However, he occasionally pelts me with adorably cryptic texts. Phone is rare...which is good because I don't like phone either

2) How important is response time

We have never really fallen into a pattern....it's whenever we notice a text or have time in our day. Texts are not conversation or even questions. We use them to talk about our day and sometimes mushy "I miss you" stuff (if I am out of town for work or holiday). They are always statements. No need to respond, really...just acknowledge.

3) How to communicate with a Cappy who is angry

Actually, he has not gotten angry at me. I have with him...lol. You just don't. LOL. Time (silent time) usually works. He is a pisces moon....so, conflict bugs him. When I am pissy for whatever flavour of the day...he just stands back until I get over myself.

4) " " " or sad

He likes hand holding, hugs, cuddles....and to talk it out. I don't pry. If I stay silent it comes pouring out. He also journals. He finds that helps his water moon feels.

5) " " " or cold

Cold? We share the blanket? 😛

J/k...I don't get that anymore. Our first time around...I would just go do my own thing til he thawed out

6) Are you a robot

I wouldn't describe him that way ever. Nonchalant. Unexpressive. Not so empathetic to feels. An older version of himself, yes....but he was unhappy about things that had nothing to do with me.

He absolutely hates to see me cry. He will leave until he knows I am done and then talk me thru it.

I was upset a few months back over a family thing and he called me right in the middle of me crying in the starbucks parking lot. I was several states away...and alone. He calmly said..."When you are finished, call me back and we will talk". I was offended for a second...but realised that I did need to gather myself before he could offer any advice I would actually listen to.

If you have any insights to help out in this area, please feel free to jump in as well.

We have a third house stellium in Sag.... in our composite. Communication is supposed to be a little tricky. Knowing this has helped me step back when it's appropriate...because we can get lost in translation. That helps alot.

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Brilliant, absolutely brilliant post!!! Will be directing other Scorps to this.

I don't mind seeing my lady cry-- its my cue to shut up, hold tight and listen. Maybe that's the Cancer moon working... who knows lol

Posted by daron76

Posted by tcta

Posted by daron76
As promised, a (hopefully) foray in to the secrets of communicating with Goat love interest.

Please feel free to chime in on the following;

1) What method of communication do you prefer,

2) How important is response time

3) How to communicate with a Cappy who is angry

4) " " " or sad

5) " " " or cold

6) Are you a robot

All jokes aside though, communication (or miscommunication) is a common problem affecting relationship regardless of astrology. If you have any insights to help out in this area, please feel free to jump in as well.

Fire away...

not sure what to say - but in reading your last paragraph I must reiterate that expectations are the major cause of a relationship disaster and the only way to appease the expectation king is to communicate

that said - Caps should love this aspect - however I find myself needing space just to not talk and not think and not do - anything - just to re-group ... that is important and established upfront in my "relationships" ...

Agreed. I need the space and the trust. The space for the same reasons you mentioned and the trust that I'm going to address the issue with them once I have had time to process things. I also like to let people know that about me upfront as well... seems to help--- a little lol

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and for the ones that don't understand - the rest is history - lol ...